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Sgt. 1st Class Adrian M. Elizalde

Adrian M. Elizalde Obituary

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Published by The Gazette on Aug. 26, 2007.

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Michael LaMoy

November 11, 2021

Adrian and I were in the 82nd, he was in 1st Platoon and I was in the 3rd and 2nd Platoon. I recall him going to Scouts. When I was in Okinawa I heard of his death. All my heart and best wishes go to his family.

Josh M

August 23, 2016

3/325, Lets Go! Miss you amigo!

Josh Moore

August 23, 2015

This would have been your last year before you could have dropped your retirement packet. Here's to your brother, Adrian the high school wrestling coach!

July 6, 2015

I'm Sending my condolences to the Elizalde family, sorry for your loss. Please find comfort in Gods word. Micah 4:3,4

gabe alvitre

June 2, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss and have been for years. Adrian and I were in basic and Airborne school together before heading to Bragg...Please feel free to call me...480-720-8653

gabe alvitre

June 2, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss and have been for years. Adrian and I were in basic and Airborne school together before heading to Bragg...Please feel free to call me...480-720-8653

Josh Moore

August 23, 2014

Another year brother. I was thinking of you and the time we did buffer rodeo in the barracks. Always the first to do some crazy idea we'd come up with.

Josh Moore

August 23, 2013

I miss you Ez, every day.

Peggy Childers

August 23, 2013

To the family and friends of Sgt. 1st Class Adrian M. Elizalde:
Always remembering Adrian. "Some gave all."

Lynne Neibert

March 17, 2013

Prayer Shawls 4 Fallen Soldiers ([email protected]) is an organization with groups throughout the country who work to send handmade prayer shawls and/or lap robes to families who have lost a loved one while serving our country. Members of Trindle Spring Lutheran Church would like to extend our sincere sympathy and to honor your son's sacrifice and memory by sending our prayers and comfort through a prayer gift which will be mailed to you. If you are interested, please contact me at [email protected] with the names and addresses of those who would like to receive one and which gift they would like to receive. We will send our gift as soon as possible. Also, if you know of any other families who are grieving the loss of a loved on who died while serving our country, please pass along my e-mail address. May God bless you and comfort you in the days ahead. Sincerely, Lynne

RICK ROOS

February 24, 2013

SENDING HEALING PRAYERS FROM ONE GOLD STAR FAMILY TO ANOTHER. GOD BLESS. SGT.RICK ROOS & FAMILY USMC

January 14, 2013

In memory and honor of Adrian.

SFC Ryan Quintard

May 21, 2012

" Saint Michael the Archangel,
defend us in battle.
Be our protection against the wickedness and snares of the devil.
May God rebuke him, we humbly pray;
and do Thou, O Prince of the Heavenly Host -
by the Divine Power of God -
cast into hell, satan and all the evil spirits,
who roam throughout the world seeking the ruin of souls.

Amen.

I thank you everyday for saving my life, if it had not been for you I would not be here. Think about you often, and hope one day we too will meet again. RTLW!

Peggy Childers

August 23, 2011

To the family and friends of Sgt. 1st Class Adrian M. Elizalde:
Please accept my remembrance of Adrian on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

Josh Moore

August 2, 2011

I think of you often Easy, wondering if I am deserving enough of my life and the people who surround me.

Santiago Hurtado

May 21, 2011

Adrian, eres un vardadero heroe y ejemplo, Dios nos bendijo cuando te trajo al mundo. Te admiro, te respeto y siempre estas en mis plegarias.

Bobbi Manning

January 31, 2011

Adrian will forever be a light burning in my heart.

January 30, 2011

Happy birthday Adrian. We all miss you!

East & West Coast Parents

Jack & Marilyn Tully

January 30, 2011

Sending birthday wishes to you, Adrian. I know that you and Mike are celebrating together and that is a comfort to us all.

Peggy Childers

August 23, 2010

To the family and friends of Sgt. 1st Class Adrian M. Elizalde:
Remembering Adrian on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Adam & Jennifer Ellsworth

July 27, 2010

We knew Adrian when we were at Bragg the first time. He was a great man and a great soldier. We left for Germany and came back to Bragg. My husband saw him again out in the field after being away for three and a half years. He was so excited to see Adrian again. That was the last time he got to see him. He was a true hero and a great person. Our prayers go out to the family

Lee Speer

June 27, 2010

I am truly blessed to have had the opportunity to serve and live with you for all to brief a time. I miss your infectious smile and tapping me out in 30 seconds or less. I was fortunate enough to share your wedding day with Beth and both of you were positively radiant with joy and promise. You will never be forgotten. I truly am blessed for the short period of time we had together. You will always be with me! - Lee Speer C/Co 3/325 AIR

Jim (Teammate)

October 1, 2009

To the family and friends of Adrian:
I want to offer my most sincere sympathy to you for the loss of Adrian. I am not sure if you all know, but when Adrian and Tully were killed by the IED array in Iraq, several others were injured. I was severly injured in the blast as well and was sitting behind Tully and to the left and back of Adrian. The explosive penetrator came within an inch of killing me and ripped off a large portion of my nose and face. The penetrator which missed me by an inch, impacted Adrian, Tully was hit with the second one. Not a day goes by when I don't miss Adrian and Tully and wonder why them and not me...only God knows I guess. I have since recovered and am once again on the line, not a day goes by where I forget why I am out here or forget to hug my kids, kiss my wife and tell them I love them (unless deployed of course). Adrian and Tully will not have sacrificed in vain. To Adrian's family and friends, I am sorry I have not expressed my grief and appreciation prior to this...I find it hard to face you. If the penetrator had passed only one inch further back it would have been me, not Adrian. I hope you can forgive my weakness and can accept my heartfelt gratitude.
Audentis Fortuna Juvat

Peggy Childers

August 23, 2009

To the family of Sgt. 1st Class Adrian M. Elizalde:
Adrian gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Rachel Stappler

February 1, 2009

Adrian I didn't know that my son shared a birthday with you. I hope that someday he will live to be as strong, brave and witty as you were. You are greatly missed yet an inspiration to many.

Heather Tully-Farkas

January 30, 2009

I have never had the pleasure of meeting Adrian but am blessed that he was my brother's friend and that they went to heaven....together. Happy Birthday Adrian.

Marilyn Tully

January 30, 2009

Adrian, you and your loving family are always in our thoughts and prayers, but especially today because it is your birthday. I found this poem and read it often. The words provide a source of comfort and I hope it will do the same for your family and friends.

"I give you this one thought to keep~
I am with you still, I do not sleep.

I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.

When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift, uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.

Do not think of me as gone~
I am with you still, in each new dawn."

(Native American poem)

Sent with our love and utmost respect - Your East Coast Family - Marilyn and Jack Tully

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December 15, 2008

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Jay Rekow

September 21, 2008

I went to Halo school with Adrian back in 2002. We went to California to visit his family for one of the weekends. We sat, drank a few beers and told stories.

He asked me all kinds of questions because I was already in SF and had been to afghanistan. He had aspirations of going SF while I was still trying to go to Ranger school. We laughed about how neither one of us would have a problem with whatever we wanted to do. I told him he was the kind of guy I would want to serve with.

I hadn't talked to Adrian since that time. Time passes by and it only seems like yesterday is when you last talked to someone. I wish I would'nt have told him to go SF.

I was trying to get ahold of Adrian around AUG 07, before I went on another tour to Iraq in OCT 07. Hell, I didn't even know he was in Iraq. Tell you the truth, I didn't even know he was in SF.

I laugh sometimes, because I always talked of Adrian to my wife as if we were the greatest of long time friends. THAT...is the impression he made on me.

I was eating dinner in Clarksville TN, Ft. Campbell, and I told my wife that I thought I had seen Adrian...just missed him I thought. This was towards the end of August.

I found out Adrian was gone when I walked into a team house in southern Iraq in OCT 2007 and saw his picture memorialized on a wall. A fricken wall.

I didn't know Adrian beyond Halo school, but I am ashamed that I missed out on a great friendship.

We walk to honor two American heroes.

Marilyn and Jack Tully

August 25, 2008

Saturday, August 23 our group of 16 walked in remembrance and honor of our son, Michael Tully, and you, his friend and brother-in-arms. We value the friendship and love we share with your parents and sister. We only wish we could have had the opportunity to get to know you as well. We will never forget you Adrian and are thankful that Mike called you friend. We will honor your memory always and carry you in our hearts.

In Memory of Adrian Marcos ~ (Debra Estep)

August 23, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Adrian, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol



Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b

Arla Ford

August 9, 2008

We still think of you guys as you navigate your journey. This kind of grief hurts so much. I still get tears easily thinking of our neighbor boy and friend, so I cannot imagine the buckets of tears you must have accumulated by now--even though we have hope for a greater future. Hugs to you.

July 3, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt 1st Class Elizalde!

Ryan McGovern

June 30, 2008

My deepest sympathies to all those affected by the loss of Adrian. SFC Elizalde was my first Team Leader in the Army, and he went above and beyond to pass along his knowledge to me and make me a better a soldier. Besides being one of the finest NCO's I've ever met, he was a great friend and one of the few men I met during my time in the service who I truly respected. But I'm pretty sure I was still the better wrestler. Just kidding, he always kicked my butt.

Kim Francki

June 2, 2008

To the Elizalde family ~ I never really knew Adrian that well, but I knew of him all through school, as well as his sister Rachel. I remember, like everyone is saying here, what a smiley, happy young man he was. Now that I am older, I understand what a sweet, wonderful quality he had. I know I am a little late with my post, but I have been thinking of him a lot as I frequently route by his childhood home which is close to my parents. My condolences and grievances are with your family .

The sunsets on a fallen hero,only to rise again so we may remember

January 19, 2008

Ronnie Pullen

January 19, 2008

Jorge,
It broke my heart today when you told me of the loss of your beloved son. My heart aches just thinking of the heart ache that you, Terri and Rachel will have to endure for the rest of your lives.
I can only hope that my children will out live me. Tears stream down my face with the thought of losing one of my daughters.
You should be very proud that Adrian died doing what he so much believed in, which was defending his country. I never met nor did I know him, but after reading the entries in the guest book here, I have come to know what kind of a man he must have been. A man this country can be proud of, a man that I am proud of, a man who's Father I am proud to have worked with.
Jorge,Terri and Rachel
If you ever need anything or any help in anyway, don't hesitate to contact me, and if your ever even close to our home, be sure and stop by. We have plenty of room for you to stay with us, and you certainly are welcome. All our love, Ronnie & Robin Pullen

marty hester

January 4, 2008

Like Clayton Ainsworth I did all my initial training with Adrian. The 3 of us spent a lot of time together and I can truly say Adrian was a man eveyone wanted to be like and a friend that everyone deserves to have. I will miss him deeply.

Ryan Armstrong

January 4, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of Adrian's passing. Words don't lessen the pain felt, but know my prayers are with your family. The thing I remember most from High School is that smile. To see now the man the boy grew into, nothing can change that. You did well in raising him. RIP Adrian.

what a smile!!

December 7, 2007

Clayton Ainsworth

November 21, 2007

I had the plearsure of being Adrians' battle buddy in basic, AIT, and RIP.. we were friends at Bragg as well when he was married to Beth. My wife and her were friends . We always wrestled together and I made fun of how tight his pants were. What a guy. Deeply missed.

Jeff Schnell

November 14, 2007

To the Family of "EZ" and all of his friends....
I grieve with you, unfortunetly I was just informed on Veterans Day. I have been searching every website I can to read all I can and have found exactly what I experienced in Basic Training and as his roommate when we first got to Bragg!!!! Pure Adrenaline!! Adrian was my best friend at C-Co 3/325 AIR!! My fondest memory is the night we showed up at the "Palomino" 3 hours early for a David Allan Coe concert, and Adrian & I got to have the honor of sitting down and drinking a beer with our hero DAC!!! I can't remember how many BBQ's and poker nights we had at his place. When he asked me to be in his wedding, even though as Privates in the barracks we barely made enough to get by on, I did not hesitate one second to book a flight. Not only was it an honor for me to be there in my Class A's, I had to go see this infamous Coos Bay and Eugene Oregon that he rambled on about all the time. I remember when we would go out for field excersises he would challange anybody to wrestle him. His very first taker was Larry Davis, a 6' 3", 200lbs plus football player, Adrian flat out suplexed Davis into a mud puddle, got up and asked him if he wanted some more ;), Larry retreated with a "NO!!". I never saw anybody outwrestle him.

Adrain was.... NO ADRIAN IS AND ALWAYS WILL BE A HERO!!

SPC. Schnell, Jeff
C-Co & HHC 3/325 A.I.R
1996-2001

Steven I, Elizalde

November 8, 2007

MY Name is SGT Steven Ignacio Elizalde A btry 1/182 FA also in Iraq for 2nd Time also nickname EZ, I never met your Son My best whichs and regards to all the family members

SFC Kevin Mayes

October 25, 2007

SFC Adrian M. Elizalde is and always will be my hero. I served with SFC Elizalde in 3/325 Scouts from the time I was a Pvt to a SPC. All I every wanted to do was be like EZ. I remeber when he came home from Ranger School he gave me a tab, this is your drive on tab. That meant more to me than anything else anybody had every done for me. All I can think is god must have wanted one of the best soldier in the Army on his side and took him home. You will always be in my heart and mind EZ.

Larry Blackford

October 1, 2007

I served with EZ in Iraq with LRSC. He and I shared a lot of great times. We were in our first fire fight together. I will always remember his hyperness. Adrain, I guess this means we'll rendezvous at the final rally point.

Arla Ford

September 20, 2007

Dear Elizalde Family and Friends,
We continue to experience sorrow, sadness and pain over the earthly loss of our friend, Adrian. I cannot imagine the depth of overwhelming pain for you, the family. Love hurts so much, but I am so thankful that your love and respect for one another was so deep and profound. We have such fond memories of Adrian hanging out at our house. We have some great videos of him and Ryan and Darren protecting us from 4 raccoons that lined up at our back patio door. Ruthie was so very concerned that we would "let them come in," but never fear, we had Adrian and the boys armed with BB guns and baseball bats to protect us. Our yard saw lots of games of hide and seek, tag, and kick the can after dark. One special memory was when I fearfully allowed my firstborn, Ryan, spend the night at his friend's house after a home football game. I woke up at midnight worried that maybe they had not gotten home and it was now too late to call to check. I tried to pray and find peace, but I kept remembering what I did sneaking around at that age... When Ryan got home the next morning, he explained that they had not gotten to sleep until 4am (oh no, nothing good happens after midnight!) but that was okay because they had stayed up with Adrian's mom reading the book of Revelation out loud! (Yeah, that's what I thought you were probably doing! not!)
We were touched by the testimonies of this young man's dedication to his daughter, family, and country.
I don't know how people navigate the trecherous waters of grief and loss, but I know that you will. I know God will send people, memories, and glimpses of hope for your journey. He will remind you that we are HIS and once in a while you will experience comfort. We will pray grit and courage for you, hugs and peace.
Thank you.
warmly,
Arla and Craig Ford
Ruthie too

Erika (Fenter) Pedder

September 15, 2007

I was shocked to read about Adrian. I have not seen him in years but have thought of him throughout. I knew him through Jr High and some Highschool. His mother was my bus driver throughout elementary school. How proud you must be of your son. My condolences and thoughts are with you.

AJ Perry

September 15, 2007

Elazalde Family:
I served with Adrian in Iraq and had the great pleasure of knowing him as a brother in arms and and trusted friend. My heart is heavy with his lose, you will always be in our thoughts and prayers. May Almighty God Comfort, Bless and Keep all of you.


AJ Perry

September 14, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt 1st Class Elizalde and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

Dammon Sharp

September 13, 2007

To the Family,

In the early spring of this year I had the pleasure of going over to Jasons house to play cards and he said that Adrian would be over, he was finishing the course and was leaving soon so this was our last chance to play poker and give him a hard time...Adrian was full of fire and ready to take on the world after finishing up class...I am sorry I didnt talk to him more I gave him a hard time and told him somewhat of things to expect...otherwise we just spent the time shooting the bull and playing cards like we always used to...I am sorry I didnt spend more time talking to him now...its tough to lose a friend and even harder to lose family and thats what all of us felt he was...family...I close with something fitting him as a person...

I was that which others did not want to be,
I went where others feared to go, and did what others failed to do. I asked nothing from those who gave nothing,
and reluctantly accepted the thought of eternal loneliness.... should I fail.
I have seen the face of terror; Felt the stinging cold of fear; and enjoyed the sweetest taste of a moments love.
I have cried, pained and hoped...
but most of all,
I have lived times others would say were best forgotten.
At least someday I will be able to say that I was proud of what I was....a soldier.

Frail

September 12, 2007

Adrian was my mentor and squad mate. No other soldier has set such a high goal for me to aspire too. I’ll greatly miss you EZ. I still tell my own soldiers these days of you and what it means to mentor to a junior soldier. You took me under your wing, I will never forget that. When I try to explain to civilians and friends about the bond you forge with your fellow infantrymen, I tell them the story of you forgetting your toothbrush on a field mission and offering you mine. They all are so aghast that I shared it with you. But man, you get close with your buddies. Even when a Panamanian ant bites them in the worst place possible. I’m you buddy man, I miss you. When the chips were down you didn’t turn your back on me.

Meg (Freeman) Dean

September 11, 2007

Rachel, Sydney, Jorge, and Terri:

I was shocked and saddened by the news of Adrain's passing. He was always special to me. We became close friends in Wetherell's Speech class back when he was a Sophomore and I was a Senior. He was "My Little Adrian Friend"-funny, sweet, and a kick to be around. In fact, I even went to one of my Senior dances with him! He was like another brother to me. He'd stick up for you if he felt you needed to be defended. He always made you smile when he'd smile that mischievious little grin he had. He always listened.

Adrian and I fell out of touch once I'd graduated from HS. I'd always wanted to reconnect with him and tell him thanks for being such a great friend and to let him know how much he meant to me. Regretfully, I never got that chance until now.

I am so sorry Rachel, Jorge, and Terri. Adrian was a wonderful person! He will be missed greatly. I hope you will find some comfort in knowing that he touched so many people's lives. He was not only a best friend to me, but after reading all of the entries left here, it's apparent that he was a good friend to so many. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Emily Kohler (Stokes)

September 11, 2007

To the Elizalde family:
My words will be inadequate. I just want to express to you how much your beloved son Ace will be missed. I think it is well demonstrated here, though it is most certainly just the tip of the iceberg! I have never known another gentleman like Adrian. Today is a day where we remember our fallen heroes. He is, in the truest sense of the word, a hero. As you miss him, certainly there is too little comfort. But I hope that the knowledge of how many people loved your son wraps you up like a blanket on this cold night. God bless your family. My deepest sympathy.

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David Elizalde

September 10, 2007

I feel for this fallen hero because he was part of me if only united in our same last name and military service to our great country.
May God Bless you and give you peace.

September 9, 2007

I didn't personally know SFC. Elizalde, but I do know your pain as I recently had a soldier killed in action. Many prayers from our family to yours for your sacrifice, and thank you so much for the hero the world was able know.

Sincerely,
Heidi Perry-Hipp
Calverton, NY
Proud Aunt of Spc. Matthew Murchison
KIA August 4, 2007 Baghdad

Bree Williamson

September 7, 2007

I learned about the loss of Adrian just this morning. He was a year ahead of me in school, and I remember him well from jr. high and high school. I can't tell the Elizalde family how sorry I am for your loss. Your son's service and sacrifice will not be forgotten. You are all in my prayers.

Tom Gugliuzza

September 7, 2007

My heartfelt sympathy to the Elizalde family in the loss of Adrian. I did not know Adrian, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Adrian you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~

Balbir Singh

September 6, 2007

Today I have lost my brother. Adrian and I went to North Bend High School together, and being a newcomer to NBHS, I was welcomed by this brother of mine with a smile and a strong hand that made one and all be his best friend. I will never forget Adrian for who he was. I will miss him for long as life serves for we don't know when it is our turn. We only hold onto the memories that keep us alive. Your brother Singh.

Stacy (Shipps) Carpenter

September 4, 2007

Elizalde Family,
I was so sorry to hear about Adrian. Though I had never met him, I can see from the other guest book signings that he was a fine man. My heart aches for your family's loss and my prayers are sent your way. Thank you Adrian for your service. My love to your family.

Ann Dempsey

September 4, 2007

Our deepest sympathies to Rachel and family.. Annie and Paulo

Candy Rivas (mitchell)

September 4, 2007

Though I did not know your son very well, my prayers are with him and your family. I remember him from NBHS, he was always kind to everyone, and was a great guy! I remember what a goofball he was during soccer practice! You will be missed by so many, may you rest in peace our fallen hero.

Val Cory

September 3, 2007

My name is Val Cory and my sister is Colleen Nordholm. I just want you to know that our prayers are with you from down here in New Mexico. May God ease your pain and Bless you with peace.

September 3, 2007

To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
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Sara Ekelund Higgins

September 3, 2007

To the Elizalde family:
My deepest sympathy goes out to your entire family for the loss of Adrian. I first met Adrian when we had our lockers next to each other in junior high and we would sometimes have to "jockey" for position. He would push the door of his locker so far open that I couldn't get into my locker and I would have to push back. He was a little guy, but boy was he tough and rarely could I ever over power him even though I was already at least 4 inches taller than him. Despite our daily wrestling Adrian was always a big-hearted guy and like everyone else, I loved his big smile. You couldn't help but like Adrian.

There are so many things to thank you and Adrian for...Adrian, thank you for your outstanding service to our country and for being a shining example of what a person can accomplish through hard work and determination. I am so proud of you. You accomplished so much in 30 years--your family has every reason to be proud. To the Elizalde family, thank you for bringing Adrian home to North Bend and for sharing his memorial service with the community. While it doesn't ease the pain, we are all so proud of Adrian and grateful to you.

I pray that God brings you peace and comfort in your grief.

God's peace be with you,
Sara Ekelund Higgins
NBHS Class of 1995

Alyce (Andrews) & Terry Reese

September 2, 2007

We were so sad to hear of Adrian's passing. Both Terry and I have warm memories of Adrian as a cheerful, funny, giving guy. It seemed he always had a smile on his face. What an amazing hero he was. We will remember his sacrifice.

Kimberly Vester

September 1, 2007

Dear Elizalde Family: We did not get to meet Adrian in person, but we did get to meet the bear he had hanging in his room, when we looked at the house the bear scared our daughter Kathy. We were lucky and privileged to get the house that you obviously loved so much and thank you and please know that we love it just as much as you did! On a personal note from one mother to another God bless you and your family in your time of need I must tell you that you are in my heart and prayers and you are always welcome here at any time! Remember they say God only gives you as much as he thinks you can handle, the hard part is thanking him for giving you big enough shoulders to handle it all.
God Bless you and your family!
The Vester Family
Chris, Kimberly and Kathy.

Deis Clark

September 1, 2007

I was so very sorry to hear about Adrian.He has always been a strong person with a good heart.
Our prayers are with you.

eddie henderson

September 1, 2007

Dear Elizalde family, adrian was a close friend and teammate of mine for many years as we all know. he was like a big brother to me growing up. he is one of the reasons that i am the person that i am today. beating on me day after day in the wrestling room he made me a strong and a well disciplined person. i will miss him dearly, as we all will. he touched many lives and helped so many people by being the person that he was. i am so very sorry for your loss. may you rest in peace brother.

Amy (Sim) Mendez

September 1, 2007

I went to school with Adrian "Ace" starting at Hillcrest Elementary all the way through graduation day at NBHS. I was shocked to hear of his passing. Most of my grade school memories have Adrian in them. I don't think I ever got a blue ticket without Adrian getting one too. He always had my back...even though one of those blue tickets was for kicking him in the face with a ball. As we went though all of our school years together, he matured and turned into an incredible young man. He was so unselfish and it showed most when he died defending our country. Thank you, Adrian, for all the great memories. May you rest in peace. And to Adrian's family, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Something that will be sure to get you through some of the rough times is to know that Adrian died a hero.

Barb Yost

September 1, 2007

Jorge and Terri,

What fine children you have raised! Thank you for loving Adrian and Rachel into the grown-ups they have become. I am so honored to have known Adrian and so greatful for his years of service to our United States of America. Rachel, you are such a treasured friend. I remember in July when we had our 15 year reunion "roadtrip" to Seattle. I stopped to look at the photo of you about age 7 and your "baby brother" around age 4 sporting cheeseball grins. Embodied in that photo is a childhood bond between siblings that will never fade. Nor, will the love and respect you have for him in your heart. You, Rachel, have gone above and beyond the call of "Aunt Rachel" for Sydney and I know you will continue to do so. Because of that, Sydney will carry her Daddy in her heart too. My eyes weep for you, I can still hear the pain in your voice when your grief was so raw. I pray that your family has some closure today and your brokenhearts begin to heal. I look forward to celebrating the life of Adrian with you this afternoon.
With Love,
Barb Yost (Barbie Carlsen, North Bend, OR)

Jim Davidson

September 1, 2007

To the Elizalde family : Adrian was like a second son to me. As an assistant mat club coach I had the pleasure to watch Adrian grow into a fine young man. His caring and drive to be the best was something that few could match. When coach Cox parted this earth it was Adrian that took a group of eighth grade wrestlers under his wing. My son was one of those boys. He became their big brother. He showed them what could be accomplished by hard work and dedication. Adrian and my family became very close friends. He would always stop by whenever he was on leave. All gave some ... Some gave all. Rest easy my friend,your guard is over. Your heart,soul,and spirit live on in many. May god bless the entire Elizalde family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Jennifer Whelchel

September 1, 2007

Dear Terri, Jorge, Rachel and most of all Adrian, Please know that over the years you have never left my thoughts. You were always in my heart. I can't express my sorrow and grief to you. This has touched me more than I could have ever imagined. I can only begin to think of how you must feel. What a man to have on our side, here with all of us as a guardian angel. I could not ask for more. The comfort of knowing that Adrian is with God is bittersweet. I would be selfish to ask for the chance to tell him one last time how much he means to me. You are all wonderful people to support on the greatest hero in this war. Thank you, Adrian for giving your life for us. I just wish I could have told you how much I still care for you. You will always have a place in my heart. Remember when we went to Kyle's and herded cows in your rented car? We always had so much fun. I will never forget when you pulled me off the couch and danced with me in my parents' living room. God Bless you and your family. Love always. Jenn

Robert Johnston

September 1, 2007

Sgt 1st Class Adrian Elizalde is a True American Hero. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
SSgt Bobby Johnston USAF

Mac & Marilyn McAllister

September 1, 2007

To the family of SFC Elizalde:
Please know that our prayers and thoughts are with you through this trying time of your loss. We pray that the Lord will give you His ultimate peace to help you heal. He knows your sorrow and pain. We thank your son for his ultimate sacrifice for our freedoms. We will be there for you today. God Bless all of you.

Stuart & Kathleen Pennington

September 1, 2007

Teri, Jorge, & Rachel,
I want to thank you for raising such a wonderful young man. Adrian was a true reflection of all that your family embodies. It was an honor to know him as a young boy and to read about all the great things he accomplished in this life. We all owe you a debt that can never be repaid. I remember him driving Gene's pick up through my mother-in-law's backyard when he was about 10. He was full of life and energy. He was all boy. Tell his daughter as much as you can about him. As long as his name is spoken, he will never really be gone. He lives on in the hearts and minds of those who knew him.

Chuck Nelson

September 1, 2007

Jorge, Teresa, Rachel and Sydney Grace:
No words can express the sadness to hear of Adrian's death. Our deepest condolences to you on the loss of your son, brother and father. I have great memories watching Adrian grow up during his school years with Ben and his many friends. I wish so much, we could have had a chance to talk with him after he had joined the Army. To tell him what a good man he had become. And give him a word of thanks for the things our American service men and women do. Brave young people. So many people will remember Adrian, the good school friend, the fiery opponent on the mat, the tough strike zone he gave a pitcher. his smile and his confidence. Adrian has a place in many many people hearts. He grew into a fine man to be proud of. He will not be forgotten. I'm glad I knew him and wish I could have told him so. I salute you SFC Adrian M. Elizalde. Thank you.

Heather Westgaard

August 31, 2007

Elizalde Family,

Words will not heal your pain; however, the memories left by the individuals that Adrian met in his short walk of life should comfort you all in knowing the amazing impact he had on everyone he came in contact with during his beautiful life. Adrian was the perfect blend of the lil' devil who loved to spice up life and the angel who was there for anyone, anytime. When Adrian walked into a room, his positive attitude and endless confidence shined. Adrian loved to win at ANYTHING, but win or lose he held his head high and showed respect to his opponents.

Adrian will be missed by all, but he will remain a hero above for eternity. Thank you Adrian for giving 100% each and every day of your life.

amy scott

August 31, 2007

Oh dear sweet Rachel... I have no words to comfort you and your family. Please know that i love you and am here for you. Reading all the notes on this site has been quite moving. Adrian was a remarkable man - I know you will carry that with you and all the love everyone has shared, for the rest of your life.
Amy

Erika Brown

August 31, 2007

Rachel, Jorge, Teri and Sydney:
I am very sorry to hear about Adrian. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. How proud you all must be of Adrian and his many accomplishments.

Kellea Kohn

August 31, 2007

Elizalde Family,
If words could express my deapest appreciation for knowing Adrian, I would put them in capital letters. What a beautiful and joyful young man! It is with deepest sorrow I read of Adrian's passing...yet want you all to know he is appreciated and respected for all he is and has done for the United States. I will forever remember his positive energy. My Husband, LTC Brad Kohn send our deepest sympathy to you all...he is respected and blessed.
Kellea Kohn (previous....Kellea Brink)

Mike Johnston

August 31, 2007

Adrian, your strength in character was much more than I've seen but in a few, and without loss made a lasting impression on my life. You will be greatly missed.

Gerald Strebendt

August 31, 2007

I was just talking about Adrian a couple months ago. I hadn't talked to him in years but I was hoping he was doing well. He was always trying his best to be number 1 in everything from wrestling to being a soldier. He is going to be missed so much...Gerald Strebendt

Bud Grant

August 31, 2007

Good bye Adrian, I am so very proud of you. I rememeber you when you played baseball on the North Coos Legion team. You were a joy to coach. We had fun.
Your Legion coach Bud Grant

Jared & David Foster

August 31, 2007

My deepest condolences to the Elizalde family. My brother and I have so much repect for the strength and drive that always shined from Adrian. His great contribution to our lives will leave an everlasting impression. He will now lead from a higher place.
Rest In Peace Adrian,

Stacey Messner

August 30, 2007

My heart aches for your family. Adrian was a great friend to all. I am blessed to have know him and to have spent our highschool years together! His smile was one that we all will remember. He will forever remain in our hearts.

Allyson Pex/ McNeill

August 30, 2007

All Elizalde family members;Jorge, Teri, and my sweet life long friend Rachel...I wish I could take away even an ounce of pain and loss you are feeling. Sadness weighs heavy on my heart too. On my visit to see Rachel in July, I enjoyed seeing photos of Adrian (who I remember as the handsome sometimes onery but always loveable "little brother") with his daughter (what a great Daddy!) and worried when I saw photos of Adrian in Iraq...I am impressed (but not shocked) by all of the military honors Adrian earned (thank you for serving our country!) I am praying and thinking of you daily. I am here to support you in anyway I can.
May the love of family and friends help to bring peace to your hearts. Know that Adrian is with you always, watching over you...
All of my love--

Gene Holt

August 30, 2007

I didn't know you but I want to thank you for your sacrifice. You served with honor and died doing your duty for you country. God rest your sole.

Angie (Soyck) Armstrong

August 30, 2007

I was so deeply saddened when I heard of Adrian's passing. Rachel, know that at this difficult time you, Terry, and Jorge are in my daily thoughts and prayers. I think so much of all of you and am terribly sorry for your loss.

Shannon, Alan, Hadley and Casi Jean Canady(Blisseck)

August 30, 2007

Rachel, I’m at a loss for words, so I’ll start with this…it’s been several years and I miss you and your Mom dearly.

Starting in grade school we all knew we were in for it when Adrain hit the playground… always up to something! He had that ‘smirk’ the one that your mother always said to look out for, because he had just done something…and we would find it sooner or later.
In high school, not only an amazing athlete but a very kind, warm hearted young man.
He had that ‘zest’ for life and would make sure it rubbed off on everyone around him.

I remember shortly after having Hadley, I was working with your mom and her telling me “Children are a blessing from God. Love them, cherish them and hold them as if tomorrow will never come.” I think of her words often. We pray for you and your family to be strong and hold your heads high. Please know that we all are very proud of Adrian. We thank him, honor him, and he will be greatly missed.

Jim Aldrich

August 30, 2007

The first time I met Adrian, I gave the little kid a ride home from his first fight. He was sticking up for an underdog, and protecting someone who could not protect themselves.That is something he has never stopped doing and that's why he gave the ultimate sacrafice so we may live in freedom. He was a friend, gentleman,and all around good person. He will be missed by everyone that knew him. I am just glad I had the chance to tell him how proud I was of him. With my deepest love and sympath

Jim Aldrich (Jimmy)

Sara (Sally) Simpkins

August 30, 2007

I can not imagine the depth of sorrow you are feeling right now. I have no wise words to ease the pain. Please know that your friends in North Bend send you all their love and prayers, and we honor and thank Adrian for his service and his ultimate sacrifice.

Emily and Martha Minty

August 30, 2007

Dear Elizalde Family,
Adrian's kindness touched so many individuals over his lifetime. I was never close with him in elementary school or high school, but I do remember his good cheer and warmth. My mother, who was his nurse at some point, called me the other day to inform me of his passing, and said exactly the same thing. Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this time.

Wally Mehrens

August 30, 2007

It is so hard to lose family in any circumstances. Please know that your brothers Mehrens' thoughts are with you today.

Ben Fischer

August 30, 2007

Mr. & Mrs. Elizalde and Family,

I couldn't believe it when I heard the news the other day. I want you to know that during the past few days, soldiers and friends that have served with Adrian have called and emailed me talking about him and the way he lived his life. He was a soldier that everyone wanted to be like. You never heard him complain, and he always found ways to make you smile. I was brand new to the Army, and he always took time to see how I was doing; and he wasn't even in my platoon. That is what type of man he was. He didn't care if he directly worked with you. He thought of the Army as a whole. He wanted everyone to work as a team. That type of commitment is shown through all of his accomplishments in the Army and in his personal life. Please know that he will never be forgotten. He has affected so many lives in a positive way. Your son has given the greatest sacrifice, and we owe it to him and to everone else who has fallen, to appreciate the lives we have, and to always try to better ourselves everyday of our lives. My deepest sorrow goes out to you.

Heather McDonald

August 30, 2007

Dear Elizalde family,
My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Thank you to Adrian for being one of our country's heroes.

Matt Clarno

August 30, 2007

"Ace" You will be missed. My childhood buddy, I will Catch you on the flipside.

Janie (Rhen) Nicodemus

August 29, 2007

To My Elizalde Family,
Thank you for so many years of letting me be part of your family. As Ray's little brother Adrian became my little brother. His loss leaves a hole, not only in my heart but in the hearts of everyone that knew him. Adrian was a funny, smart, and cute kid who grew up to be a wonderful, handsome, giving man, father, brother and son. It is an honor to call you all family.

Corey Smith

August 29, 2007

I don't have the right words to express the years of memories of Adrian. The most significant thought is that he was a true hero, and I'll be sure that my children always remember him that way. With my deepest sympathies.

Katie Green

August 29, 2007

My heart goes out to you in this time of pain and loss. I can only imagine how hard it is. We are keeping you in our prayers and thoughts and wish we could do more to make this bearable for you. Thank you for your son's service to our country and God bless you.

Katie Green
Proud Wife of
SSG David Green
United States Army

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