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Barboura Selby Obituary

Barboura "Barb" Selby, 90, a 50 year resident of Colorado Springs, passed away peacefully at home with her family by her side on November 13, 2015.

Barb was born in Bartonville, IL on December 30, 1924 to Martin and Elizabeth Firth. She was one of five children growing up in New Jersey. In 1942, after graduating from high school, she boarded a train for Palo Alto, California to be reunited with her mother, who was an RN running a nursing home. She helped her mother until she got a job working on the assembly line at a new company called Hewlett-Packard. Shortly thereafter, she accepted a secretarial position, where one of her duties was typing all of the employee's paychecks. However, she let Dave Packard, co-founder of HP, know her secretarial skills learned in high school were not being utilized. With that, he promoted her to executive secretary.

It was at HP that she met her future husband, Stan, an engineer. They were married in 1949 and moved to Loveland, CO in 1960. Stan managed the first HP site outside of California and Barb was the First Lady of HP in Colorado.

Together they raised four children, Sandy (E. David) Ascarelli, Kelley (Joe) Phillips of Colorado Springs; Corey of Hollister, CA, and Kirk who passed away in 2013. She has one granddaughter, Kellsey, Kirk's daughter.

Barb loved jazz and was a charter member of the Pikes Peak Jazz Society. She volunteered at Penrose Hospital. She was intelligent, classy, funny and a wonderful mother who loved family, friends, her home & garden and Tony Bennett.

At Barb's request, no funeral services will be held, but a Celebration of Life will be held at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Pikes Peak Hospice at www.pikespeakhospice.org

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Gazette on Nov. 22, 2015.

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Laurie Steele

December 2, 2015

Dear Kel, Sandy and Corey...I just heard about Barb's passing, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. She is a huge part of my childhood and I loved her very much. My thoughts are with all of you...

Sam Martin Martin

November 29, 2015

Lots of fond memories sitting around the kitchen table in Mrs. Selby's house with Kelley, Kirk and all the gang. She was a classy lady and lots of fun. All my Love to the Selby clan!

November 25, 2015

Dear Sandy and siblings'

We were saddened to learn of your Mother's death. Altho we did not know her, except in casual conversation a few times when she and Sandy "were out and about", and we visited, she was always dressed "to the nines". A very attractive lady!

May she rest in peace.

May God grant you comfort at this time.



We know Sandy, as we were neighbors foe several years.

From friends,

Martha and Hy Wiegert

John Delaney

November 23, 2015

My condolences to the kids (Sandy, Corey and Kelly) from one of the hellions on Chelton Rd

Michelle Fulcher

November 23, 2015

My heartfelt sympathies to the Selby family.'Barboura was a sparkling lady and wonderfully patient with our high school antics. I have warm memories of those days.

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