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Helgi Oaks Obituary
August 2, 2016 with her beloved husband by her side.
Helgi worked as a bookkeeper and a food and beverage manager in a hotel in the Denver area for many years.
Born on December 24, 1937 in Tallin, Estonia, Helgi fled this war torn country with her mother and spent her early childhood in Germany. Her father was lost in the war and was never found. She immigrated to the US in 1948 with her mother and eventually became a citizen of the United States of America. This became one of her proudest accomplishments.
After the passing of her mother, Helgi, at the age of 13, was then raised by her loving and generous adoptive parents Paul and Helene Lehtpuu. Helgi grew up and attended schools in both Englewood and Aurora, CO. In October of 1966, she married Charles Oaks, and so began the most beautiful love story ever told.
Helgi was preceded in death by her mother, Leida Pungert Gravitis and her adoptive parents, Paul and Helene Lehtpuu.
She is survived by her husband of almost 50 years, Charles Oaks (Woodland Park); her sister-in-law, Cathy Whigham (Colorado Springs); her brother-in-law, Jim (Neaty) Oaks (Colorado Springs); nieces, Shar (Ken) Jordan; Sue (John) Amerman; Angie (Bob) Abernathy; Krista (Eric) Wolf; nephew, Dave (Jill) Whigham; 5 grandnieces; 4 grandnephews and a host of friends who meant the world to her and vice versa.
A Celebration of Life will be held on Monday, August 8th at 2pm at the Ute Pass Cultural Center, 210 E. Midland Avenue, Woodland Park, CO, with a reception to immediately follow.
In lieu of flowers, the family has requested that tax-exempt donations be made in Helgi's name to:
DayBreak – An Adult Day Program
PO Box 4777
Woodland Park, CO 80866
Online Condolences:
ShrineOfRemembrance.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Helgi Oaks
Alicia Simon
August 8, 2016
I'm saddened to hear this news. I haven't seen Helgi in years, but will always remember her as a kind, sweet lady. She and Charlue were 2 of nicest people I've ever met. Heaven just received another angel.
Bert West
August 8, 2016
Charlie,
Just saw the news of Helgi passing. Her smile was always infectious and her heart was pure gold. I pray that all the wonderful memories of the last 50 years soon flood your heart.
Bert West
Lois & Richard Goode
August 7, 2016
Charlie and family, Our hearts and prayers go out to you and the entire family. Helgi will always be a special person in so many of our hearts. "I said a prayer for you today, that God would touch you with His healing hand and give you the comfort and peace you need to get through." Peace, Blessings and Love to all of you.
Sharon Roshek
August 7, 2016
One of the bravest souls that I have ever known. What an inspiration to others!
Kellie Case
August 6, 2016
Dearest Charlie, So sad to hear of Helgi's passing and your loss. All my love and blessings.
Deb Rocco
August 6, 2016
Dear Charlie
We offer our sincere condolences on the passing of Helgi. You two were an inspiration to others. We are unable to attend her memorial. Please know we will be with you in thought. May your memories sustain you and help you to find peace.
Jim and Deb Rocco
Bill & Lydia and family Chelf
August 6, 2016
Our hearts go out to you, our dear friend. Sixty years of friendship with two very special and dear people. We love you very much and will miss Helgi. She was a very courageous person. Our prayers go out to you, She is in the arms of the Lord.
Kristin,Shawn,Ian & Riley Manzo
August 6, 2016
Dearest Charlie, We are all so sorry to hear of Helgi's passing and your loss. Thank you both for being so wonderful to our family. It was a great privilege and pleasure to work with Helgie for so many years and call you both dear Friends. Our Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We are always here for you. May loving Memories ease the pain of your heart.
Ana Smith
August 6, 2016
Charlie and Helgi have a love that will forever shine. They have both taught me how to live a remarkable life, and Helgi's strength, beauty, and humor will forever be remembered. A beautiful angel by God's side watching over us all.
Love,
Ana
Erv & Arlene Harmon
August 6, 2016
Charlie, the special relationship that you and Helgi have had has been an inspiration to all of us! We both have fond memories of Helgi that will be with us forever. Take care of yourself.
Diane Hintze
August 6, 2016
I am so sorry, Charlie, for your loss. May God, friends, and good memories minister to your sore heart. My greetings to you and family, from an old Mountain National friend.
August 6, 2016
The love and companionship Charlie and Helgi shared is a wonderful everlasting inspiration for all!!~ Rob and Cindy Yardumian
Ben & Jamie Caperton
August 6, 2016
Charlie,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We were truly blessed to have been touched by her presence in our lives. Love Ben & Jamie
Rose Hendren (Kirkendall)
August 5, 2016
So sorry for your loss Charlie. It has been a very long time since I left Mountain National. I will never forget all of you. Bless you and take care during this very difficult time.
August 4, 2016
Dearest Charlie...My heart is with you... Helgi & you both have been a love story to follow!! We all love you so much!
Bobbi & Bill Smith
August 4, 2016
Dear Charlie, We were so sorry to hear of Helgi's passing. The lady with the lovely smile will be so missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Marie Lucero
August 4, 2016
So very sorry Charlie. We will miss her at our family get-to-gethers. Our love and prayers.
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