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Audrey Schoenbauer Obituary

Audrey was a trailblazer that didn't conform to the preconceived role of the 50's and 60's housewife. She earned a Masters in Sociology from the University of Hawaii and was actively involved in the women's equal rights movement against considerable opposition from the mainstream midcentury ideologies. She taught at UCCS and CSU Pueblo, and gave 17 years of compassionate service as a case manager and supervisor at the El Paso County Department of Social Services. While she was progressive with women's issues, she always maintained her foundational values of family, kindness and friendship. In retirement, she studied Victorian culture and fashion, enjoyed the Broadmoor Waltz club, and founded the Victorian Social Club. Audrey heroically survived pancreatic cancer for four years inspiring all those around her with her positive "live in the moment" approach. This elegant and delightful lady is survived by her husband of 62 years, Ralph, her five loving children (Christopher, Cynthia, Steve, Valerie, and Saralyn) and five remarkable grandchildren (Rachel, Megan, Kelsey, Danny, and Quinn). Audrey will be sorely missed as there were so many that deeply loved her. Her strong positive legacy will live on through her family and friends. There will be no service at her request.

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Published by The Gazette on May 8, 2016.

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Debbie Doty

June 4, 2016

Audrey was a bright light and will be missed. Condolences to her family.

Denise Winter

June 4, 2016

I just found out today and am thoroughly devastated by this news.

Monica Morgan

May 13, 2016

I will be forever grateful for Audrey and her positive influence in my life. I was blessed to know her warm smile, kindness and uplifting spirit. She will be so missed and will always be remembered.

Rita Townley

May 12, 2016

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Audrey was a very special lady and will be greatly missed.

Tracey Besonday

May 12, 2016

A true LADY in this world who touched the hearts and lives of all who crossed her path. I am blessed to have known Audrey, Even for such a short time.

Maureen Scheuer

May 10, 2016

We will be keeping the Schoenbauer family and their friends close in thought and prayer during this difficult time. May those who knew and loved her continue to enjoy and share the memories that she created with each other. God has truly blessed Audrey and her family with grace and goodness!

Julie Fox

May 8, 2016

Such a gracious beautiful woman...may she glow in your hearts forever.

Julie Fortuin

May 8, 2016

Audrey was very warm and welcoming and seemed to always smile.

The Perkins

May 8, 2016

Audrey's personality was infectious. She was always full of vigor.

Caroline Shengle

May 8, 2016

I will live with your teachings forever Audrey. Lisa, Tyler Jacey, Colton, Harrison and I miss you. Thank you for blessing us with your Love. Our hearts go out to all our family and friends who love you.

Amy Lenig

May 8, 2016

Audrey was a beautiful, elegant woman who will be remembered for her kindness and positivity and will live on through her children and grandchildren.

The Shengle Family

May 8, 2016

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Steven Mahone

May 8, 2016

The most elegant and classy lady I've ever known. Heartbreak. The 34 years I knew you was an honor.

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