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Darcy Renae "Star" Pustola Rhoads

1984 - 2022

Darcy Renae "Star" Pustola Rhoads obituary, 1984-2022, Colorado Springs, CO

BORN

1984

DIED

2022

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Shrine of Remembrance

1730 East Fountain Blvd.

Colorado Springs, Colorado

Darcy Pustola Rhoads Obituary

Rhoads

Darcy Renae "Star" Pustola

Rhoads

June 9, 1984

February 5, 2022



Darcy Renae "Star" Pustola Rhoads, 37, passed away unexpectedly Saturday, February 5, 2022. She was born June 9, 1984 at Fort Ord, Monterey County, California to Bruno and Colleen Pustola.

She was a resident of Colorado Springs. Star formerly lived in Germany, Arizona and Oklahoma

Darcy was a Certified Nursing Assistant working in nursing homes. She left her former occupations, wanting to help and make a difference. She was excited to work with Alzheimer's and dementia patients and had planned to be certified in that medical career stage.

Star was a true Gemini. On the one side she was compassionate while on the other a force to be reckoned with. Her soft, sensitive soul was seen only to her patients and those who were in her inner circle. People in her outer circle saw a woman full of life, laughter and sometimes full of attitude.

Darcy could be fierce in when stirred to protectiveness or anger, and many times her forthright approach to people had no filter. The fire in her soul reflected a vivacious personality capable of amusing people with her clever, witty remarks leaving you in stitches with laughter, then converse intelligently with you about many subjects.

Just four years ago Darcy met the love of her life, Patrick Sweeney. She considered the last four years with him her happiest and most fulfilling. She and Patrick had spent many hours planning their future. They had planned to marry April 7th this year.

Star loved Datsun, the dog she and Patrick raised from a puppy. She also enjoyed working with Patrick on cars.

In addition to her parents and fiancé, Darcy leaves behind her brothers, Donald of Alabama and Derek of Colorado Springs, and two sisters, Diane Pustola and Delaine (Pustola) Allen, both of Colorado Springs. Two nephews, Mason and Eon, are also of Colorado Springs. In addition, aunts and uncles residing in other states.

You tried so hard, but until now we did not fully appreciate the magnitude and range of your significance to the world around you, not knowing that we wouldn't see you tomorrow. Your energy, the contributions and presence you gave us as a daughter, fiancée and sister were memorable. We will all love and miss you forever, my cherished daughter, Darcy.

A funeral service for Darcy will be held at 2 p.m. at the Shrine of Remembrance (1730 East Fountain Boulevard, Colorado Springs) on Saturday, February 19. Visitation begins at 1 p.m.

Online condolences may be made at ShrineofRemembrance.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Gazette on Feb. 16, 2022.

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Betzaida Ruiz

June 25, 2025

I was listening to Cry Little Sister and thought of you, Diane. So I looked you up... and that´s how I found out you´re gone. I didn´t expect the sadness to hit so hard. I´m sorry we never reconnected after our teenage years. You were a shining star, and I never forgot you, my Tiasen. I never will. You were a bright soul, rest with the sky-those stars are lucky to have you.

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