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Howard Carlton Ray

1945 - 2021

Howard Carlton Ray obituary, 1945-2021, Colorado Springs, CO

Howard Ray Obituary

HOWARD CARLTON RAY
January 3, 1945 February 3, 2021
Howard Carlton Ray was born 1-03-1945 to Joseph Manning and Lucile Alice Ray in Burbank California
Howard died, peacefully, February 3, 2021, after a brief bout with pneumonia (non-CoVid related).
He Graduated from John Burroughs High School and was a star runner on the Cross-Country and Track team. He Graduated from UCLA in 1966 with a math and political science degree he later got a Master's Degree in Computer Science, which led to a long career as a Computer Programmer and System Analysis, working for SDC, Lockheed Martin and L3 Communications, retiring in 2005.
In October of 1966, he married Mary Jane (Irby) Ray. They had a wonderful 54 years together. Their life was full of travel, camping, hiking and were co-partners in raising three terrific children. Their son Michael Howard Ray preceded his father in death.
Howard had a gift connecting and organize people. That accounted for his many long-time friends. He also liked the outdoors, reading, investing and playing poker.
Howard is survived by his wife, daughters Chelsea Ray and Heather Kelley; granddaughters Alina and Chloe Schueman; Madeline and Katie Kelley. He is also survived by his brother Stuart Ray; Sister Diana Ray-Goodman; nieces Elise and Chelain Goodman and nephew David Goodman and many, many friends.
A Celebration of Life will be held sometime this summer or fall (pandemic permitting). In lieu of flowers, donations in Howard's name, can be made to First Congregation Church, Colorado Springs or a nonprofit of your choosing.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Gazette on Feb. 10, 2021.

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Steve Driska

March 4, 2021

Janie and I were very sorry to hear of Howard's passing. Howard was a very kind, witty, and caring man. I knew Howard through the Forum and through the Thursday morning men's group at church. When I joined, Howard was very friendly and kind, and went out of his way to make me feel welcome. As other new people joined, I saw him be just as welcoming and caring to them. I will miss his wisdom, humor and cheerful smile on Thursday mornings. I was glad to have met him and have him be a part of my life.

Grace LOYD

February 13, 2021

Our deepest sympathies go out to Howard's family during this difficult time.
May you feel God's presence and warmth wrapped around you.
You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Timothy and Grace Loyd

Lynn Young

February 13, 2021

Oh yes—-we were definitely beneficiaries of Howard’s curiosity, enthusiasm and magnanimity. He’s bright smile will be so missed! ~Lynn and Ben Young

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