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Ginny Ries
November 25, 2014
Ann,
My heart breaks for you. Declan was a compassionate, articulate, witty young man. You should be so proud of him. There are many good books, some are long and some are short, but it's the story that counts. Take care of yourself.
Claudia
November 24, 2014
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
November 24, 2014
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Michelle & Dave Carlson
November 24, 2014
We are so sorry for your loss. Declan was an amazing kid. We will remember him always as the adorable & friendly boy he was. Our heartfelt thoughts & prayers are with you & your family.
Mackenzie Burich
November 24, 2014
Declan will be very sincerely missed. He truly was a blessing to those that had the pleasure of being in his company. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Bridget Besse
November 23, 2014
We are so sorry to hear about Declan. He was one of Chandler's first friends when we moved here in third grade and remained friends throughout. I want you to know that Declan was my favorite if the kids in Hawthorn Woods.
He could really make me laugh!
Such a beautiful person and caring. I have wonderful memories of laughing on the account of Declan and I cherish those so much more now.
He had a way of capturing the room and lighting up the whole space. Your family is in our prayers
chika Mignani
November 23, 2014
My condolences
Marian Cartwright
November 23, 2014
Dear Tom,
I'm so saddened by the loss of your beloved son. My heart goes out to you and your family. I'm grateful I had time to talk with Declan in early July. What a nice, polite, and genuine young man. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and daily prayers. May the dear Lord bring you strength and comfort during this sad time. My condolences to you and your family.
Jim, Kerrianne, And Colleen Evans
November 22, 2014
We are so sorry for your loss. I have a distinct memory of him coming to our house when he was very young WITH a HAMMER which he thought he might use on our walls ! He was certainly a character !
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you.
John Berkowitz
November 22, 2014
Declan O'Connell was very a special young man who touched the hearts of everyone he met. He was an old soul in a young body who always put others first. He was simply one of the finest people I have every had the pleasure of meeting. Words cannot express our sorrow. He was very loved by the HWCC community and he will be missed. Our prayers of support go out to Tom, Ann, and David.
Rebecca Grover
November 21, 2014
My prayers are with you during this difficult time. Declan will be missed.
Janet MacLellan Amico
November 21, 2014
Dear Ann & Family, My heartfelt condolences on the loss of your son, Declan. You are all in my prayers.
Dave Rice
November 21, 2014
Ann and family, thinking of you during this time of loss. Peace.
November 21, 2014
We have fond memories of Declan and your entire family from our days together at Near North Montessori and Old St. Pats. Sending you all our love and prayers.
Marc Wellin, Cindy Copp + Celeste Wellin
Lisa Parent
November 21, 2014
Tom and family, there are no words to ease your pain. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most devastating time.
Lisa Parent, Willowbridge Associates
November 21, 2014
My heart is so heavy for your family. You are in my prayers.
Julie Brincat
Rita Nolan
November 21, 2014
So, so sorry. My heartfelt condolences to the family.
Rita
ilona Pellegrini
November 20, 2014
My daughter Brooklyn was friends with your son. She took her life last year at age 19. I will be out of town Sunday and so sorry to not be there. I would love to speak with your family. I have many things to tell you that may ease your pain.
Jeanette Greco
November 20, 2014
Many of us in the LZHS community will pray for your family.
Chris McGinnis
November 20, 2014
Tom, so sorry to hear of your loss of Declan, I met him at Joes' wake he was a nice young man( no surprise there, he was an O'Connell and your son). My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family in this difficult time.
George Cavaligos
November 20, 2014
So sorry for your loss, your family is in our prayers.
Donna Cheval Modaff
November 20, 2014
Tom, my heart is heavy for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Donna
November 20, 2014
Tom,
So very sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Lou Agins
Tom Bernicky
November 20, 2014
Tom, Ann, and David, it is with a heavy heart that I heard the news of Declan passing. I am at a loss for words. I will keep all of you in my daily prayers and ask the Dear Lord to help you with your healing process.
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