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Kalila Borden Memoriam

For the first two years of your life, Dad & I taught you to walk and talk. For the rest of your life, you excelled in both (especially talking). You were our 'picker upper of learning's crumbs' (miscellaneous information) and shared with everyone. We thank God that you are no longer suffering with leukemia. Now we've had 365 days of quiet, and we're still not used to it. Dad & I know that you're up in heaven playing a trumpet heralding Jesus, and you're arguing with your favorite poets and authors saying, "What were you thinking?" Honey, be in peace. Dad and I will always love you.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Gazette on Oct. 18, 2010.

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