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Kathryn Bills Obituary

Kathryn W. Bills passed away Thursday, March 13, 2014, of complications due to COPD. She was born October 4, 1936 in Mobile, Alabama.

Early in life Katye had a passion for theatre; performing with the Joe Jefferson Players in Mobile and the Civic Theatre in Colorado Springs before becoming a stay at home mom. She had a deep love of classical music which she instilled in all of her children and was an avid historian who enjoyed researching the Civil War, collecting antiques (especially glassware), and doing family genealogy.

She was an amazing cook who made the best fudge in the whole world. She thoroughly enjoyed discovering small restaurants that served outstanding food. Her favorite dessert was always a chocolate malt (extra malt please).

Katye was fond of traveling, especially abroad. Germany, where she discovered distant family members, and Paris were her favorites. She was a voracious reader and the library was a place of much joy for her.

She is survived by her brother Tom Williamson, husband Jerry Bills (divorced), four children; son David (Rose), daughter Ashley (Tom), son Michael (Kathie), son Edward (Paula), three grandsons; Ethan, Trevor, Lincoln and four nieces.

Private family services will be held in Mobile, Alabama on April 19, 2014.

In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to your local library.

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Published by The Gazette on Mar. 21, 2014.

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Ashley

March 15, 2024

10 years since you left? Where did they go? So much you have missed that I wished I could have shared with you since you have been gone. The Country French style home Tom and I built in Heber that I think you would have loved (though I'm sure you would still find ways to improve it). The marriages of two of your grandsons to lovely young women. You never got to see your granddaughters Emma and Maisie, your grandsons Charlie and Paden, nor your great-grandson Simon or your great granddaughters Gracie, Zoey, Phoebe and Fiona. Of all my horses, Shiloh and Xena were your favorites. They are both with you now, so if you are in the mood for a wild ride, let them know. I made your roast beef and gravy on the anniversary of the day you passed. It brought so many memories back and the taste reminded me of how much love you put into every dish you made for us. Miss you... Hugs.

Ashley Simmons

March 18, 2019

Mom, I can't believe that five years have passed since you left. I was thinking of you just last night while gazing up at the stars; looking for that one bright light that I knew was you. So much has happened in my life since and not a day goes by that I don't wish that I could pick up the phone and call you up to tell you what's going on. I think about you every time I do a puzzle, sitting at your old kitchen table. I think about you whenever I cook something you showed me how to make. I think about how much I wish you could have met your granddaughter Emma, your grandsons Charlie and Paden and your great-granddaughter Easabelle (who is JUST like you). As Mary Poppins said it best, "So when you need her touch and loving gaze, gone but not forgotten is the perfect phrase. Smiling from a star that she makes glow, trust that she's always there watching as you grow. Find her in the place where the lost things go..."

Mary Ann

April 4, 2014

A thespian she was from Mobile,
sometimes a vixen, sometimes genteel,
with her children times four
she continually sought more
of the lessons that life could wield.

I will miss our session breakfasts!

RJ Perez

April 2, 2014

Ms.B! I've just perused (ya' like that word, don't you? I knew you would) some of the other shared bits, and they are so truely spot on! You were nothing short of a character! My favorite part of visiting Ash's home was the wild conversations we would have. And as someone else shared - you gifted me with the idea that just because we grow older, doesn't mean we stop trying to learn and understand.

That, and secretly - everyone loves a wise-guy. ;) I look forward to seeing you again and hearing that laugh. Until then, my friend.

March 29, 2014

Sorry for your loss may the God of all comfort be with the family at this difficult time

Diane Moore(Parker)

March 26, 2014

I had the privilege of knowing Ms. Bills when I was a teenager. She always welcomed me into her home at any given time, and I thankful for that. I have many fond memories of her and her family that I will always remember. I know that you are not suffering anymore and are looking down at your family with joy. Breathe freely in heaven.

Michael Bills

March 25, 2014

"She should have died hereafter;There would have been time for such a word. To-morrow, and to-morrow, and to-morrow,creeps in this petty pace from day to day, to the last syllable of recorded time;And all of our yesterdays have lighted fools the way to dusty death. Out, out brief candle!Life's but a walking shadow, a poor player that struts and frets his hour upon the stage and then is heard no more..."- William Shakespeare.
From symphonies in stereo, to the theater stage, to the silver screen, and all the tattered book pages in-between, you enlightened all those who would listen and if they ignored you- well, they were certainly entitled to YOUR opinion.On Everything.
There is so much more to be said that it would take days. I will share more stories and memories with those close to you and to me( you just won't be there to argue how YOU thought it happened)"Alas- parting is such sweet sorrow..." Love- your "Macky Boy"

Tom Simmons

March 25, 2014

Katye was a memorable person, but if I had to choose just one thing that summed her up, it was her love of her family. While it was OK for her to criticize her children, it was a huge mistake to even make a joke about any of them in her presence. I still remember the poor shoe store clerk who made the mistake of suggesting that he couldn't find a shoe to fit Ashley's foot because her heel was too narrow. I'm sure he went on to live a normal life. Any comment about Mike, Ted or David that was less than a compliment was sure to earn a swift rebuke. While she would see the flaws and find fault in the world, it didn't affect her love and appreciation of it, and her family was the greatest example of this. I think virtually all the conversations I had with her and phone messages I received were at least partially about some concern she had about one of her children.

I'll always remember her love of Mobile, Alabama, and her ability form an opinion about something without any actual information, but her love of her family is what defined her to me.

I'll miss many things about her, like her quirky answering machine messages where she always had give the time and what she deduced you were off doing at that moment she called before getting to the actual message. I'll miss the impressive way she would research a subject that interested her. Often it was family history related, but whatever the subject, she would follow leads and dig up records in a manner that would make a detective envious.

I think I'll miss her Christmas fudge the most, which was some of the best I've ever had. It was one of the most thoughtful gifts she could give because until the last year of her life, even when her health was in decline, she managed to buy the ingredients, make and ship that fudge every Christmas. She couldn't have given a better gift that showed how much she thought of me. In fact, there was an unopened can of the cocoa she used in her kitchen when she died. Actions speak louder than words, and are more meaningful, too.

Good bye, Katye. You'll be missed more than you know.

March 24, 2014

Katie, I shall miss your chats and concerns for Ashley. Don't worry though, her buddies have her back now. And you can send me a sign if I need to do a better job:) I know you were so proud of your kids, even though it was sometimes difficult to express, and that you shared a special bond with Ashley. You were a unique lady and will be missed.
Gwen Campbell

Jerry Bills

March 24, 2014

Miss you and know you can now take a deep breath with-out pain.

Jerry Bills

Timmye Carter

March 23, 2014

I will remember your animated vivacious ways that completely overshadowed your illness. I never remembered that you lived with COPD during the times we chatted together. It was only later when I thought, "Oh, yeah.." Here's to an irrepressible lady!

Kimberly Barrett

March 23, 2014

I am very happy to have met you Kayte. I'm going to miss our talks, they helped me get through my work day. I wish I would have made it back in time to tell you of my trip to Africa. This is a very beautiful picture of you. May God bless you and your family.

Lois Simmons

March 22, 2014

You became part of our family when Ashley and Tom were dating. We shared many fun memories, the best were on "girls night out" when you showed us what a good dancer looked like. And you danced your life your way. Go, Girl.
I will never stop thanking you for leaving Ashley with us.

Trevor Bills

March 21, 2014

You were wonderfully sweet, kind, and caring to whomever it was you met. You were always willing to share a story and equally willing to hear one. I learned a great deal from your spur of moment history lessons, and they have very much instilled in me the notion that you are never done learning. You were always stubborn - even to the point of trying to convince a chef that his dip did in fact have shrimp in it - but in the end, I think we can all appreciate that it was that fighting spirit of yours that gave us more time to spend with you as you fought a truly debilitating disease. We will always cherish the moments we spent with you and we all love and miss you very much.

Ethan Bills

March 21, 2014

You brought light and wisdom to so many and touched the hearts of everyone you met. I'm really going to miss you Grandmere.

Dave Bills

March 21, 2014

Rejoice in your new work in heaven.

Ashley Simmons

March 21, 2014

I miss you. My mind knows that you are in a better place where there is no pain and you are breathing freely. I understand that, I just wish I could explain it to my heart. There is an empty space in it that nothing will ever fill. I grieve, but I know my tears are for me. Someday we will be together again. Please don't save the sky pieces of the puzzle for me to do... you know how I hate them. Until we meet again, my love will always be with you. xoxoxo

March 21, 2014

I remember your mom being so kind when I was a child playing with Ashley on
on Cheyenne Mountain. I wish you all well. You were lucky to have such a great mother. Love Mimi Hassel Fisher

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