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Carol Ruminski Obituary
Carol Patteson Ruminski
August 20, 1954 - April 1, 2018
Carol Ruminski, 63, died peacefully at home on April 1, 2018, surrounded by her family after a brave and vicious fight with breast cancer. Her joy, humor, encouragement and light in this world will be missed so dearly.
Carol was born and raised in Roswell, New Mexico. She was the youngest of five children, and was adored by her older siblings. She spent her childhood being the favored babysitter of her many nieces and nephews, who still recollect the fun they had with her. Carol graduated from Eastern New Mexico University in Portales, and then continued on to earn her master's degree in Speech Language Pathology from University of New Mexico in Albuquerque. It was in Albuquerque where she met Ron during a campus church service, and in 1980, began what would be a happy 38-year marriage. After their wedding, the newlyweds moved to Ontario, Canada, and then Clemson, South Carolina, where they welcomed their first child, Katie.
In 1984, Carol and Ron moved to Colorado Springs, and happily added daughters, Ellen and Beth, to their family. After staying home with her young daughters, Carol reentered the work force and spent 20 years in various schools in District 11. She had an undeniable gift with children, making each feel safe and loved. She spent her summers cheering on her daughters at swim meets, walking with her close friends, and rooting for the Colorado Rockies. After her retirement, Carol frequently visited her grandchildren, who think their Gram hung the moon in the sky just for them. She loved hosting gatherings, where she would cook up delicious meals and make everyone feel at home. Carol loved to travel and was always up for an adventure with Ron by her side. Whether it was a road trip to a national park, or an exciting overseas excursion, Carol wanted to fully experience this world and all it had to offer.
We will always remember her kindness and thoughtfulness and strive to be the same light to the others that she was to us.
Carol is survived by her husband, Ron; daughters: Katie Nunnally (Beau), Ellen Anderson (Sean), Beth Ruminski (Aaron Page); grandchildren: Layla, Joseph, and George; brother, Tom Patteson; sisters: Margaret Brower (Walt), Patsy McGinty, Mary Jane Madison (Richard); and numerous nieces and nephews. The family would also like to remember the close friends who tirelessly supported Carol through her cancer battle.
A memorial service will be held at 2:00 p.m. Friday, April 6, 2018 at Our Lady of the Pines Catholic Church, 11020 Teachout Road.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you consider donating to one of the following organizations that were important to Carol: Rocky Mountain PBS, Catholic Charities of Central Colorado, or Pikes Peak Library District.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Carol Ruminski
Debbie Manser
April 20, 2018
Dear Ruminski Family, I am so saddened to learn of Carol's passing. Carol and I met as sorority sisters in college and were delighted to learn we were both from Roswell. I remember her chocolate chip cookies which we scarfed down on trips back to school. Some of my favorite memories of college are with her. Carol's laugh and sense of humor were infectious. The serenity she gained from her faith inspired me. I last saw her many years ago in San Francisco when Ron had come out for a conference. Over lunch & walking in the City, we laughed and talked like no time had passed between us. I don't have to tell you, Carol was a very special person. While I know you will miss her terribly, her light will continue to live on within each of you. Sending you hugs with my deepest sympathy.
Bama Coward
April 11, 2018
Carol and I went to high school together and visited about our shared experience with cancer. She was an encourager to me. I am so sorry for your loss. Bama Coward.
Tim and Trudy Kaup
April 8, 2018
Ruminski family, We are so sorry to hear about Carol, she was always so kind and had a smile for everyone. Our girls played sports together and I enjoyed visiting with her during games! We are thinking of you and praying for all you. Tim and Trudy Kaup
Lorie Cross
April 7, 2018
Thinking of you at this very difficult time.
Randy, Tristan, Stuart and I send our deepest condolences.
The Cross Family
April 7, 2018
So sorry for your loss Patterson and Madison families.
Marion Madison Harrison
Ann Yenne
April 6, 2018
Carol, you have been such a gift to so many. I am grateful that our paths crossed and that m6 life is better because of you. Praying for your family and dear friends.
Lauren Kort
April 5, 2018
Ruminski family, I am so sorry for your loss. I have so many fond memories of pasta parties, summer swim meets, and lots of Carol Ruminski smiles. Thinking of your family during this difficult time.
April 5, 2018
We are so sorry for your loss
Mary Perroni
April 5, 2018
I am saddened to hear about your loss. Your Mom was always so supportive in all of our youth activities at OLP and such a wonderful lady. She left all of you girls a sterling example of being such a good person. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you.
Scott and Leslie Sanderford
April 5, 2018
Leslie and I are truly saddened over your loss. I know how it feels to loose a parent. Always remember the good times and have positive thoughts. If you need anything we are a phone call away!
Scott and Leslie
April 5, 2018
Ron, Katie,Ellen, Beth;
Or family sends their deepest condolences. We will always have fond memories of spending time with your family at the swim meets and various parties. We send love to you at this difficult time.
The Hawley Family
April 5, 2018
My thoughts and prayers to you all, what an amazing support you have been for your mother. She was loved by so many and touched so many lives. I have admired her since the day I met her 19 years ago. I always told her I wanted to be the mother, spouse, friend, and professional she was as I journeyed with her support through life's moments. May all the wonderful memories bring you comfort on a life well lived!
Mary, Alexia, Annamarie Gowing
Becky Brown-Helget
April 5, 2018
Our deep condolances to all for your loss of Carol. She was always so sweet to our family. Lot's of great swim team memories. I pray for continued strength as you move through times without her.
Our family's love to you,
Becky Brown-Helget (Chris, Aaron and Jenifer)
Carolyn Madison
April 5, 2018
Ron, Katie, Ellen and Beth - may you have peace and know you and your precious children are dearly loved, especially today.
April 5, 2018
So very sorry for your loss. May the peace of God that excels all thoughts comfort and support you. (Psalms 56:8)
April 5, 2018
As you remember your beloved one, may our Father the God of peace give you comfort and peace in every way today, tomorrow, and always. Please accept my sincere condolences. Psalms 94:18-19 *
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