Brad Stoehr Obituary

Something made me look up my old middle school friend this morning and it is with shock and sadness that I find myself here. Brad and I went to middle school together in Laurel, MD and he was my "date" to a 7th grade dance, I was so lucky because all the girls wanted that to be them lol! My deepest condolences to Brad's family and friends, from reading all of the comments it is clear that he was a fantastic guy throughout his life.

What a tragedy- I can only offer prayers of comfort to Brad's family and loved ones in hope that day by day the pain lessens. I live just down the street from the accident site and, therefore, pass his road-side memorial every day. Every day I am reminded of what a joyful soul Brad was and still is and the incredible energy he left by which to remember him. I know how hard it has been for me to deal with his passing; I can only imagine the heartache his family and friends and girlfriend have been going through. I pray for you all every day and hope you have found a sense of comfort with having a new angel looking over you. His time was way too short. My deepest condolences.

I was shocked to find out about this horrible tragedy. I was trying to
reconnect with him again and found this site. Brad was one of my best
childhood friends when we both lived back in Maryland. I have extremely
fond memories of the bike rides, sports, and summer camp that we both
attended one year.

I had not talked to Brad since the mid to late 1990's, but a few things remain true. I can tell by all of the wonderful comments on this site that he didn't change much over the
years. He was a great friend to many and was always a blast to be around. To his family and friends, please accept my sincerest condolences.

Brad,
I didn't know what to type when I came to this site in October, I was so much in shock. But, after the dream I had about you last night, I know exactly what to say! THANK YOU for always acting crazy, making me laugh until my sides hurt, and letting me share your cot :-) I still don't have anymore regard for lab safety than I (or should I say we???) did back then! Jake has become quite a husky husky with all the pizzas I order him, and not just for his birthday. You are missed Green Lantern (or was it The Green Hornet?) Give Foster a good belly rub for me.
-Doc

Brad~
When I came across this, I thought there was no way that this could be real. My heart just dropped, as I came to the realization that it was true. It has been so long since I have seen you, but the memories of you are still untouched and vivid, as if they happened just yesterday. Playing lacrosse against you in high school and playing with you at CU, living with you for a year; to many good memories/times. Before writing this, I spent time going through the entries and one characteristic stood out from the rest; your friendship. No matter the situation or what happened in the past, you were always there, no matter what. Friends like you are hard to come by and this is evident by the entries found within this guest book. You made an indelible footprint in my life, something few have been able to do and for that I thank you.

Dear Brad,

I will never forget how kind you were to my cats when you entered my home to provide an estimate to replace my back yard wood fence (which I admire and thank you for every day). When you asked me the names of my friendly cats who greeted you, I replied, "Foster and Andy". You got tears in your eyes, telling me about your beloved dog Foster who had passed away.

My cherished Foster's kidneys failed, and he passed away shortly after 11 a.m. on Christmas Eve. I hope and pray that you greeted Foster as he entered heaven, and that you are looking after my Foster until I can join him someday. That would be the most wonderful Christmas blessing for my extraordinary, sweet, kind, gentle, gorgeous tuxedo cat, Foster!

Thank you, Brad!
Cindy Powell and Foster's feline "brothers"
Andy, Oliver and Black

I can’t count the times I have set before this computer at a loss for words; but, now, I will try.

To the family:

First, I thank you ALL for accepting me into your family, because you became my family away from home. I just don’t know if you realize how much that truly means to me. Your many acts of kindness lessened my ’homesickness.’ You see, family was as important to Brad as it is to me. He did talk highly of his family, but not without a disclaimer, warning me of your boisterous behavior.

That “warning” only proved to be a blessing, for your family is not that much different than mine. Even though mine was miles away, Brad became a welcome part of my family and was loved and accepted, immediately! It was my nephew, who after meeting Brad for the first time, asked him to be his uncle. I was looking forward to the day we could truly make each family ‘our family.’ We all truly miss Brad. My deepest sympathies. Be strong.

To Mr. Stoehr (Marty) and Mrs. Stoehr (Lucy):

I remember sitting at your kitchen table and complimenting the two of you for raising such a wonderful son. I can not reiterate enough how proud you should feel. Brad had charisma!!! An indescribable charisma!! I fell in love with Brad and, to be honest, I am honored that he felt the same way about me.

We shared a passion for animals. Foster became my dog; as much as, Quincey became his. Roscoe became ours. We took many strolls through the dog park together. I thought that both of you should know, since Quincey and Brad share the same birthday, I will honor Brad’s tradition and order a pizza for Quincey on their birthday. A small way to celebrate his memory.

Brad’s nickname, “Free Entertainment,” was coined on the drives to the slopes, a compliment to his great sense of humor, zest, and enthusiasm. His big heart, warm smile, huge bear hugs, and intelligence were his trade marks; as well as, many other admirable qualities. I respected your son for all he accomplished and all that he gave this world. He always gave so much. We were only a part of each others lives for brief moment-in-time, but a time that will provide me a lifetime of the fondest of memories. The day of the service, when I walked down the isle may not have been the way it was suppose to be; I guess. We all lost something special that day. He is now our Angel.

To Marty and Tamela:

Brad looked up to his big brother, he told me many times. He always loved to go over to your house to play with the boys, sleep on your couch, and get a good meal from Tam. He loved being known as “crazy Uncle Brad.” He cherished those times and often bragged to me since I was usually working and unable to come along or to some of the family functions. I too admire you both. I thank you for all that you did for Brad and I and for what you have done for me now. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family throughout this difficult time. He will always be in our hearts.



To Brad:

How I wish we had one more day. Even if that day would be laying around snuggled up on the couch watching movies, football, or just T.V……. waiting for the pizza delivery, of course. I will cherish all the memories. I remember them all. The tears that I shed are of sadness for the times we will no longer share and of joy for the times we did share. I recall the words you once wrote to me, “her name was written upon my soul,” as yours, Brad, was onto mine. I miss you and I love the ‘mess’ out of you, Brad. We will fly that kite together one day. You are now the wind, rain, clouds, flowers, and trees. Hence the name of your company, Big Tree Contracting. I remember the day you created your logo, for it was my outdated computer in which you used. I was there. I am so proud of you for many reasons. You are a keeper, just as your green shirt stated that night. For your memory will be kept by all those who had the honor of knowing you. I will say it again…I love you. Just one thing…I never got to hear the end of the story you once told me. Thank you for being my best friend. I truly miss you. This wasn’t how it was suppose to be…In loving memory, my dear, dear Brad-lee.

P.S. I was wondering…can you still paint that picture for me?
And was it elephant…or… olive? ;)


My sincere condolences to the family and all those who knew and loved Brad.

I was outside having lunch on our beautiful deck, that Brad built for us this spring, when I read his obiturary. We are so sorry to hear of your tragic loss and our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time of sorrow. Brad was a very polite, talented and energtic young man. He was a joy to work with and you can be very proud of the young man that you raised. My He give you comfort with his Love.

My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Brad's family and friends who are mourning his loss at this time.
Brad, I think of all of the blood, sweat, tears and laughter we shared during our time together at CU. There are so many fond memories.
I still have all of our team pictures up in my office. As I look at them I am reminded of how proud I am of you and how lucky I was to have been able to coach you and more importantly to know you as the great person you are.
You have left a mark on all of us-Coach Knezevich

To my dear friend, Thank you for always being there on the drop of a hat. No matter how horrible of a job it was, and how bad I did not want to call anyone for help, you always showed up smiling with cold beer and motivation. Thanks for being my roommate and breaking in the house during the Indy 500 last year, ( Oh by the way Brad I found out what really happened to my chair!!!! :) ) Thanks for always looking at the bright side of things when there appeared to not to be one. Thanks for all your hard work and craftsmenship that you put into my decks. Most of all thanks for being a dear friend. Brad we all miss you, Thanks for all the great adventures and good times!!!

Brad, I hope that today and always the love I have for you is reaching out to you. I hope that today and always you are aware of how special you were to me and how lucky I feel to have had you in my life. Keep on smiling:)

Dearest Stoehr Family:
We were shocked to hear of Brad's untimely passing. Please know that Brad left his footprints on our hearts and souls in his short time here on earth! Our fondest memory of Brad since we first met him when he had just turned 7 y.o. was his continual impish smile that allowed him to get by with more than most. He was a very unique human being. Please treasure your memories of your wonderful son. We feel your pain and sorrow.
love and prayers,
Fern and John Jouett

I'm in complete shock to hear of Brads passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to Brads family.
The thing I remember most about Brad is his smile. No matter when I would see him he always had that big friendly smile. Your friends and family will never forget you, you will always be in our hearts.

Dear Mandy and Stoehr Family
I am sooooo very sorry for your loss. I was Mandy's neighbor and friend in Colorado Springs and had the pleasure of getting to spend time with Brad and Mandy. They were so happy together and Brad was just a great guy to be with. I am beyond shocked and saddened to hear the news of Brad. He will be greatly missed. My deepest heartfelt sympathies go out to Mandy and the Stoehr family.

Stoehr Family,

As with the thaughts of everyone else, disbelief is the only thing that can come to mind. I was shocked and saddened to hear the news about Brad, so sorry I could not make it back to the springs to make the service for I was and still am in California. The reason for me being here is for the adoption of my little girl. As I sit here in the hospital waiting for her birth, reading what all brads (and mine) old friends have to say about him, I can only hope I do half a good a job raising my kids as the stoehr family did with thiers. Quality people like Brad are at a minimum sometimes in this world, and losing a great one is a huge loss to the rest of us. My thaughts and prayers to everyone Brad touched in his life.

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

We knew Brad through our daughter, Kim Tortorice. Words cannot express how we feel your loss as we have experienced it as well. Brad was a gentleman whenever he was in our home in Colo. Sgps. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

To all who have visited this site: Thank you for your kind words and
comforting support during our time of sorrow. You have truly helped
Lucy and I carry the burden of losing our son, Brad.
Thanks particularly to Cara Moody for keeping this guest book active for another year.
Enclosed is a tribute to Brad that we wanted to share.

My Son, My Hero

Heros are older than you are,
Someone you worship from afar.
You can't really know them,
Can't reach them, touch them.

Heros do not lead daily lives,
Just magical moments in the public's eyes.
They are under some mystical care
No need for food nor drink – they just are.

But my hero is a different star.
He has been close, not far.
He has slept in my bed.
Drank my wine, broke my bread.

He's brought love to friends galore.
Joy and laughter to even more.
Always a smile, always a yes.
We know him, he knows us.

He hugged me every time we met.
Smiled at me when his visit was done.
He grinned at me – even in the casket.*
That's my hero; that's my son.

Martin E. (Marty) Stoehr


* These thoughts were penned on the day his mother, Lucy, and I buried our 32-year-old son Brad after a tragic pickup accident. Except for this next-to-last line, they apply equally as well to our 36-year-old son, Martin D. (Marty) Stoehr, who the previous day delivered a moving eulogy on his brother.

There are not too many occasions when I am at a loss for words and this happens to be one of them. There are so many memories and inside jokes; I never knew that it was possible to laugh so much while crying. I dread my next visit home to Colorado because seeing you was always a highlight. I hope you know how much I love and appreciate you and your friendship. I feel a little comfort knowing that you are with Foster so give him a hug for me and for now I will just say "bye guy."

Brad,
You will always have a special place in my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with the Stoehr family.

My heart felt wishes to your family, Brad. You will be remembered by your smile, laugh and how everyone was instantly your friend. Those of us who knew you in grad school will remember that stupid cot you kept in the grad office and laugh.

Marty, Linda and I extend our condolences to you and your family. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Dear Stoehr Family-
My heart goes out to all of Brad's family and friends. I will always remember Brad for his big heart, his wonderful laugh, his smiling eyes, and his gentle soul. I feel honored that Brad shared a part of his life with me. He will always hold a special place in my heart.
Love, Mandy

Marty,

I am so sorry to learn of the loss of your bro. I can’t imagine the pain and sadness that you and your family are going through right now. The last time I saw him he was probably 4 years old. It sounds like he grew up to be a great man. I regret not getting to know him and losing touch with you and your family.

Bradlee, not sure what to think right now. Just got the news via a phone call from my parents. Distraught over not being able to attend yesterday to speak with your parents. I would have liked to tell them all the great things that they were already well aware of, but most importantly, tell them they did a tremendous job raising a son. I can only hope we do so well raising our own.

Three weeks ago you and I were on my back deck sharing a beer while you entertained my son and daughter. You spent three weeks building my parents new deck this summer and we shared a few beers and laughs with my Dad. Never met anybody that knew you that didn't have great things to say! You will be missed my friend! No more conversations about the glory days on the soccer field in High School and the not so glory days on the soccer field these days!

Bronwynne often said after we spent time with you that she was amazed with your ability to make people around you happy. GC will not ever be the same...the only reason I ever stopped there was the chance to catch up! God bless buddy and keep smiling! You will be sorely missed! Bronwynne, myself and the kid's prayers go out to your family! Until we meet again,Bradlee
Keith

With deep sorrow for your loss,Our prayers are with you.
May the Lord be with you and see you through this time of loss.

Brad,
I never knew you, but you sounded like an amazing person. You were renouned for your love and you joy, being infectious with both qualities. Rest in peace sir, God's speed.
Alec

Brad, thank you for being a part of my life. You will missed and in my thoughts forever.

Brad,
I loved you as a son and not as a nephew, you were like a brother to Karen and Deby and I will never forget your smile, your hugs, your laughter and the wonderful feeling that was always there when we were in your presense. We had many good times as a family and I have wonderful memories. I was so proud of you in all your accomplishments in life and you will be sorely missed. You will be forever in my heart.
Aunt Ronnie

Dear Stoehr Family , Brad was such a nice young man , smart as hell , with an infectous smile ; You raised him well.I was his t-shirt & sign guy.I do know how hard it is to lose a child ,we lost are Katie to cancer at age 15, so if you ever need to talk please fill free to call me,Please.

Marty and Lucy, we will all miss Brad, he was a shining light everywhere he went, he loved everyone and was not just a friend but always a Best Friend to everyone he met. We will miss his smiles, his jokes, his "and a dimes", everything about him but we will NEVER forget him. The younger brothers against the older brothers will always remain a special memory between Brad and his Uncle Curt. I will especially think of him whenever I make fried chicken as I know it was his favorite and he always requested it when he visited. We will miss ribbing him about his love of women and himself! He was always so happy to see everyone as everyone was just as happy to see him. Our hearts are breaking not only for the loss of someone we loved so dearly but for your loss as a beloved son and wonderful friend was taken from this earth way too soon.
Brad - we think of you today and everyday as we shed our tears of sorrow at losing you and tears of love and remembrance for the happy times you gave to all of us. There was never a dull moment when you were in the house. We will miss the poker games where you always tried to bluff your way to the pot. We will miss you at the family gatherings but we know you will always be with us in our hearts and in our memories. We will gather together as a family and cherish you knowing how much you loved life and always embraced it with your entire being. You knew how to enjoy life and you never ceased to amaze everyone that you met with that knowledge. Your ability to love, laugh and live is what made you so special and makes you the person that no one whom has ever met you will be able to forget you. As you enter this new after life we know that you will bring as much joy there as you did on this side of eternity. Party on man and don't take all of Pap-Pap's money so we will all be able to have a great game when we join each other in the afterlife someday. WE LOVE YA MAN!!

Dear Stoehr Family and Friends,
I am so very sad for the loss of such a great individual. I will
forever remember in my heart what a vibrant, enthusiastic and positive person he was!
His beautiful eyes and smile always could light up a room. The wonderful memories of him in my heart will never be
forgotten.
The visitaton was beautiful.
God Bless you all!

My heart goes out to the Stoehr family, and to everyone who loves Brad. Brad's personality and smile are unforgettable by everyone who knows him. He will always be remembered.

It is with great sorrow that I learned oF Brad's death. I was his graduate advisor at UCCS for 2 years and became good friends with him. Brad spent a few summers helping out with house sitting while my family and I took our road trips to the Northwest.
I remember many scientific discussions with Brad as we drove to Boulder from The Springs to deliver our results to the Biotech company that funded our project. Besides his excellent understanding of biochemistry and molecular biology, Brad had a very passionate and free outlook on life. He got to know my children and they all remember him with great warmth.
God Bless. I will miss Brad like a son.

To Brad's family and friends,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I will continue to pray for you to feel peace and comfort in this time of uncertainty and sorrow. Brad truly was a joy to know and his laughter was infectious. He will never be forgotten!

To The Stoehr Family:

I had the opportunity to hire Brad at Western Forge as the lab technician. Over the years we lost contact, so it was a shock to learn of his untimely death. I am comforted in learning that he went on to be such a great success.

Words cannot express my sympathy to you as you deal with this loss. I do know that in time, God will replace your sadness with a smile. You have much to be proud of, as I am also proud of the fact that I knew him, and thankful for the opportunity to have shared in a small potion of his life. God strengthen and comfort you in your time of sorrow.

Brad, I love you man. Its been difficult to find the words say over the past few days, as each memory triggers another and another and another story or laugh or cry. Thanks for being a great roomate, friend, teamate, brother, and Gus; but most of all thanks for being a great man.

My deepest sympahty to the Stoehr Family and to my closest friend Amanda. You two were truely an awesome couple. Brad did have a great sense of humor and made you shine everytime you talked about him or was around him. He will be sadly missed by all. I will always be there for you Amanda. I love you. Kadie

Dearest Lucy and Marty and Marty, Jr.,

From across the miles I heard from My Anita and Aunt Jeanie of the shocking news.

I wish to convey to you my hearthfelt sumpathy at the loss of Brad.

There are no words to convey to you that would erase the pain you are feeling in your hearts.

Please accept the sincere sympathy I feel for you.

Know that there are friends and yes, "former" family members that feel for you and with you.

May God give you strenth and Bless you all.

Love and Prayers,

hey guys its aaron,also known as brads young employee,im really very upset and wish this tragic accident never happened,its horrible and just a big nightmare. I thought of Brad or B-rad as i called him as a big brother and i know he thought of me as a little brother,he really was a great man,even though he was a bit of a wild child which made him all the more fun,and the life of any get together.even though we all feel like we just cant live another day without him, we can and we will,but we will never forget or stop loving him,this is just one more life experience which unfortunately really sucks.um i just wanted to let you guys know that even though we really didnt know eachother that well i still love you guys and hope you guys can get through this alright.um i dont have much else to say so im just gonna leave it at that,LOVE Aaron

I am so very sorry for your loss. Brad was such a wonderful and caring guy, and everytime I saw him he was smiling and laughing. What a wonderful way to be. My son Aaron had the pleasure of working for him, and becoming very good friends with him, and loved him dearly. What a beautiful visitation this evening. May God be with you and your family in your time of need.

FIRST TO BRADS FAMILY, I AM SO SORRY THAT THIS HORRIBLE TRAGETY HAS HAPPEN TO YOUR FAMILY. GOD BE WITH YOU TO GET THROUGH THIS. I HOLD YOU ALL CLOSE IN MY PRAYERS TO GET THROUGH THIS.
BRAD: YOU WERE NOT ONLY MY BEST BUDDY BUT MY OTHER BROTHER! YOU ALWAYS MADE THE DAY OR NIGHT EASIER TO GET THROUGH AND LAUGHING WASNT EVEN A QUESTION..THE BEST MEMORIES I HAVE WAS WITH YOU, WHETHER DRIVING TO NORTH CAROLINA AND FLORIDA OR AT OLD CHICAGOS IN COLORADO OR WORKING TOGETHER AT THE BROADMOOR...WE TOPPED WHAT EVERYBODY ELSE CALLED THE BEST OF TIMES. NO ONE COULD DO IT UP LIKE YOU BRAD. I AM MISSING YOU LIKE CRAZY AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL SMILE AND LAUGH. GO MAKE CLOUDS BRAD FOR US..I LOVE YA BRO..GINA

My deepest and heart felt condolences to Brad's family and friends. I met Brad when we were both struggling through graduate school at UCCS.

I could never stay depressed or upset when he was around regardless of how tough school might have been on any particular day. I will always remember him as a good and kind friend.

Dear Stoehr Family and Friends,
Words are impossible to find to express my sincere sadness for your loss. Brad was a fun-loving friend who always wore a smile on his face. His positive attitude and contagious laugh made others around him feel joyful and uplifted. I remember when Brad joined us in middle school and he kept us laughing throughout high school and beyond. He was a gift to all who knew him. May wonderful memories comfort you in this difficult time.

Dear Mandy:
We only met Brad briefly but understand he was quite a guy. Our hearts go out to you at this time and in your days ahead. I know this hurt that you are feeling does lessen with time. I did not believe that it could but time does heal. We will talk soon and hopefully I can help shed some hope for the future. We are thinking of you and will have you in our prayers. God Bless ..:)
Love,
Ron, Tammie & Kalie

I will always remember Brad and the way he made everyone smile when he walked into a room. He was a great friend and will always with us. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of deep sorrow. He will not be forgotten.

I am so sorry for your loss! It is unimaginable what you are going through grieving the loss of your son. It is just too crazy to think that Brad is gone when Stacy and I just saw him at our 15 year reunion 2 months ago. We were joking around about our High School days. I never would have imagined this then. I always thought Brad would get so far in life, he had so much going for him. We need more people like him in this world! I will never forget that Senior skit when Brad and the usual suspects were all dressed up in their 70's gear and singing the BeeGees! I still laugh thinking back to that day. We will all miss that smile of his!

To the Stoeher Family:

What a beautiful heart your son had. He & Jeff came over to my house in Aug, & we sat outside, grilled steaks, laughed & relived so many wonderful memories. As he & Jeff left that evening, he gave me this wonderful "bear hug," and I told him that I loved him and would see him when I came back into town. That was the last time I saw Brad, but I flew back to Colorado Springs today to pay my respects to a lovely young man who has been a loyal friend to the Gallagher family for many years.

My deceased husband, Dave Gallagher, was always so impressed with Brad's impecable manners, quick wit and sharp mind.

Please know that I share your loss. I will continue to pray for your family. You have been blessed with such a loving son.

Jofa Gallagher
(mother of JD, Jeff, Jenny & Julie)

Lucy, Marty and Family,
I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Although I did not know Brad, with Lucy as his mother I know he was raised to be a loving and caring man. My thoughts are with you during this time.

Uncle Marty, Aunt Lucy, Young Marty and family,
Across the miles, my thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in your memories and love for Brad. He is with you always.
Brenda

Marty and Lucy,
We are so sorry about the loss of your son. We join your many friends and family members in extending our deepest sympathy at this very sad time.
Sincerely,

Dear Stoehr Family,
It seems like just yesterday we were playing together as rambunctious young kids in Maryland, or driving our parents crazy on a camping trip in Hershey, Pennsylvania. Brad and I reconnected in high school, sharing laughs and passing notes in the Rampart hallways. As always, Brad's zest for life was contagious and unforgettable. Though much time has passed since I last shared a laugh with Brad, these memories will never fade.

Words cannot express how very sorry I am for your loss. May God surround you with His love and care during this sad time. May these beautiful memories shared by so many bring you comfort in the days to come.
With love and deepest sympathy,
Jennifer (Jouett) Seward

The Stoehr Family,

Susan and I wanted to send you our deepest sympathies for the loss of Brad. Although we never had the opportunity to meet, I'm sure he was a wonderful person and will be sorely missed. Please don't hesitate to ask if you need anything

Marty and Lucy,

We are saddened to hear of your loss. Brad was a fine young man, who has left us far too soon. Our thoughts are with you.

My prayers and thoughts go out to to the Stoehr Family and friends. Brad was a dear close friend. The trips to Arizona for the races, the softball games and most of all Brad building my Mom and Dads deck. He will never be forgotten. My Professor

Dear Mandy,
Mandy, we are so sorry of your loss. Brad was one great guy. We will all miss him.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love you...

Stoehr Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. From the time we first met Brad you really enjoyed his personality. He will be missed.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ron and Billee McVay
(Mandy's Aunt & Uncle)

Brad was a beautiful warm person,
I will miss him. My prayers are with his family & friends.

We are glad to have had the opportunity to share some "Hoosier Hospitality" with Brad. He not only experienced the greatest spectacle in racing at the Indy 500, but he also had the white knuckle experience of driving home in the midst of an Indiana tornado!

On a return winter visit, Indiana provided a horrific ice storm that split an old Hackberry tree down the middle. By the end of the following day, upon Jim's return from work, Brad had manned the chain saw and reduced the rubble to firewood.

His lust for living, sense of humor and willingness to help others certainly earned him the endearment of the Brandon family and the love of our daughter.

We, too, will miss Brad.

I am very sad to hear about this tragedy. It is amazing how many good memories come flooding through my head remembering Brad back in college. My heart goes out to the family..so sorry for your loss

Dear Stoehr Family~

Words cannot express the sadness I feel for the loss of Brad. Brad to me was many things: my first love, a best friend, and an incredible individual who had a true zest for life that was evident by his charisma and smile. I have spent the last few days revisiting all the wonderful memories I have with Brad. I remember the big moments like proms and graduations, but I am most grateful for the day to day moments we had together just talking and laughing, watching movies, and going on picnics. Although Brad and I eventually parted ways, I learned so much about love and relationships from the time we spent together and I feel so fortunate to have known and loved him. He was an amazing friend to so many and he will remain in our hearts forever. Thank you for raising such an incredible man who touched so many lives!

Brad~ You were my first love and through all of our ups and downs you were always my friend. Thank you for all of the wonderful years we had together and all of the special moments that we shared. I will hold them in my heart forever!

Thank you for the memories and smiles! You will be missed and loved!

Marty, Lucy, Marty and family,
I sit here with tears flowing down my face as I read all the wonderful words that people have said about Brad...I considered Brad one of my brothers and will never forget how he touched my life and the lives of everyone in the Salerno family! High school would never have been the same without having him right next door! All of the memories I will treasure - from our late night talks about typical teen stuff, to him walking through our front door and heading straight to the pantry and right back out the front door again, to listening to the newest rap music that he loved, to "class attacks", to him just making me laugh to keep a smile on my face - I am just so sad that I didn't have a chance to catch up with him in the years since I last saw him - as I read the entries in this book though, he touched so many people the same way that he touched my heart - his character, and integrity and heart were a true reflection of your entire family - I will miss him deeply and will be having a toast to celebrate his life!! I love you all very much! God Bless You always!

You were lucky if you had the oppurtunity to have met Brad. He had the gift to brighten any day. I will miss the many nights at Good Company where we had huge water fights! Then the majority of the time we would all head back to my house, cook up something ridiculous and then you would make your way to your couch. I will miss you indefinatley Brad. And know that you will never be forgotten. And I promise there will always be at least one person rooting on your Steeler's. My heart goes out to all of you that have lost Brad. Please find comfort in knowing that one day we will all see him again. And he will be waiting with that unforgettable smile. Love You Brad.

You like us? How can you like us....we're only in high school?!?! Well Brad, I blew it for us that night and we ended up sleeping in Brian's old van (no offense Thomas). It's been many years since we connected my old friend; the news of your passing is devastating to me and everyone that was fortunate enough to have known you. In a short period of time at Rampart HS, we made so many memories that I hold close to my heart. Cruising in the seven listening to Prince, searching for Special K, the summer of love, trips to Boulder and AZ, parties at your parent's house (and the aftermath). But most of all I'm going to remember what a genuine person you were and how people gravitated to you. You were a true friend to many people. It makes me so profoundly sad that I'll never get to tell you that "I love you like a brother" again...

My thoughts and prayers are with the Stoehr family. May God bless you and look after you in the days to come.

The Salerno Family will always remember the young boy next door...our home was his home,our food his...I look back at those memories with a smile...Thank you Brad, we will love you for eternity.

Our hearts go out to you and your family at this time of such disbelief and sadness.

Mr. and Mrs. Stoehr and family:
I was so saddened to hear about the passing of your son Brad. I knew him through my brother, Jeff, and saw what a loyal friend he was. May his memories help you and your family get through this difficult time. God bless!
Sincerely,
Jenny Garnett(Gallagher)

Dear Mandy:
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
May our prayers be with you.

Love,
Shawn, Nancy, Eric & Stacy Nicodemus

Aunt Lucy & Uncle Marty & Marty:
My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time.

Brrradddd! I love you and will miss you deeply. You made me laugh from the moment I met you, and you kept me laughing everyday. Im so sorry I didnt see you more lately, but Im sure you understood considering I have the little one now who takes up most of my time. Thank you for all the fun times. Thank you for always watching out for me(even when I was so sick, I threw up all over you)you still never held that against me, you just knew that I would do the same for you...thats what friend are for:)...right?! I know I gave you crap for talking to J-Lo when you were eatting a totinos pizza in my living room, but heah, shes the best, what can I say! You asked me everytime I saw you how Ashtyn was, Im just so sorry you never got to meet her. Your heart was so big, you even treated Foster to a big deluxe pizza for each of his birthdays. You loved that dog more than life! I can only find comfort in my memories of you now, I will never forget. You were a TRUE friend to me and I will miss you everyday. I am blessed to have had you in my life. I know I will see you again, just promise me you will save me a piece of the pie! I love you, I love you, I love you...your friend Lindsay

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Brad was one of a kind. I will never forget how Brad would entertain all of the Gleneagle crew up and down I-25 on our way to and from school. I have known him in our adult life and remember him in high school and he still remained an awesome individual.

Having both known Brad since we were young, we have such amazing and
everlasting memories of our time with him. Whether on the soccer field (under 12 Flame soccer team through high school), hanging out in high school at his parents' house, or drinking beers at Old Chicago's, it was always a great and memorable time with Brad around. Brad is the
salt of the Earth - a solid individual, an incredible friend and one to look up to. His intelligence, athleticism, charisma and that wonderful smile will be remembered forever and missed by all. We love you and we will never forget the mark you made on our lives. God bless you Brad!

I am in disbelief as I sit and write this message. I met Brad in 2000
when we both were getting our Masters Degree at UCCS.
We instantly became great friends and stayed that way. He had an infectious laugh, smile, and sense of humor. I am overcome with sadness and will miss Brad very much. I want to express my deepest condolences to the family in this time of grief and the days ahead.

To the Stoehr Family:

We knew Brad-Lee for over 17 years and cherished all of our times together and lessons learned. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of Brad’s family and friends. Brad will ALWAYS hold a special place in our hearts.

"We always knew looking back on the tears would make us laugh.
But we never knew looking back on the laughs would make us cry."

We will miss you dearly,

I am so sorry for your loss. I will never forget Brads smile. He was such a great guy to be around. I was with him the night of the accident and he was wearing a shirt saying Im a keeper. Brad is a keeper and we will keep him in our hearts forever!

Marty, Lucy and "Young" Marty,

How do I put into words the shock that I am in and how can I help you to grieve and heal. I can only share with you some of the memories that I hold dear while living next door to you on Cherry Hills. From the endless backgammon games, drinking Berry Blue Kool-aid to taking a ride on the 4 wheeler to the "Class Attacks". His enthusiasm for life was infectious and he was a whirlwind that affected anyone that he was around. We loved him and we will miss him. He has always been and will always be part of the Salerno Family! God bless you and your family during this time of sadness.

Love and hugs.

Our deepest sympathy for your loss. Carolyn and I had the pleasure of briefly getting to know Brad when he came back to our house for a small construction job. He and our son, Kenny, spent a lot of time together in their High School days, and we remember his infectious smile, personality, and how he always was so polite with us. Our hearts go out to you and all your family. He will be forever remembered, forever loved.

We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with your family. My husband and I met Brad through mutual friends. He was a joy to be around, he will be missed.

You have my deepest sympathy. This is a loss no parent or family ever imagines. My memories jump back those years ago when the boys were little and we were all young and full of the same enthusiasm that Brad had just hours ago. The Johnson Family sends its love and prayers.

Marty & Lucy

My heart is broken as I think of you and the pain you are enduring.Sorry I cannot be there with you, know that I love you both.Brad is building the deck on our heavenly home so someday we can all be together again and smile.

Marty and Lucy
During this terrible time remember all the great times and cherish the wonderful memories. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

I met Brad the night of this tragic accident and he was such a great guy. He was wearing a shirt that said im a keeper and we all had so much fun. My prayers are with his family and like the shirt says he is a keeper and always will be.

Brad my golfing buddy at western forge, my foursome teammate and 5 time WEDATEAM Champions. May God Bless You and your family, you are in my prayers.

My deepest sympathy for the Stoehr family in this time of loss. Brad was an amazing teammate and a cherished friend. He will be missed.

Marty & Lucy,
We are so sorry to hear about Brad. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during your time of sorrow.

We are saddened by this tragic news, but the memories I have of Brad over shadow this sorrow. I met Brad in high school and had the opportunity to get to know him on the lacrosse field. Our friendship carried over from then on. Over the past years after high school, I was fortunate enough to run into Brad occasionally. I will keep those times we spent together in my mind always as I move on in life. I will never forget his infectious smile and fun loving personality! Everyone loved Brad. We will miss you Buddy!

To the family of Brad Stoehr,
I didnt know Brad at all. As a matter of fact, I didnt even know his name until today. I was at the scene of the accident last Friday night less than 1 minute after it happened and now have his face engrained in my mind. I was one of probably several that called 911 hoping this life could be spared by God. This accident was tragic and my heart goes out to you. I honestly wished I had known him better.

Lucy & Marty Sr., Marty, Tam, Alex & Andrew,

My heart absolutely aches for all of you right now. I know there is nothing anyone can say to ease your sorrow, I truly wish there was. I thank you for the honor to share some words about your beloved Son, Brother, & Uncle.

Brad was one of those people that left lasting impressions on anyone that knew him for so many different & great reasons. For me it was his love & respect for animals. His relationship with Foster was one that I always admired and cherished. They were like one soul, and for those of us who love animals as Brad did, we understand that bond they shared. When someone has that kind of love & respect for animals, it speaks volumes as to who they are as a person. I know that Brad is in heaven now with Foster, once again on his shoulders smiling that big grin of his sending down rays of sunshine to try to warm the hearts of those that love & miss him. Brad will always be here, alive in the hearts of everyone who's lives were touched by his.

May you find peace & life in all of your memories of this wonderful person whom will never be forgotten.

All of my love and heart are with all of you.

Janie

To the Stoehr Family,

It is with great sadness that I learned of your loss. Please console yourselves in knowing that you raised a solid young man and great friend to those that knew him.

I had the privilege of meeting Brad and playing lacrosse with him this past summer at a tournament in Milwaukee. His laugh and zest for life will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and loved ones.

Marty and Lucy,
No words can possibly express how much I feel for you, your family and friends at the loss of your beloved son, Brad. I will pray for God to hold you in His comforting Hands during your sorrow and during the times of joy you feel from the beautiful memories you hold. My family will always be here to help you in any way that we can.

As I sit here, still in disbelief, I pray and weep for you Marty, Lucy and Marty. Brad was my first friend in Colorado and I will never forget the great times we had - from eating copious amounts of pizza in the townhome (before the Cherry Hills home was finished)and riding "the 4" wheeler all over northern El Paso county, to the high school homecoming and prom pictures at your house. Brad was a great friend with a warm heart and I loved having him as my left fullback in soccer for 4 years and fellow lacrosse mate! May the lord bless you all in the days to come, and please know that Brad will NEVER be forgotten. Much love to you all!

To the Stoehr family and all of Brad's beloved friends and family, I am so sorry to hear about this tragic loss. Brad had a terrific presence about him and an infectious enthusiasm for life. He touched the lives of many while he was alive and I pray for peace and comfort for all of you as you go through this difficult time! I will cherish the fun memories I have of Brad from High School and college! My sympathies and prayers are with you all. God Bless!

Marty, I am so sorry about your loss. I just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you and your family. Brad sounds like a beautiful, intelligent man that will be greatly missed. I wish I could have met him.

We had the pleasure of meeting Brad when he visited with Mandy. We had them over for dinner and had a great time. Although we didn't get a chance to know him better, the first experince was a memerable one. Our prayers go out to the Stoehr family. Mandy, our hearts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Love, Bryan, Amanda, and Allyssa McKinney.