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Jeffrey Wheeler Obituary

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JEFFREY R. WHEELER
October 20, 2019
Jeffrey R wheeler, 78, died on Oct 20, 2019 after a short stay with the gentle care of Brookdale Monument Valley Assisted Living and Hospice.
Jeff was born and raised in Waukesha, Wi, by parents Dolores and Robert Wheeler. Fishing, hunting, and sport shooting became his lifelong avocations, along with a love and respect for nature. As an adult, his interest in the law scuttled medical school plans in favor of law school, earning a Bachelor of Science degree in 1963, followed by a Law Degree in 1966 from the University of Wisconsin. He was accepted to the Wisconsin and Colorado Bars, the Colorado Court of Appeals as well as the Wisconsin, Colorado, and United States Supreme Courts. Serving on the boards of the Valley Hope Alcohol and Addiction Center and Cheyenne Creek Metropolitan Park and Water District were among his proudest achievements, along with being a proud Packer fan!
For better or worse, in his 2nd year of law school, Jeff met and married Jean in 1964, deciding school would be better with her, than without her. By the time he was awarded his Law School degree, his life had expanded to include a wife and 2 daughters, Kara and Jenny, prompting careful career considerations. With a family in tow, Jeff was accepted into the Army's Judge Advocate General Corps (JAG), a 4 yr commitment, which dealt with military justice and law. Fort Carson, in Colorado Springs, Co, became our home in 1967 until Vietnam called in 1970, where he served as a military judge until his year-end discharge. Despite his antipathy to that war, he never entertained a "draft dodger" mentality, duty bound to honor his commitment. Unfortunately, his exposure to Agent Orange would be a causative factor in his demise.
The joyful highlight of his return to civilian life in late 1970, was meeting his 3rd daughter, Holly, born in Sept of that year. A deputy district attorney position with the El Paso County DA office awaited his 1971 return to Co Springs, where he experienced the prosecutorial side of the law, but later choosing to be a defense counsel in private practice for the remainder of his career. As an attorney, Jeff aspired to its highest ideals and remained loyal to that intent for all his professional life. Honesty and devotion in representing his clients was a constant in his life.
As a family, we will miss and honor his optimism and courage as he fought his many health issues, his strong core values as a husband and father, and his playful nicknames for all of us. Jeff is lovingly survived by his wife of 55 yrs, Jean (weeny), daughters Kara "Boo" Kiefer (Mike), Jenny "Nif" Wheeler (Jeff), Holly "H" Mason, grandsons Brandon "B" Kiefer, Garrett "6 toes" Kiefer, Tanner "Tanner Boo" Mason, and Chase "Chasey Duck" Mason, sister Jill "jillybean" Wheeler (Peg), brother Keith "Keither" Wheeler (Cindy), and numerous nieces and nephews.
Donations may be made to the Colorado Cystic Fibrosis Foundation. A private family memorial is planned.

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Published by The Gazette on Oct. 26, 2019.

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Heidi

January 2, 2024

Jean, I came across a business card of Jeffrey's today with your name written on it as well. We had met on a National Wildlife Federation trip to Costa Rica in the early 2000s. I was a young woman then who worked for the org and got to tag along. I have always remembered you both fondly because we had so much fun on that trip. I remember laughing with you like a school girl until tears came to our eyes. Time passes way too quickly. But sometimes brief encounters stick with you. Thinking of you warmly xo

Babette Abadie

November 21, 2019

Jean, My heartfelt love and sympathy go out to you and your family.

October 29, 2019

Jeff was a friend and law partner for years in our early days. A wonderful lawyer and a better friend. Always amusing and loyal he led by example, His like are rare condolences to his family, Justin Melat

ELVIN GENTRY

October 28, 2019

Jeff was one of the best trial lawyers I ever worked with. Add to that, he was also one of the funniest, best-humored guys to be around. I will miss my old lunch-buddy.

My deepest condolences to Jean and his family.

Glenn Pressman

October 26, 2019

I am sorry to learn that Jeff died. Although I have not been in touch with him for the last few years, I often think of him. He had a big influence on my early legal career. Please accept my sincere condolences.
Glenn Pressman

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