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Kathleen Miller
May 15, 2024
Virginia, We share the never ending pain of losing a child. I say Matthew´s name as well as Kerry Vail´s to keep the memory alive. Matthew was the sweetest and cutest little boy. My thoughts are with you, Virginia!
Kathleen Miller
Kathleen Miller
May 15, 2023
No one who knew Matthew will ever forget him. I say his name aloud and share sorrow with his mom!
Kathleen Miller
May 15, 2020
I still think of that sweet, cute little boy riding his tricycle up and down the sidewalk, fast! And the funny childhood memories his mother shared (like Matthew at age 3 checking out his bottom with a mirror just checking). Losing a child is the most painful thing in the world. I believe we should speak their name often. Matthew, youre missed!
patrick carter
May 6, 2016
The first time I ever met my father he gave me his gold and silver bracket. I lost it on the playground the next day and cried harder than anybody ever should.
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Jeff & Mary Nickerson
June 2, 2015
Our thoughts are with you.

Father & Son: Good Memories...
Dave Caligaris
June 1, 2015
Laura Ogden
June 1, 2015
A tragic loss for you. Know Matt tried so hard to beat the odds, but somehow lost the battle. May you have peace, and let God take over. Hold on to your faith. My prayers are with you.
Larry and Margie Foster
May 29, 2015
Don, Matthew is at peace now. May you find peace for your broken heart.
May 29, 2015
Don,I know that all the positives about Matthew would overshadow this story and am so glad that he will be close to the ones who really cared. Very sorry for your loss, I know you will celebrate his life.
May 28, 2015
So very sorry for your loss. May God take your sorrow and leave you with only loving memories.
Edd and Barbara Harris
mitch ready
May 28, 2015
To my little brother.today your remains are being put to rest.although im not there for the service my thoughts of you are in my head and heart.somehow i knew this would happen you leaving this world before me i wish i could of helped you when you needed it most but are lives took us far apart.so now you can rest little brother the race is over.with a heavy heart i say goodbye to my little brother.
May 27, 2015
So sorry for your tragic loss.
Ron Lautaret
May 27, 2015
Our heart cries for you, Virginia, and we are so sad. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. When you can, would love to hear from you.
Much love, Georgia and Marilyn

Matthew and Virginia
Virginia Hyde
May 25, 2015

Matthew - 2012
Virginia Hyde
May 25, 2015
Carol and Phil Rieg
May 25, 2015
Don
Phil and i are so sad over the loss of Matthew. We thought so highly of him. He was such a sweet handsome man . May your good memories sustain you now. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
linda& Jim Patton
May 24, 2015
it was a sad day for linda and I to hear about matt, everytime I saw him he had a smile on his face, I know that you and don are beside yourselves with grief, we just want to say how sorry we are, and are thinking of all of you at this saddened time. if there is anything we can do, please let us know.
Le and Alan Stickley
May 22, 2015
So saddened to hear about your tragic loss. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Susan Hayes-Brauner
May 22, 2015
Owen, Virginia, May & Family, My heart is heavy with the loss of Matt,he will be missed. As I watched Matt struggle this past year, I prayed for him to find his way, to be able to fight these demons and finally win. He knew he was loved and he will be missed. Love you May, you hold a very special part of my heart.
Mary Beth
May 22, 2015
I lost my younger (42 years) brother to this disease. It is such a senseless, horrible loss. No mother's love can stop the progression of an addiction. Obviously, no sister's love can either. My heart goes out to all of you at this most difficult of times. I only knew Matthew for a couple of years but his energy and smile will stay with me. Rest in peace Matthew!
Roger Greene
May 22, 2015
Don, Virginia, Mitch, Lisa, I am really sadened to hear about Matthew. You all would be surprized how often I think of you. I always felt at home and part of your family. The thing I will always remember most about Matt was him learning to read from a picture book while he sat on my lap. The last time I saw him he was probably 13 or so. I could tell he was facing a rough road ahead. I know he did the best he could and all of you did as well. Some things make us people we don't want to be. I'm sorry that happened to Matthew.
Vina Green
May 22, 2015
Sorry to learn of the loss of your son. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. Rich and Vina
Sharon Kaiser
May 22, 2015
I'm so sorry for your loss. May good memories of Matt sustain you through the coming days.
Lee Bingham
May 22, 2015
My heartfelt condelences to Don and Virginia and all who knew and loved him. It's so sad for a parent to have to bury a child.
shelly voorhrs
May 21, 2015
You were a great friend sorry I haven't seen you in 5 yrs rest in peace my old friend
May 21, 2015
What a heartfelt story. I didn't know Matthew, but I have a son that struggles also. Thank you for being so honest about addiction and relapse. I am so sorry for your loss...your story made me stronger for what I may face someday...love and prayers to you all...
May 21, 2015
I still picture him riding that tricycle lickety split down the sidewalk as you chased after him. He was a high spirited little boy with a winning smile and personality. My heart aches for you, Virginia, as I can't even imagine how painful this must be for you. Know that your friends and family are holding you in their thoughts and prayers. Joel & Kathy
Paula Vesely
May 21, 2015
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Glennis Willy
May 21, 2015
After many years, I saw Matt just a year ago. He was happy & handsome as ever. What a tremendous loss. Prayers for his family at this tragic time & beyond.
Leanora Glyshaw
May 21, 2015
What a sincere and heartfelt tribute to your son.I know it must of been very heavy heart you penned it with.I am Madeline sister and just so so sorry for your tremendous loss of your son.Matt was a great guy and I'm so sorry.
May 21, 2015
Virginia & Owen, our sincere sympathy and thoughts are with you during this difficult time. We are so sorry about the loss of Matthew. Just keep the good memories in your mind and heart and know he is in a better place now.
All our love to you and the entire family,
Jim & Mary Haynes
Dave Caligaris
May 21, 2015
Dear Don, Virginia, Mitchell, and Lisa,
Please accept my deepest sympathies on the death of Matthew. I live in COS and had many shared times with Buster, as he was affectionately known.
Buster was easy to bond with in friendship, a shared interest in powersports, totally focused on his business, and indeed had many friends who i met from time to time. He was an intense, hard-working man.
When I needed tires for my truck Buster said just pitch in at the store and work for them. He said when I thought I had worked enough, then they were mine. ;) Working alongside him with his boundless energy was a challenge and true delight.
Buster looked like a young Ready with a perfect blend of Stultz. He had a roguishly handsome quality to him that was very compelling. A real man's man. I am just shocked that he is gone. Buster was a good friend, generous, an animal lover, and a wonderful son. I feel a huge hole in my heart for his loss. My love to you all.
lisa montoya
May 21, 2015
Eternally missed
Natasia Washington
May 21, 2015
Sending my unconditional love and embrace to all who loved Matt. I will cherish the few memories I had with him and the love he had for his wife and German Shepherd. May God bless and keep you all through this entire transition
Jerry Merris Loflin
May 21, 2015
So sorry for your terrible loss. Praying for the entire family.
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