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Barbara Sotelo Obituary

Barbara Ellen Sotelo, age 55, passed away on October 2, 2011 in Colorado Springs, Colorado. Barbara was born in Ohio, daughter of the late Charles E. and Margaret E. Gaylord. Barbara retired from the United States Air Force in 2000, after serving 20 years. She then began working as a Senior Product Planner in the mail order industry at Current Inc. She was married to her loving husband of 30 years and enjoyed spending her time with family and friends. She is survived by her husband, Juan G. Sotelo; a son, Matthew Sotelo; 6 brothers, Michael Gaylord, James Gaylord, John Gaylord, Byron Gaylord, Mitch Gaylord, and Chris Gaylord. Barbara will be dearly missed by all who knew her. A memorial service for Barbara Sotelo will be held at 9:00 AM, Friday October 7, 2011 at the Community Center Chapel, 5134 Cathedral Drive, Air Force Academy, Colorado. Online condolences www.evergreenfuneralhome.org

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Published by The Gazette on Oct. 5, 2011.

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Kristi Pate

September 29, 2022

Well it´s been 11 years since you went to heaven. It´s crazy to think it´s been this long. I miss you and think about you daily. I know one day we will all be together but I want to be a little selfish and have you here with us. Until we see eachother again my dear aunt, Godmother, and friend! Love you and miss you always!!

Kristi

September 29, 2021

Wow it´s been years since God took you home. There is not a day, moment or second that I don´t think about you. You were not just my aunt, Godmother, but my friend. I know your up there with grandma and grandpa laughing and joking and sending smiles and love down on all of us both family, friends, and people who was blessed to get to know you. You had a huge heart for everyone, and now you have more room to fill up with even more souls and love. Until we meet again at the Gates of Heaven. Love and miss you always!!

Heidi

September 15, 2012

Remembering you today on your birthday and everyday! I know that you are always with us all no matter where we are. We love and miss you so much!

Lisa Friend

April 21, 2012

I was just informed of the news about Barb. My heart and thoughts go out to Juan and Matt. I met the Sotelos when we were all stationed in Tucson. Barb was one of the most kindest, generous, and sweetest people I have ever known. She helped make my first baby shower extremely special. She made a difference and touched many lives. Prayers and thoughts to both gentlemen.

January 3, 2012

juan and matthew i know that this holiday was rough for all of us.but or memories of barb will keep us whole with the lords blessings. take care jimmy and moe

January 2, 2012

Always in my thoughts and heart! We miss you so much

Dirk and Lynn Ward

October 24, 2011

We are so sorry for your loss and hope you can keep the warm memories of your wife and mom close to your hearts. She will always be with you.

Karen L Taylor

October 21, 2011

Juan and family I am saddened by your loss and pray strength and calm now and in the future.

Bonnie Arguello Pool

October 20, 2011

Juan and Matthew, I'm so sorry to hear about Barb's passing, my prayers to you and your family. I'm forever thankful for having the pleasure of getting to know her and working with her, her beautiful smile and warm heart will be deeply missed...

Evian Moreno

October 19, 2011

My prayers and condolences go out to the Sotelo family. It is very evident how great of a person and how good of a heart Mrs. Sotelo had based on the love and respect her son Matt has for her. May you always keep your memories of her close to your heart and cherish them for a lifetime, and may the lord help you find peace during this time of grievence.

Gary Roberts

October 13, 2011

Juan
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and the family at this time.
Gary & Marcia Roberts

Frank Kahoun

October 12, 2011

Juan, My Prayers and thoughts are with you and your family always; but, most especially at this time!

Joseph J. Miller, USAF. RET

October 10, 2011

Juan,Matthew; My Deepest condolences to you as well as the Gaylord Family. No words can express how much she will be missed; 435th APS, Rhein Main AB,GE., 62nd APS, McChord AFB, WA. 366th TRNS, Davis Monthan AFB, AZ. By all TMO's Friends and co-workers lives she touched. Remember we are here for You Juan.

October 10, 2011

May you be comforted in knowing God cares for you and will see you through this difficult time.

Yolanda Salazar Stone

October 9, 2011

Juan, The deepest condolences to you and your family. May you know that GOD is always with you. We know Barbara is basking in the GLORY of our LORD.

Colleen Buehner

October 8, 2011

Juan, I am sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts for you and your family.

Brian

October 8, 2011

It was a pleasure working with you Barb you were a great woman....you are missed and loved by many....May God shine light on your husband, son, and family during this time of sorrow....see you on the flip-side

Cheri Arnold

October 8, 2011

Juan, my prayers are with you and your family along with my friends from Current who will dearly miss Barb. I am grateful for the friendship I had with her over the years. May God be with all of you.

Cheri

Jenny Reiff

October 8, 2011

Juan, You and Matt continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Jenny & Marty.

Gary Conger

October 7, 2011

Juan... I am very sorry to hear that your wife has passed. My prayers for you are for strength and understanding and my thoughts are for you and your son to seek comfort in each other. My deepest sympathies to you and your son.

Julie & Gene Rajpolt

October 6, 2011

Juan, May you find comfort in knowing that family and friends are here for you and will help you though this most difficult time. Our deepest sympathies to you and your family.

Nancy Bzdok

October 6, 2011

What a honor to be your friend. I so miss our talks as we went to get water every morning. I love you and miss you my friend.

Sherry Ellis

October 6, 2011

Ms. Barb, for over 20 yrs I have called you my friend. I cannot believe you are gone. I love you! Please have a cup of coffee and a cigarette with grandma when u get a chance. Juan and Matt you are in my prayers.

Dianna Clute

October 6, 2011

Juan and Matt and the rest of the Gaylord Families... I have not been a Gaylord for many years now- but Susie played a special place in my heart- I loved her dearly. I am so saddened by the news of her illness. I thought she might pull through- but God had other plans for her up above.She will be your guardian angel from up above. She has left a huge legacy behind and was such an inspiration to her neices (my daughters Amy and Kara)she always had that wonderful attitude and smile :) Will meet up with you again one day at the gates of Heaven. Its difficult to lose someone so special as she was. Prayers and Hugs to all.... Love Dianna Clute

Anna Sotelo-Johnson

October 6, 2011

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Pam Protsman

October 6, 2011

It was such a delight to have you in our lives. Your personality was tremendous for everyone that knew you. Juan and Mat she was a great mother and wife and she will always be in your heart. Take care.

Mel and Donna Melancon

October 6, 2011

Our prayers are with you Juan and Matthew. We miss you guys even more now.

LaRisa Rowe

October 6, 2011

I can't believe you are gone, Barb. I've known you and Juan my whole life and now the group is incomplete. I will miss seeing you at every get together and I loved your personality. I know this is so sad for our whole family.

Lionda

October 5, 2011

You definately made such a large impression on so many peoples lives. Your smile, caring ways,thoughtful ways and the love you shared with so many people. You will not be forgotten.

Lisa Gutierrez

October 5, 2011

Love You Aunt Barb!!!
Miss You!!

October 5, 2011

You would have done anything for anyone at anytime my friend. What a legacy we can remember. You will be so missed here, but I know you are in a better place now. With much love. Robin

sherry hodina

October 5, 2011

Who will I go to now to talk out my problems and to make me laugh? You are and will be sorely missed. Love ya
Your best friend forever
Sherry

Marsha Lohmeyer

October 5, 2011

My life is richer for having known Barb and to have been able to call her friend.

I have been praying for you, Juan and Mat, and will continue to do so.

October 5, 2011

Was deeply saddened when I was informed about Barb's heart attack and had been praying for her and the family. She always was such a hard worker in the Merch dept while I was there. Lifting up prayers for all the family as you grieve. Sincerely

Deb Eagles

October 5, 2011

Didn't know you that long, but you always lifted my spirits at work. Always knew the right words to say. Wish there were more just like you. Thank you!

Dana Grignano

October 5, 2011

okay Barb....we all know you needed a break from work...but this is a bit extreme, don't you think? I'll never forget when we "camped" in the office when the gang was in the Orient. Barb brought the grill and portable potty, we all had our sleeping bags in the office. You can come back now....I'll treat to a margarita.....but I know you are stirring things up in Heaven. Love to you and Juan. Dana

October 5, 2011

"Working with Barb was truly an honor, I'll never forget our daily morning walks for water, she was a wonderful person and I am blessed to have her in my life!" - Melissa Stringer

October 5, 2011

Juan and Matthew,
We are very sad to hear about Barbara. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Jed and Cathie Dahar

Shandra Hoyle

October 5, 2011

I, like many, was blessed to have Barb in my life as a co-worker but more importantly as a friend. She will be dearly missed! Juan and Matt, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Matt Johnson

October 5, 2011

She was a wonderful person, and a wonderful mother, she will be greatly missed by all, but will live on with the many memories she gave us

Melissa Rivera-Sanchez

October 5, 2011

Sending prayers from Cecilia Rivera and family

Marcus and Trish

October 5, 2011

Forever in our hearts

Shelley Mayer

October 5, 2011

Working with Barb was always a bright spot in my day at Current. She always greeted me with a smile and cheerfully responded to every request, no matter how busy her day. I miss her.

Danyella Garcia

October 5, 2011

Even though I only met her once, I know that Barbara was an amazing woman, because of the great son she and her husband raised. My thoughts and prayers are with the Sotelo family.

Gail Leitner

October 5, 2011

She was a wonderful person, sister-in-law, and a dear friend. She will be greatly missed. Remember the happy times and she will always be watching over you.

Dorrie Boughn

October 5, 2011

I will dearly miss the companionship and friendship that Barb gave to me on our camping trips especially the maiden on at FamCamp each year. I thank the Lord for bring you into my life I know you will be watching over Juan from above.

Jeanette Herbert

October 5, 2011

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

Kristin Gaylord-Caddell

October 5, 2011

Love you.. Uncle Juan and matt I'm here for you in spirit

LaReeLaRisaDevinMaKella Rowe

October 5, 2011

May our memories of times together always burn bright. We love and miss you.

Heidi Fajardo

October 5, 2011

I love you

jim/ moe gaylord

October 5, 2011

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

October 5, 2011

Juan and Matt,
We are so sorry for the loss of Barbara. We were hoping and praying for a better outcome but I guess it wasn't meant to be. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time of sorrow.
May peace be with you, Ludlow's Island Resort

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