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Ashlei Schwendinger Obituary

Ashlei K. Schwendinger, age 49, of Dubuque, passed away on Thursday, September 11, 2025, at home surrounded by her loving family after a courageous battle with cancer. To celebrate Ashlei's life, family and friends may visit from 3:00 p.m. until 6:00 p.m., on Wednesday, September 17, 2025, at Behr Funeral Home, 1491 Main Street. Funeral services will be held at 6:00 p.m., on Wednesday at the funeral home. Burial will be at a later date.

Ashlei was born on August 1, 1976, in Florida.

Ashlei graduated from high school and then attended Hawkeye Community College. She married the love of her life, Paul Schwendinger, October 20, 2006, in Prairie du Chein, Wisconsin. Ashlei was an extremely devoted wife and mom. Her family meant the world to her and she truly loved taking care of everyone. Ashlei enjoyed entertaining and always looked forward to hosting the family's annual Christmas cookie exchange. She was also a dedicated worker who was employed as an IT Specialist at UnityPoint Health. In her free time, Ashlei and Paul loved spending time together in the kitchen making new recipes. She also liked spending time outside and working in her gardens. She was a homebody who liked to watch movies, root for the Green Bay Packers, and anything Baby Yoda. She was an avid reader and enjoyed playing video games on her phone, especially Pokémon Go. Ashlei was a wonderful wife, mom and friend and will be greatly missed.

Those left to cherish Ashlei's memory include

her husband,

Paul Schwendinger, Dubuque, IA;

2 children,

Bailey Schwendinger

and Brian Schwendinger, both at home;

her mother,

Brenda Rountree;

and her mother-in-law,

Debrea (John) Freisinger, East Dubuque, IL.

Ashlei's family would like to thank the nurses and staff of Hospice of Dubuque and Palliative Care for their wonderful care and support.

Cards and memorials in Ashlei's memory may be mailed to Behr Funeral Home, 1491 Main Street, Dubuque, Iowa 52001, Attn. Ashlei Schwendinger Family.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Boston Globe on Sep. 13, 2025.

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