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Dean Elwood Tollefson

1932 - 2022

Dean Elwood Tollefson obituary, 1932-2022, Colorado Springs, CO

BORN

1932

DIED

2022

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Dean Tollefson Obituary

Tollefson
Dean Elwood
Tollefson
March 1, 1932
September 16, 2022

Dean Elwood Tollefson of Colorado Springs passed peacefully at home after a recent diagnosis of acute leukemia.
Dean's 90 years of adventures started with a home birth on the farm in Willow Lake, South Dakota, to Ada Anderson Tollefson and Morgan Lorenzo Tollefson. Dean was playing the piano and singing harmony by ear at age 7 and later performed in a vocal quartet while a student at Augustana College, where he graduated with a double major in sociology and philosophy/religion. Dean was a legal officer for two years in the Marine Corps, after which he pursued doctoral studies at Southern Illinois University in college administration and philosophy. Dean's formal career centered on inter-collegiate cooperation and consortium work, first as Vice President at the Kansas City Regional Council for Higher Education and then as the Executive Director of the Union of Independent Colleges of Art. After moving to Colorado Springs in the mid-1980s, Dean cared for an uncle and his mother. He subsequently taught philosophy at Pikes Peak Community College and served as community chaplain to perform numerous inter-faith weddings and naming ceremonies in the Colorado Springs area.
Dean was a man of many passions and strong opinions. He was a voracious reader, lover of music and art and enjoyed listening to and exploring new thoughts and ideas. A creative problem-solver, he could always think outside the box and find the good in people. He and Brenda traveled frequently, visiting family and friends and creating new connections along the way.
Dean's active community engagement included offering philosophical courses for Pillar; facilitating spiritual exploration; and working to strengthen the interpersonal bonds that are the backbone of a community. Dean was a long-standing member of the Sons of Norway, ACLU, the League of Women Voters, the Colorado Springs Chorale, the Kansas City and Colorado Springs chapters of the United Nations Association, and Pikes Peak Detachment 29, Marine Corps League.
Dean is survived by his loving and devoted wife of 31 years, Brenda Mensink; sister Rosalie Brodin; children Nancy (Randy Switser), Tod, Daniel (Linda), Eric, and Ingrid (Troy Cusey), daughter of his ex-wife Serena Sutton; grandchildren Mariann, Sara, Nikki, Jakob, Bobbi, Berit, Brokk, Clara and Berend; and 12 great-grandchildren. Dean was pre-deceased by his ex-wife Carol Fedde, his sisters Arla Mae Shultz and Claryce Stormo and eldest son, Timothy.
An open house celebration of Dean's life will be held Sunday October 2nd from 1pm to 3pm at the Sons of Norway Lodge, 1045 Ford St., Colorado Springs. Internment is planned for summer 2023 at Collins Cemetery in Willow Lake, South Dakota. Donations may be made to a charity of your choice supporting music, animal welfare, veterans, and/or community gardens.

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Published by The Gazette from Sep. 25 to Sep. 28, 2022.

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Louise Allen

February 23, 2026

Still ----- and forever -----Dear Dean. I am also speaking for Gary and Ralph in absentia.
Louise Allen
Portland, Oregon

Louise Allen

September 15, 2025

The most wonderful thoughts and memories are with Dean, Brenda and all family and friends.
Such love, empathy, compassion and kindness to others is a rare thing. Dean was a remarkable example of pure altruism. And I'm sure he still is. Love to you, Brenda.
Louise Allen, Portland Oregon

Louise Allen, Portland Oregon

January 15, 2025

Dean, You were truly one of the good ones who walked this earth. You had a magic about you that was all your own. And you had the best laugh in the history of best laughs.
You stood out, as I bet you did everywhere in life.....and after.
You were a star.....and I'm sure you still are.
Until our paths cross again,
Louise Allen
Portland, Oregon

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nick werle

January 11, 2025

I met Dean during dem politics in CO springs years ago, --we needed more like him/ Condolences at this late date

Mona L Raber

March 1, 2023

Dean was a great man and a excellent teacher and will be mourned by the Raber family. God rest his soul.
Our condolences to his family. He will be missed. God bless him and his family.

Michael Byous

October 20, 2022

I´m very sorry to hear of Dean´s passing. I will always remember his storytelling & laugh.

Ken Myers

October 18, 2022

I sang with Dean in the Colorado Springs Chorale for many years, and we had dozens of friendly and funny conversations. He was a fine singer, and a cheerful and interesting man. I was very happy to know him. I will miss him.

Martha Mensink Oskvig

October 2, 2022

"With" you for today's gathering though not physically present.

Jacquelyn Foorman

September 29, 2022

I will forever remember your wonderful laugh! Rest in peace, Dean. You'll enjoy singing in the heavenly choir.

Maria Zakrzewski

September 28, 2022

I first met Dean at S of N in 2008. He was such a kind and joyous person. Always a big smile, to greet you, and at times funny. So sorry to hear of his passing and I'll miss him.

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Mollie N. Willliams

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Martha Mensink Oskvkig

September 25, 2022

Thinking of Dean with fond memories and much care for Brenda & his family.

Charley

September 22, 2022

I first met Dean an Brenda at a nail salon he was gettin toes painted for his grandson who was in military .. And we have been friends ever since I was his stylist Dean always looking out for the other person always trying to help with a smart man I was proud to know him

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Celebration of Life

1:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m.

Sons of Norway Lodge

1045 Ford St., Colorado Springs, CO

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