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John Arends Obituary

April 20, 1947-January 26, 2008. John C. Arends, 60, passed into the sunset January 26th, 2008. He was surrounded by adorning family and friends. John was born April 20th, 1947 in Clarion, Iowa. He grew up on the Big Valley farm near Belmond, Iowa. He leaves behind to remember and live his legacy, his wife Judy, daughters Heather and Tiffany, granddaughters Vanessa, Sierra and Haley, son-in-law Mike, sisters Lynne, Gloria, Alison and brother Dale. He was preceded in passing by his mother Marian, father Henry and daughter Gretchen. John started a career in sales at Sears selling sewing machines, shoes and vacuum cleaners where he earned accolades as a top sales person. He started selling real estate in 1973 and it became his passion for the next 35 years. Determination, wit, positive thinking, problem solving, and an incredible financial mind earned him great success in his career and allowed him to help so many people realize their dream of homeownership. John was a loving and caring husband, father, father-in-law and grandfather. John and his wife Judy shared an amazing 37 year journey through life and travel. He was always there for his three girls and his three grand girls for support, love and guidance. He was a mentor, an advisor, a sounding board, and biggest fan to everyone in his family. John's gift for story telling, his zest for life, his spontaneous nature, wit, charm, sense of humor and generosity will be treasured by so many friends and family. John was most simply are very special person who won the hearts of so many and will be greatly missed. A Celebration of Life will be held 11:00 am Friday, February 1, 2008 at Woodmen Valley Chapel, 290 E. Woodmen Road in Colorado Springs. In lieu of flower, contributions to the John C. Arends memorial fund can be sent to Wells Fargo Bank, 8620 N. Union Blvd, Colorado Springs, CO 80920.

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Published by The Gazette from Jan. 30 to Jan. 31, 2008.

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Kathy Hunt

February 25, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family. John Arends showed the house we bought here in Briargate 21 years ago. We still live here. He made an impression on us.

Kathy and Melvin Hunt

Drew Campbell

February 23, 2008

Hello Judy and Girls,

I am so sorry for the loss of John. I met John back in 1978, I was just newly married, became a manager for two small apartment buildings behind the YMCA in Mankato which he shared ownership. Then in 1979, he sold us our first home on Byron Street. I lived in that home for 18 years. He let the home sell itself, no pressure. His philosophy should be noted by all in realistate. Allow the buyer to find out if they love the home, only provide good information as needed. I remember both of you well, fine loving people, and felt Mankato missed something when you left to move to Colorado. My daughter Alyssa has been living there now for almost two years in Highland Ranch.

I hope Judy that you get these messages from this on-line guest book ? Please let me know how you are doing. Keep it going for a year, it will be worth it too...

Warmly,

Drew Campbell
[email protected]
507-387-2408 home
Mankato, MN

Steve & Diane Brady

February 11, 2008

Our deepest sympathies to his family and co-workers. We never met John but our realtor, Kevin, talked highly of him. We were treated like family when we bought our home. I can tell the community will miss him dearly. Our thoughts and prayers are with all who knew John.

Chuck Murry

February 6, 2008

Hi Judy, Nice to talk to you yesterday. I wish I could of met John. Sounds like he was quite a guy. You are in my thoughts and prayers. You have been through so much the past couple years. Take care. Chuck Murry

Judy and John Luther

February 4, 2008

Judy We always remember John with affection.He helped us buy our house in North Mankato. I have a picture of him as a purple people eater at a Sertoma Convention. You and the girls are in our thoughts and prayers.Judy and John

Dixie Mathews

February 4, 2008

I am sorry I did not know John. He
is my cousin. My Mother was Hazel Arends Benson. I just know how hard it is to part with a sibiling and my thoughts and prayers are with all the family.

Lydia & John Baumann

February 1, 2008

We wish to express our deepest sympathy to all the Arends family. John sold our home for us in 1998 and we will never forget his honesty and professionalism he showed to us. Lydia & John Baumann

Petra Jackson-Oxford

February 1, 2008

While I didn't know John personally, I had the pleasure of knowing and working with two of his girls; Heather and Tiffany. My heart goes out to both of them and his entire family during this most difficult time. Take comfort in knowing that he's at peace.

Diana Hoover

February 1, 2008

Judy, Heather, Tiffany, Granddaughter, and John's brother and sisters,
My thoughts are with you, especially this morning. John and I shared so many good times growing up. Since our college years, we have rarely seen each other, but the bond that was made as youth still remains. How I wish I could also have enjoyed time with John during our adult years, and how grateful I am for the last words we were able to share. A cousin, Diana

Don Gardner

January 31, 2008

To all at Team Arends; God Bless you. Our prayers are with you.

Don Ure

January 31, 2008

I knew John when he worked in Mankato, Mn as a realtor. He was always a joy to work with in helping to finance his clients. John was sure a gentlemen. My deepest sympanthy to his family.

Dean and Keri Browning

January 31, 2008

I had the pleaure of knowing John in Mankato during the 70's. John was a special and thoughtful person. Our prayers are with him and his family.

Deepest Sympathy

Jim Tucker

January 31, 2008

To Judy and family,

John and I were cousins who grew up near Alexander, Iowa, the home of our grandparents, John C. Arends and Anna Bode Arends. Cousin John, whom we all knew as Johnny, enjoyed a special place among the grandchildren because he was Grandpa Arends' namesake. Johnny's father, Henry, and my mother, Edna Tucker, were brother and sister. Johnny and I lost direct contact through the years, but I have wonderful childhood memories of him. The Tucker cousins (Muriel, Bonnie, Barbara and I) share your grief and send our deepest sympathy.

valjean thorsen

January 31, 2008

My Mother was Hazel(Arends) Benson.
I want you all to know that the Benson cousins here in MN are keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers
ValJean Thorsen

Jen Barry

January 31, 2008

To The Arends Family-
My thoughts are with you in this time of grief and sorrow. For every tear that passes may you recall a loving memory of a great man who touched the lives of many. He will be greatly missed by all, and forever remembered.
Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers, God Bless You All.

Keith & Kim Person

January 31, 2008

We would like to extend our thoughts & prayers to all of John's family, friends and associates. John sold our home last month and helped us contract on building our dream home. He truly was a pleasure to work with! We know he will be deeply missed.

David & Kathi Jouvenat

January 31, 2008

Judy and Family,
We were saddened to hear the news of John's passing. He would bring joy to a room with his recognizable burst of laughter. He practiced a life of good ethics and lived the meaning of the Golden Rule. He'll be missed.

Nyla Young

January 31, 2008

Judy and Family,
Our office just won't be the same without that sauntering guy roaming the halls. John has been a beacon and supporter of us all and we will miss him. You know we are all here for you if you need us, just make a call and you'll have a legion of realtors at your doorstep.
God Bless and Keep You.

Barb Clark

January 30, 2008

I am very sad to lose my cousin, John Arends. We are the same age and played together when we were little in Iowa. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Judy, and your daughters as you grieve the loss of a wonderful husband and father. Gloria, Lynne, Dale, and Alison, I know you're hurting so much, and we love you all.

Barb and John Clark

Bill, Chris & Billy Kimel

January 30, 2008

We had the honor of knowing the man you called Husband, Dad and Grandpa. He was a wonderful man and will be greatly missed by so many. Our thoughts are with your family at this very difficult time.

Bob Freeman

January 30, 2008

Judy and family;
I was so sorry to hear of John's passing. He was much to young but left such a positive indelible mark on so many. Grab on to the good times and never let them go.

Kelly Price

January 30, 2008

My thoughts and Prayers are with the Arends family. I had the privilage to work with John, and his buy out program to get several of my buyers into a new home. I learned a lot from John, and will miss him!

Bernice Andrews

January 30, 2008

Judy and girls,
How sad we all are here in the community where John grew up. John was a special nephew and grew up with my children. My sympathy goes out to you all. with my love, I am John's aunt Bernice

Bernie Prieto

January 30, 2008

Judy...I remember the day John surprised you with the biggest bouquet of flowers and a birthday surprise of a limo ride with girlfriends to help you celebrate a birthday.......what a sweet,loving man to enjoy the thought of making you happy. I am thinking of you and your family.
Bernie Prieto

Sandy Rech

January 30, 2008

Dear Judy, Your family has been through so much in the last few years. My heart goes out to you! He was soooooo young.

Joe and Wrae McCabe

January 30, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with the Arends family at this time. John was a wonderful man, who had nothing but everyones best interests at heart! I can thank him for helping me get into my dream home! He will forever be missed!

Danette & Gene Voshage

January 30, 2008

Dear Judy and family
Our hearts go out to you all. We know that you are surronded by much love and support.

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