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Joseph Plumitallo Obituary

From A&P to Wall Street
Hey, tell the guys in Bensonhurst: Joe's horse came in first at Freehold the other day.

Yeah, the same Joseph Plumitallo who used to be the stock boy at the Stillwell Avenue A&P, where at 17 he caught the eye of Doreen Manno, 16, the meat wrapper. Got married and lived in a room in his parents' house on Lake Street. Talked his way into a bottom-rung job on Wall Street. Rode the F train to his future, as a Cantor Fitzgerald bond broker. Went from a polyester suit at the 1976 Lafayette High prom to wearing pinstripes, buying a few horses, and, at 45, treating clients to Super Bowls.

He was quite a talker. He would start that story of how Ms. Manno nodded off after one drink on a date at Dangerfield's, slept through dinner, dessert, "the whole show, asleep" and — here's where his smile would widen, eyes locked on Ms. Manno's, for the punch line — "in the ladies' room." And so many other stories.

Dressed impeccably, he would take his daughters, Genna, 11, and Lisa, 9, in new white outfits, to the hometown Father- Daughter Dance in Manalapan, N.J. He would drive his son, Joseph Jr., 5, over to the stable at Gaitway Farm on a Saturday to watch his favorite, El Diablo, get ready to race.

Are Diablo and the others still racing? You bet. It was Genna's wish, and Lisa's, and Joe Jr.'s. And you have to believe it would have been Joe's.

Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on December 11, 2001.


JOSEPH PLUMITALLO, 45, of Manalapan, N.J., loved the ponies. A bond broker at Cantor Fitzgerald, Plumitallo could be found most Saturdays checking out the horses he owned at the Freehold Raceway with his young son. "He loved the excitement and the animals themselves," said his wife Doreen Plumitallo. "Always, even as a kid, he loved the races." Plumitallo was talking on the phone to a friend when hijacked airplanes hit the World Trade Center Sept. 11. Besides his son, Plumitallo had two daughters. "I'm going to miss everything about him," his wife said. "Especially, watching him play with the kids and that cute way he looked at me when telling a story."

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Published by The Gazette on Oct. 17, 2001.

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Laraine Bifalco

September 11, 2019

Thinking of all of you today ,he was a special person

Always in our hearts. We will never forget you Joe. Tommy and JoJo

JoJo Strenta

September 11, 2018

S.J Friscia III

September 29, 2017

In Memory with
Honor & Respect.

Josephine and Tom Strenta

September 12, 2017

Sept 11 2017

Jo n Tom Strenta

September 14, 2015

Dear Joe i can not believe it is 14 years . I went Sept 11 to visit you. To say hello and send my prayers. It was beautiful day. You will never be forgotten. Love Jo n Tom.

Josephine Strenta

June 5, 2015

June 4 2015
Dear Joe. We came to visit you today. And we left you a flower and a personal note. We will be visiting the Freedom tower for the first time today. With your picture in my pocket. And the love we have in our hearts. Strangers stopped by and read the note and even prayed. And only had kind words to say. We miss you. Tommy and Jo

Rafael Parizzi

June 4, 2015

I've been at liberty tower and saw the note at Joseph Plumitallo name, me and my wife got really emotioned with that beautiful act. Its a tough and painfull happening to lose a love one in such a terrible event. We'll always remember and pray to God to bless the Plumitallo Family and to warm their herts. We understand and support you!

Peter Reilly

March 21, 2015

We will never forget. God bless the Plumitallo family.

Tommy and Josephine Strenta

September 13, 2014

Joey. We came to visit you. I can not believe its been 13 years. We will never forget. You will always be in our hearts. Heaven has been blessed with your heart of gold.
God bless you. Our prayers go to you, Doreen and the kids.

Marie&Gerry Florek- Brasile

September 11, 2013

Joey, you will never be forgotten, God bless you and your family, I still see you running up and down Lake Street

Joey You will always be in our hearts

Josephine & Thomas Strenta

September 10, 2013

Dear Joey. I went to pay my respects and to pray for you at the Memorial today. It seems like yesterday that this world lost you. And all the lost souls that Sept morning. I always have you, Doreen and the kids in my prayers.

R LB

January 25, 2012

Will always be missed

Marie&Gerry Brasile (Florek)

September 13, 2011

As the years go by, not a day goes by that the Plumitallo Family is not in my prayers and thought's . God Bless all those family's that lost a loved one, and God bless and keep safe whose who still fight for our Freedom

Tommy and Josephine

September 10, 2011

Joey is always in our prayers. There is not one day that goes by that we don't think about him. It's been 10 years. It feels like yesterday. God Bless Joey and his family. Love Always Tommy and Josephine

denise

August 9, 2011

always in our hearts and thoughts

Maria Francesca Plumitallo

May 1, 2011

La mia cara nonna bella (my dear beautiful grandmother) was a Plumitallo...she was from Santa Maria Capua Vetere Italy...my heart goes out to you today May 1, 2011...and everyday...you are a hero to us all. May your loved ones find comfort in your bravery. God Bless You! You and your beautiful family are in our daily prayers.

Mary Candiello Kopecky and Family
San Luis Obispo, California

ANNMARIE CAVAGNA

May 19, 2010

JOE WAS ALWAYS THERE WITH A LENDING EAR,WAY BACK WHEN,YOU WERE NEVER FORGOTTEN,

Marie & Gerry Brasile (Florek)

September 11, 2008

As the years go by Joey is always in my thoughts, May God bless his family and may God bless those who keep our nation save.

Karen Passseggio

September 11, 2008

I've known Joe forever. We use to work together in the Bond Room on Wall St. I use to go visit him in Brooklyn, and we would visit me in Long Island. We had a very special friendship. Alot of laughs we use to have with Liddy, and Barnett at work. I miss him everyday, and think of him often, He is a kind hearted man, that always brought a smile to my face. And funny too!
I will never forget you, and miss you Joe! God bless you and your family.
Always, your friend
Till we meet again,
Karen

Romina Gadaleta

June 27, 2007

I signed this guestbook about 5 years ago when I was younger. I look back on it and the many spelling and grammar errors. Now that I'm older I'd like to explain myself more clearly because everything is much clearer to me now. Over the years the Plumitallo family has become my second family. Doreen is like a second mother to me. Lisa is not only my best friend but she is like a sister to me. I could fit Genna into the category of an older sister I never had. Little Joseph is always attached to my little brothers so I treat him as a brother as well. It's hard to believe Joe has been gone for so long. As much time as I spend with this family I still can't imagine how hard it must be for them. I watch them stand strong and get through day by day. For such a loving beautiful family, they don't deserve something such as this. I know Joe is watching over them with a smile on his face because there are millions of reasons to be proud of this family. Doreen is such a wonderful mother for her children and she is truly an angel to watch how she perfectly takes care of them. To Doreen, Lisa, Genna, and Baby Joseph, I wish the best for you in all the years to come and I know only the best will come because you have an angel on all of your shoulders. To Joseph, may you rest in peace and you will always be kept in my prayers and please continue to watch over your amazing wife and blessed children.

June 7, 2007

danielle volpe

June 7, 2007

my uncle joey was the best always making everyone laugh and always making sure everyone was ok if ever you needed something he was always there to help you. he was an exdrodinary man with and extrodinary life story.he was just amazing,with an amazing wife who is such a strong woman, who i admire,the two of them created such wonderful children, not a day goes by i dont think of all of them. they are always in my prayers and i know uncle joey is watching over all of us smiling.. aunt doreen genna, lisa and joe jr i love you!

joe fassari

April 8, 2007

my name is joe grew up at west 11 and ave u went to ps 248 with yourbrother-husband joe joey was a great kid we played alot of stickball and shot hoops at 248 schoolyard im so hurt to find out this terrible news by a street sign on justin ave in si sincerely joey fu fu

P Tabbernor

February 2, 2007

In memory....

Dennis Mckenna

January 24, 2007

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.

Kristine

January 4, 2007

As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

Marie & Gerry Brasile (Florek)

September 11, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Bozenka Shepherd

June 8, 2006

Hi, this is Bozenka Shepherd and i attend RBC with Genna and i admire her so much that words can not describe, We've been best friends since freshmen year and i love her to death, just seeing her every day puts a snile on my face and i couldnt imagine highschool without her, shes taught me so much about life in general. An everynight i pray for Genna her sister, brothter and mother who have dealt with this tragic situation. my prayers are with you always Mr Plumitallo family and friends and you will forver be missed ..love bo aka newb

Paula Morris

September 12, 2004

To the family of Joseph Plumitallo,

I live in Brooklyn. My mom's maiden name is Plumitallo. Her first name is Elvera, she is 76 years old.Her brother was named Julio, her sisters Connie, Anna, Edith. Her parents were Louis & Caroline Plumitallo. She tells me that Joseph's dad is her cousin. First or second, I don't know. We have Plumitallo's in Deerpark, LI also. Anyway, I just want you to know that I frequently visit the wtc site. I pray underneath the sign with Joseph's name. My husband & I went there last night to say the rosary. Please know that although I never met him, I always pay my respects to him when I'm there. Last night, was beautiful. There were flowers and cards along the gates. So peaceful. The lighted beams were uplifting. God bless all of you. Rest assured I will continue to visit the site , and pray for Joseph and all of you.

lorraine maldari

September 11, 2004

It is hard to believe that 3 years have gone by since that horrible day on September 11th, 2001. But, not a day goes by without thinking of fond memories of Joe. He would be proud of his family and how Doreen is taking care of his children. I am sure his shining light is upon them. He is truly missed. May God continue to watch over Doreen, Genna, Lisa and Joseph. Love, Lorraine

Marie Brasile (Florek)

September 11, 2004

You are all in my prayer's today, as you are every day, We Will Never Forget!

lorraine maldari

September 11, 2003

There is not a day that goes by that my thoughts and prayers are with you, Genna, Lisa and Joseph. I love you all. Joe is truly missed. He was a very special person and will never be forgotten. May God Bless you All. Love Lorraine

Marie Brasile (Florek)

September 10, 2003

You are all in my thoughts and prayers today as always, May your memories of Joey make you smile and comfort you.

Kristin

September 2, 2003

I was driving down Hylan Blvd. and came across a street named after Joseph and decided to let the family know that tonight they will be in my prayers. As we approach the second anniversary of 9/11/01 we are all still very mindful of all those who are not with us today. It is sort of a new memorial day. God Bless you all.

Marie Brasile (Florek)

October 30, 2002

To The Plumitallo Family,

Not a day goes by that I don't think of All of you,You are in my prayers, We will never forget. May God watch over you and keep Joseph close to your Heart.

Geraldine Jones

September 23, 2002

Dear Doreen, Genna, Lisa and Joey Jr. I am so sorry for all of you. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Your a wonderful family and I am happy that I knew all of you. God Bless you and keep you strong. Just know you are loved by many in this community.

John Keating

September 13, 2002

At the eight o'clock Mass at the Holy Name Cathedral in Chicago, a bowl containing the names of the victims was displayed. We were asked to draw a name and pray for that person. I picked out Joseph's name and will continue to pray for him. So sorry for your loss.

Janine Brunetti

September 11, 2002

To the Plumutallo Family,



Just wanted to send out our heart-felt prayers to you.



Loving Prayers from your cousins,



Janine, Janet, Richard, and Vincent Brunetti

Rachel Albanese

September 10, 2002

To the entire Plumitallo Family,

My heart is with you as we near the 1 year mark. I am very sorry. God Bless.

Jo-Ann Marano Argentina

May 30, 2002

My heart goes out to Joey's family & especially Nancy, as I am an old friend,& we were very close. I remember Joey & Doreen coming to the wrong number once in a while & how much Baldy loved the whole family..and always made a big fuss over Joey, everyone loved him. What a terrible loss..... I know how many losses this family has suffered. Although, we don't keep in touch anymore, I wish I could be there for you now, just know that your always in my heart and my prayers are always with you, Nancy. I know how much your brother was there for you & what a great loss all of you have had to face. Always in my thoughts & prayers Love Jo-Ann

March 25, 2002

DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL MAN...JOSEPH PLUMITALLO AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN...FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..STAY CLOSE..PRAY..AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK FOREVER..MAY JESUS AND ST.JOSEPH GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN

Ann Marie Mauro

March 17, 2002

I never had the pleasure of meeting Joe, but my sister-in-law Jackie tells me he and my brother Bernard Pietronico were very close. Joe was Bernard's boss at Cantor Fitzgerald and they were working together on September 11th, 2001. Jackie is convinced they stayed together on that terrible day and I have to believe that this is true given everything I've been told of their relationship. I wish I could have met Joe because he sounded like a really nice and generous guy who was a lot of fun to be around. In fact, he sounds a lot like Bernard.



I did have the opportunity to meet Joe's wife Doreen at Bernard's funeral in January after his body was found. I am most grateful to Doreen for coming that day as I know how difficult it must have been for her. My impression of Doreen is that she is a very brave and courageous woman. She and her children continue to be in my prayers. May God bless Joe and his family.



With deepest sympathy,

Ann Marie Mauro

Marie Brasile (Florek)

March 15, 2002

I would like to express my deepest condolences to the Plumitallo Family. I lived on Lake street and knew the whole family, I remember growing up and playing on the block. I remember helping painting their garage with them when they frist moved in. My heart aches for all of you. No words can express how deepley saddend we all are. None of over lives will ever be the same. I will pray for all of you through this horrific time. My god bless you all and comfort you through this tragedy.

Marie

124 Lake St.

Roberts Lori

March 13, 2002

On September 11th, my first thought was of Joey. I worked with Joey at Dean Witter a long time ago. The last time I saw Joey was at Cantor Fitzgerald in the World Trade Center. I immediately looked for his name as a survivor or victim and when I could not find it, was relieved and thought maybe he had changed firms or was off that day. I only discovered on 3-11 that Joey had been in the building that day and had not survived. Joey and I lost touch with each other over the years as friends often do. We marry and have children and pursue our careers. I only wish I had stayed in touch. To his family, God bless you all and I pray for you. Joey was a wonderful man and I am very blessed to have had him in my life, I will never forget him.

ROMINA GADALETA

March 11, 2002

IT SEEMED LIKE JO WAS MY FATHER ON 9/11 BECAUSE I CRIED BECAUSE OF THE LOSS.STILL TODAY I CRY AND WISH THAT MY WISH WOULD BE GRANTE SO HE MAY COME BACK.JO WAS A FUNNY GUY AND LOVED TO TELL SORIES.I CRIED NIGHT AFTER NIGHT WHEN I HEARD WHAT HAD HAPPENED.I FEEL VERY BAD FOR LISA, GENNA, JOE JR. AND DOREEN.I LOVE THEM ALL AND WILL KEEP THEM COMFORTABLE AS THE YEARS PASS BY.

Cyndie King (formerly Ducore)

March 10, 2002

Doreen - we were neighbors on Sandpiper Dr, and thought the world of you, Joe and the kids. Words can not express our sorrow at Joe's passing. Cyndie, Erica and Robin.

ERNEST CARRAI

March 8, 2002

WHILE WORKING AT DEAN WITTER 25YRS AGO,JOE DID ME A FAVOR I,LL NEVER FORGET.FROM ME AND MY WIFE SUSAN OUR CONDOLANCES AND I,M SORRY TO REPEAT MYSELF BUT I WILL NEVER FORGET.

michael pietronico

January 21, 2002

i had met joe numerous times over the years.he and my brother bernard were great friends.joe always had a smile on his face,and would always buy me a drink.joe was a great man,and i will never forget him.

The Sesin Family

January 14, 2002

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

tommy strenta

January 8, 2002

to Doreen, although we haven't seen each other in a while we never forgot the great times we had together. some of my best childhood memories are the simple things i did with joe. like playing football every sunday, walking to school, in complete laughter and double dating. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, and you should take some comfort in knowing that so many people have enough wonderful memories of you guys to last a lifetime.

Teresa Jahn

December 16, 2001

May Joseph's life and love live on through his children. We are very sorry for your loss of Joseph. Our hearts cry with you.

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

josephine and tommy strenta

October 22, 2001

tommy and i are so sorry to hear about joey. our thoughts and prayers are with doreen and her family. we will never forget..

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