Charles Lavandar Obituary

I miss you soo much. Much love mi amigo

I don't know Charles personally, and I hope that you will forgive me for sharing my thoughts here. I was actually reading the obituary of a friend when Charles' young and bright smile caught my eye. I felt compelled to read his obituary and was glad that I did.

Learning some of the details of Charles' life, even some things as simple as the spelling of his children's names sparked curiosity in me and made me wonder and marvel at the intricacies and value of everyone's life experience, life's fleeting nature, and the eternal perspective of why we are really here on this earth.

I know that we have a loving Father in Heaven who rejoices in our achievements as well as feels the pain of our sorrows at the loss of loved ones. We all have an eternal course that we are on.

Charles seems like someone that I would have liked to have known. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Charles' family and friends, that you may eventually find peace during this challenging time.

R.I.P chuck

Patti, we are truly sorry for your loss. Your Kappa Zeta Sisters

Charles, I've known you for many years through my daughter Julia, you attended Jr. High and High School together. I got to meet you again playing pool against you at Time Out. The last time I played you, you beat me, it was the only game you won that night, and it was against me! You will be dearly missed. RIP, I will miss your smiling face. God Bless

Patty and family: We are so very sorry for the loss of your wonderful son. Please contact me if I can be of any help or support. [email protected]. Our best wishes and prayers. Margaret Radford

Chuck was my first mentor. Known this man ten years. He will still rock even if its in the after life. Bless his soul because souls don't die. They are endless.

I will always remember you for the time we shared, spent and the impact you have in this world....... I will never forget the times we had and the times we'll miss out on.......... I know we'll meet aging but until then I will never forget you brother you will be forever loved by me and mine.......
R.I.P. CHUCK

You will be missed Chuck. R.I.P.

I spent two years with you while you created and built my fence..a fence you were proud of and a fence that was exactly what I wanted. I'll remember you and the sandwiches we ate on my porch and the conversations both there and out front at your car every time I look at the fence. I always looked at you as one of my adopted sons and know what? Sons are not supposed to go before their moms. This is too..too soon and I am very sad.

Chuck, you will be sorely, sorely miseed.

MLove you, Brother.