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DECLAN ROBERT O'CONNELL

1996 - 2014

BORN

1996

DIED

2014

FUNERAL HOME

Ahlgrim Family Funeral Services - Lake Zurich Location

415 South Buesching Road

Lake Zurich, Illinois

DECLAN O'CONNELL Obituary

Declan Robert O'Connell HAWTHORN WOODS - Visitation for Declan Robert O'Connell, 18, will be from 4:00pm - 7:00pm on Sunday, November 23, 2014 at Ahlgrim Family Funeral Home, 415 S. Buesching Road, Lake Zurich, IL. Mass of the Resurrection will be said at 10:30am on Monday at St. Francis de Sales Church, 33 S. Buesching Road, Lake Zurich. Interment will be at St. Michael the Archangel Cemetery in Palatine, IL. He was born on April 21, 1996 in Valparaiso, IN. He moved to Chicago when he was 18 moths old and attended Near North Montessori School from 18 months through 3rd grade, and then moved to Hawthorn Woods and graduated from Lake Zurich High School in 2014. Declan was the son of Ann and Thomas; brother of David and dear cousin of Chuck and Tosh Kimball. In lieu of flowers, memorials will be appreciated to Kennedy Forum Illinois, c/o KDJ Strategies, 53 W. Jackson Blvd., Suite 510, Chicago, IL 60604. For information, 847-540-8871 or www.ahlgrimffs.com.

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Published by The Gazette on Nov. 20, 2014.

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Ginny Ries

November 25, 2014

Ann,
My heart breaks for you. Declan was a compassionate, articulate, witty young man. You should be so proud of him. There are many good books, some are long and some are short, but it's the story that counts. Take care of yourself.

Claudia

November 24, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

November 24, 2014

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Michelle & Dave Carlson

November 24, 2014

We are so sorry for your loss. Declan was an amazing kid. We will remember him always as the adorable & friendly boy he was. Our heartfelt thoughts & prayers are with you & your family.

Mackenzie Burich

November 24, 2014

Declan will be very sincerely missed. He truly was a blessing to those that had the pleasure of being in his company. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Bridget Besse

November 23, 2014

We are so sorry to hear about Declan. He was one of Chandler's first friends when we moved here in third grade and remained friends throughout. I want you to know that Declan was my favorite if the kids in Hawthorn Woods.
He could really make me laugh!
Such a beautiful person and caring. I have wonderful memories of laughing on the account of Declan and I cherish those so much more now.
He had a way of capturing the room and lighting up the whole space. Your family is in our prayers

chika Mignani

November 23, 2014

My condolences

Marian Cartwright

November 23, 2014

Dear Tom,
I'm so saddened by the loss of your beloved son. My heart goes out to you and your family. I'm grateful I had time to talk with Declan in early July. What a nice, polite, and genuine young man. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and daily prayers. May the dear Lord bring you strength and comfort during this sad time. My condolences to you and your family.

Jim, Kerrianne, And Colleen Evans

November 22, 2014

We are so sorry for your loss. I have a distinct memory of him coming to our house when he was very young WITH a HAMMER which he thought he might use on our walls ! He was certainly a character !
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you.

John Berkowitz

November 22, 2014

Declan O'Connell was very a special young man who touched the hearts of everyone he met. He was an old soul in a young body who always put others first. He was simply one of the finest people I have every had the pleasure of meeting. Words cannot express our sorrow. He was very loved by the HWCC community and he will be missed. Our prayers of support go out to Tom, Ann, and David.

Rebecca Grover

November 21, 2014

My prayers are with you during this difficult time. Declan will be missed.

Janet MacLellan Amico

November 21, 2014

Dear Ann & Family, My heartfelt condolences on the loss of your son, Declan. You are all in my prayers.

Dave Rice

November 21, 2014

Ann and family, thinking of you during this time of loss. Peace.

November 21, 2014

We have fond memories of Declan and your entire family from our days together at Near North Montessori and Old St. Pats. Sending you all our love and prayers.
Marc Wellin, Cindy Copp + Celeste Wellin

Lisa Parent

November 21, 2014

Tom and family, there are no words to ease your pain. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most devastating time.

Lisa Parent, Willowbridge Associates

November 21, 2014

My heart is so heavy for your family. You are in my prayers.

Julie Brincat

Rita Nolan

November 21, 2014

So, so sorry. My heartfelt condolences to the family.
Rita

ilona Pellegrini

November 20, 2014

My daughter Brooklyn was friends with your son. She took her life last year at age 19. I will be out of town Sunday and so sorry to not be there. I would love to speak with your family. I have many things to tell you that may ease your pain.

Jeanette Greco

November 20, 2014

Many of us in the LZHS community will pray for your family.

Chris McGinnis

November 20, 2014

Tom, so sorry to hear of your loss of Declan, I met him at Joes' wake he was a nice young man( no surprise there, he was an O'Connell and your son). My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family in this difficult time.

George Cavaligos

November 20, 2014

So sorry for your loss, your family is in our prayers.

Donna Cheval Modaff

November 20, 2014

Tom, my heart is heavy for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Donna

November 20, 2014

Tom,

So very sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

Lou Agins

Tom Bernicky

November 20, 2014

Tom, Ann, and David, it is with a heavy heart that I heard the news of Declan passing. I am at a loss for words. I will keep all of you in my daily prayers and ask the Dear Lord to help you with your healing process.

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Memorial Events
for DECLAN O'CONNELL

Nov

23

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Ahlgrim Family Funeral Services - Lake Zurich Location

415 South Buesching Road, Lake Zurich, IL 60047

Nov

24

Funeral Mass

10:30 a.m.

St. Francis de Sales Church

33 S. Buesching Road, Lake Zurich, IL

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Ahlgrim Family Funeral Services - Lake Zurich Location

415 South Buesching Road, Lake Zurich, IL 60047

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