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Jesse Avenida Obituary

Jesse Pete Avenida Student Our so beloved Jesse has gone to meet his master so unexpectedly on Tuesday, December 27, 2011, at the age of 24. We are so heart broken. Jesse was born June 3, 1987 in Visalia CA. He leaves behind his parents, Richard and Martha, his brothers Richard and Joseph and sister Benecia, all of Visalia. He graduated from Visalia Adult School, attended C.O.S. and worked for Kaweah Delta Hospital, which he really enjoyed. He was a Pittsburg Steelers Fan, a good cook and someone who always knew what to say. Jesse was sharp and classy, his shoes were never dirty and his clothes had to be perfect for the occasion. He loved camping and going to all the family gatherings. We will forever love and miss him. He leaves behind his aunts, uncles and all his cousins with broken hearts. Until we meet again in Paradise Jess. He is preceded in death by his grandpa Pete Cruz and grandma Irene Ortega. We Love You Jess and miss you so much! A Celebration of Life Service will be held at 10 AM on Thursday, January 5, 2011 at the Pentecostal Lighthouse Church 1219 W. Noble, Visalia CA. The Wake will be at 7 PM on Wednesday, January 4, 2011 at Salser & Dillard Funeral Chapel. Visitation will also be held on Wednesday from 4 PM till 7 PM at Salser & Dillard Funeral Chapel. Burial at Visalia District Cemetery. Condolences may be e-mailed to [email protected]

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Published by Visalia Times-Delta and Tulare Adv-Register on Dec. 31, 2011.

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Rhonda Barney

January 20, 2012

Martha~ You are frequently on my mind, and I hope you are beginning to heal. I am praying for you & your family in this painful time. Try to view the world around you with fresh eyes. You can find joy everywhere, it is in the simplest of things. I love you, my friend! Here's a big hug! Rhonda Barney

Yolie Salinas

January 15, 2012

My so loved "Jetchie"
Waking up each morning knowing that you are not here is so heart breaking and at times unbearable.
The memories you leave behide will never be forgotten and treasured forever in my life time.
The little book you made me "my Anut Yolie and I" the talks we had, being real or the laughs and tears we shared, leaving us so unexpectly too young too soon. That's not fair, I should be gone before you.
My Jess, you have taken my joy, our family is not complete without you, I'll miss your smile, laugh and telling you how nice you always dressed, you looked so spiffy. I'll miss your hugs. I miss you now.
But I know we will be together again, Pops, You and I, in the city where the streets are made of gold, and we all have a mansion, where there are no more tears, we will be with the Prince Of Peace, our master and creator Jesus Christ
I love and miss you sooo much.
Your Anut Yolie

Yolie Salinas

January 15, 2012

My so loved "Jetchie"
Waking up each morning knowing that you are not here is so heart breaking and at times unbearable.
The memories you leave behide will never be forgotten and treasured forever in my life time.
The little book you made me "my Anut Yolie and I" the talks we had, being real or the laughs and tears we shared, leaving us so unexpectly too young too soon. That's not fair, I should be gone before you.
My Jess, you have taken my joy, our family is not complete without you, I'll miss your smile, laugh and telling you how nice you always dressed, you looked so spiffy. I'll miss your hugs. I miss you now.
But I know we will be together again, Pops, you and I, in the city where the Street's are made of Gold, and we all have a mansion, where there are no more tears, we will be with the Prince Of Peace, our master and creator Jesus Christ.
I love and miss you soooo much.
Your Anut Yolie

mickie mcintosh

January 13, 2012

You were such a cute baby. I loved kissing your dimples. You and Micheal would always pester me when you spent the night. I would give anything to have those days back now. My heart is truly broken. Til we meet again cousin.

Dani Jauhall-Gamboa

January 12, 2012

Martha and family ~ We are so sorry for the loss of Jesse. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Please know that even in the darkest of times, God is there. May His comfort sustain you. Ps. 61:2 We have wonderful memories of you and your family at ATT. We love you and are praying for you in Oregon. God Bless.

Nicole soto-Perales

January 9, 2012

My heart is heavy for you Avienida Family, I am truly sorry for the loss of Jesse...He had grown up to be such a handsome young man.

Robin Mederos-Coelho

January 6, 2012

Martha and family ~ May the Lord give you all strength to get through this awful tragedy. Continue to lean on your faith, family and friends when you think you cannot get through another day. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.

Rhonda Barney

January 6, 2012

Martha and family~ I am so very sorry for your loss. I haven't seen Jesse for many years, but he was such a cute, fun child. It breaks my heart to think of the pain you are experiencing. I know you are a big, loving family, and you will get through this by the comfort you give to each other. With much love, Rhonda Barney, Prineville Oregon.

Andrea Vasquez-Turner

January 6, 2012

My deepest condolences to The Avenida and Cruz families. My heart was so saddened when I recieved word last week that Jesse had passed. Me and Gracie were best friends when we were young and I remembered all the great times I had with the whole family. I remembered the boys (Jesse & Richard) always wrestling! I see that Jesse grew into such a good young man with a beautiful smile. May the Lord comfort all those whose lives have been touched by him. My family and I will keep you all in our prayers.

Lisa Turner

January 5, 2012

My heart goes out to you Martha! You are in my thoughts and prayers. God will give you the strength you need and your son is in good hands!

PHATJOE559

January 4, 2012

R.I.P

Rick &Jessie Bravo

January 4, 2012

So very sorry to hear of your loss Martha and Family. As a mother my heart hurts for you. I remember Jesse's beautiful smile as a young man in our Junior Sunday School Class at ATT, and later as a young adult when we would run in to him at Red Robin. I pray that the Lord will comfort you and your family. God Bless You...

Joe vasquez

January 4, 2012

i remember jesse as a kid and teenager. We both were babtized the same day. He was always so excited and funny. May your soul rest and be at peace in the arms of God. My deepest condolences to the family and friends. may god bless.

John 6:39-40

Leticia Sullivant

January 3, 2012

Dear Joseph and Avenida Family,

Please accept my deepest sympathies for your loss. Clearly Jesse was an exceptional young man who was greatly loved and will be dearly missed. I pray you will be comforted in the knowledge that your precious brother is in the arms of the Lord at this very moment. Again, I am truly sorry for your loss.

From your old teacher and friend,

Mimi Stephens

January 3, 2012

Jessie I know your in heaven right now with that huge beautiful smile as you get to be with our creator. As for your family I am @ a loss for words. Nothing or no one can take that pain away but may our god of love comfort you all in this time of grief & loss. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you.

Mel Ramirez

January 3, 2012

Jesse, your laugh and smile warmed the hearts of every life you touched. I remember all of our silly jokes that we shared, all the great times we had at our family functions, and even spending time out here on the coast when you would come to visit. You always made it a point to make sure me and whoever I was with was taken care of. I will always remember you as a caring, funny, handsome and loving person. You're our angel now please watch over us.

Breane Ojeda

January 3, 2012

Jesse, You are dearly missed. You put a smile on so many peoples face, I will never forget you. You'll always be in my heart<3 I will never forget the good times camping. I miss and love you cousin<3

Chris and Cynthia Duarte

January 3, 2012

Martha and Rick, please accept our deepest condolences for your loss.

Diana Martinez

January 3, 2012

Jesse.. rest in peace and keep comfort over your family from HEAVEN mijio...
Diana Martinez

A. Martinez

January 3, 2012

Thinkin bout you Jesse! I'll never forget that smile or your laugh! Take care of your FAMILIA from up above!
REST IN PEACE!!!!

Francis Ramos

January 2, 2012

Martha,Rick and family, It is with a heavy heart that I give my utmost respect and condolences at this devasating time of Jesse's passing.
He was the most respectful young man I had ever met. Not to mention his beautiful curly hair and a great smile. Jesse was also a hardworker, never said no, had a can do attitude. Everyone loved to work with him because he could always see the good in everything and make you smile.
Jesse will truly be missed but never forgotten. A Mothers Love is beyond measure especially for her children. Hold tight and never let go of Gods Hand....Is the only thing that can take you where you need to be and have Peace.

Benecia Avenida

January 2, 2012

Jesse, you will be greatly missed by the family including me. I have so many good and fun memories with you. You ALWAYS made me and Joseph laugh. Thank you for all those good times. I know I didnt tell you this enough but you should know this already, I love you big brother. See you in heaven.<3

Joe armstrong

January 2, 2012

Rest in peace Jesse ,,The Armstrong's.... Its a very sad day........

MIREYA SANCHEZ

January 2, 2012

MAY GOD BLESS THE FAMILY THROUGH THIS MOST DIFFICULT TIME.....HE WILL GIVE YOU THE STRENGTH AND COMFORT , REST IN PEACE

Megan Aria

January 2, 2012

We miss you Jesse!! Your big smile, our fun times and all the memories made!! Thank you for always being there for Aria!!! Keep smiling down on us!!!

Monica Calvo

January 2, 2012

Martha and family,I am very sorry for your loss. May God help you and your family through this difficult time. My prayers are with you.

Annette Bermudez

January 2, 2012

Rick and Martha, I am at a loss for words! I loved your son very much. Jesse was such a sweet caring young man. I had the honor ad privilege to know him as a young boy and go through his adolescent years throughout high school up until recently at the Adult School. My heart feels your pain! God will give you both the strength to get through this difficult time.
Much love and respect to you two and your family.

January 1, 2012

To my nephew I will always remember on Christmas eve when u were waiting for me to finish making the menudo n u were excited to eat it n that beautiful smile u had. My heart is broken n sadden. I luv u n will always miss u Jess. Luv Ur aunt Gracie

Michael Mcintosh

January 1, 2012

To my cousin Jess I will miss you deeply. No one had more swag then u. You n andrew are the brothers I never had. Give papa a hug 4 me. Luv u jess until we meet again.

Richard n Yvonne Renteria

January 1, 2012

Words cannot express the pain an sadness that we feel for the family Martha and Rick We pray for God to give strength and carry you through this dificult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Jennifer See

December 31, 2011

Jesse was an amazing person with a huge heart. Words couldn't explain how much you are really missed. I'm going to miss your smile & those dimples of yours. Not a goodbye but a see you soon. Rest in Paradise JA <3

Rosa

December 31, 2011

May God comfort you and your family during this time. He was a thoughtful young man. I remember when he drew a picture for my son, David when he was born, which I still have. Again, I am so sorry for your loss, but we will see him again in the heavens where there are no more tears or pain. Arista Family

andrea ward

December 31, 2011

MY BOY YOU WILL FOREVER BE IN MY HEART NEVER FORGOTTEN LOVED ONE

tim lipps

December 31, 2011

i will always remember that smile and your friendship we will meet again one day i'm going to miss you. im very sorry for his family's loss

vanecia moreno

December 31, 2011

Family! Much love n respect ur way ill always remember that smile! My prayers go out to you and ur family. <3

Delia Alvarez

December 31, 2011

Hope you know how much you are truely missed. Jesse you will always be a part of our family. Your smile will forever be remembered! Rest in Paradise...

andrew and chelsea bustos

December 31, 2011

O jesse :) we are going to miss your smile and your laugh..remember you for your style and your "swag" as you would tell me..the times we would say "we should go to the beach" and just up and leave at 11pm to pismo..then couldn't find a hotel so we just had to sleep in the car..and most recently you eating up all the cereal and drinking up all my milk..we love you Jess and we'll miss you very much..until we meet again cousin rest easy- your cousins Andrew, Chelsea and little eric

Rick & Jessie Bravo

December 31, 2011

Our prayers are with you Sister Martha and Family. We will always remember him as a student in our Sunday school Junior class at Apostolic Truth Tabernacle. We are so very sadden to hear of your loss. God Bless You and The Avenida/Cruz Family

Margie Morales & Family

December 31, 2011

Jesse you were a wonderful person. And it's hard to hear you are gone.. Your nephew Isiah loves and misses your dearly! May you rest in peace, and may the lord help and guide your family in these hard times.

heidi cox

December 31, 2011

Jesse was an amazing person and friend. He had a good heart and anyone close to him knew that. I am so sorry for your loss and your family are in my prayers.

Frank & Amelia Miramontes

December 31, 2011

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Diana Alfaro

December 31, 2011

I was so saddened to hear of your loss.I will always remember Jesse as a wonderful kid...always helping out his mom..going camping and to the snow and any other family functions.May the Lord give you strength at this difficult time and the days ahead.My thoughts and prayers go out to the Avenida and Cruz family.God bless you.

Terry Garcia-ortiz

December 31, 2011

My deepest condolences to the Avenida and Cruz family. May God give you the strength during this difficult time.

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