Max Gould Obituary

Kathy.Gabby,Brooke and Maxie



It's been a month since we lost Max,I've thought of your family every day. I don't know how to express the loss of a man I've known for over 30 years. How do you talk about the loss of a man who lived life for all it's worth.I talked to Max at least once a month, Max would talk about the love of his kids and the joy of coaching them. Max made me a better person and I thank him for that.

Dear Kathy, Gaby, Brooke, Max,

It is almost a month since Max's passing and I still look out the window in the morning and think I will see him coming out the door. I have already thought to talk fertilizer with him for the greening of the grass this spring. I wanted to tell him I have a broken pipe somewhere in the sprinklers. I have thought about our flower conversations about where to get the bedding plants to plant in the back. When I crawl into my car in the morning I think of a hundred times we waved to each other over the years and across the pavement as we headed for work. I can still see the day I saw him across the lawn in late September and whistled at him. He was heading to the front porch from the garage with his big step shuffle. I told him he looked like a highschooler so fit and trim. (I always let him know when his dieting paid off.) I didn't know then that the cancer had been working on him already. I was busy at school as the first quarter always is and I missed the signs of what you all were going through. That is one of my regrets that I hadn't checked in on him and I wondered if he needed me then. I console myself with the fact that maybe I was needed more later and I gave it my best. I think Max knows I love him even though I drove him crazy at times just like he drove me crazy. I can mimic the loud voiced "MAR-REE-JO" amd "MAX-EEEE" he hollored across the street. I loved that our conversations could begin at a distance of a hundred feet. I always felt safe knowing Max was on one corner and Tim on the other. I don't think Max has time to watch over me now because he is taking care of you full time. But I believe that if I need some help I could send up a prayer to heaven something like, "Dear God, tell Max to meet me in the street" and I think saying that would bring me a smile and I would be ok. Max trimmed my apple trees. I provided "beverages" when the bar was dry. He borrowed the lawnmower, I borrowed the drill bits. He helped me lift and tote and I provided "one of those..." and "one of these..." found in the corner of my garage or basement I didn't have a Kathy to get rid of all that useless stuff that was just laying around and so I had it just when he needed it. He offered me a cold beer a dozen times and I think each time I mow the lawn from now on I will taste the bear I rarely took advantage of. We discussed politics, briefly, since we stand on opposing sides. We kind of agreed to avoid lawn signs so we canceled each other out. We rehashed soccer and basketball games after they were done, more times than not in the middle of the street. When I made a point he couldn't dispute I might get an "Ohh surrre". He always said that people had to give 110%. He certainly did. We talked about everything including life and death over the years as each passing of loved ones circled in and out. He believed that people were good and I saw the way he reached out to help others over time. I was honored that he treated me as an equal and I feel a sincere responsibilty to watch over his family from across the street as he watched over mine. So when you need a hug, or an ear, or a laugh, or just someone to be loud for awhile, call me and I will come with a caring heart and comic relief in tow. I am writing this because we don't always have a chance to say all of this when I pop in for a quick visit, when I get home from work, or before bed. If I visit too often to check on you, know that I am just checking in for Max's sake. Max was and is my friend. I love him and I love all of you. Mary Jo Lorenz

Max..I miss you. Kathy, I send my love and support to you and your family. The world was a much better place with Max in it. I am thankful that I was blessed with his friendship.



You will be missed my friend. Go with God.



David

Although Max and I didn't really know each other it is a testament to his bigger than life presence that I express my condolences to the Gould family and just know that he touched many people.

My sympathies and condolences go to Max's family and friends. I enjoyed his friendship over the years.

I feel a great sense of loss having just heard of Max passing. My condolences and prayers go out to his family and friends. I'm sure we all have fond memories of the times we shared with Max and will relive them when we cross paths.

I was deeply saddened to hear of Max's passing today. I had been trying to find out what he was doing ever since I left college several years ago. I never got the chance to tell him how he inspired me leave everything I had out on the wrestling mat or the football field even though I was the smallest guy on the team. When I was in highschool, Max, Eric Roren and Jim Gee were like the older brothers I never had. I now wish that I had taken the time to tell him that. Please accept my belated condolences.

I was very saddened to hear of Max's passing. He had a zest for life and friendship that I will never forget. My sincere prayers go out to his family.

We were saddened to hear of Max's death. Although we have not seen him in many years (we were students together at Irving and Doherty) we have often thought with great affection and pleasure of those wonderful years spent together. Please accept our sympathy on your sad loss. We hope that your memories of him will bring you comfort and God's healing will bring you peace.

My condolences to the Gould Family. That smile will never be forgotten. May God bless you all.

As with everyone else, I was shocked and saddened to hear of Max’s passing. A bright light has been extinguished. I have always remembered his genuine laugh along with that smile. He will be sorely missed by all who knew him. My prayers and thoughts are with all his family and friends during these hard times. God bless you all!

Dear Gould Family:



We are sorry to hear of your loss. Max has come up in our conversations and reminiscing over the years. He was a memorable character. In our minds he was forever young. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

I’m blessed to have known Max. I have many wonderful memories of Max during our high school years and then after. I was truly blessed to have called Max my friend. Our prayers are with his family during this difficult time. God's peace be with you now and always. Max's memory will last forever.

Sorry to hear of Max's passing. I remember the Gould family from Wilson Elementary School. Max was one of my 6th grade students.

Sorry to hear about your family's loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Now that the Rosary and Funeral are over, there is a quietness about. Max would have a hard time standing for this. We must celebrate his life and memory every day. He was a giant among men - competitive, caring and compassionate. He will be deeply missed. Kathy, Gaby, Brooke and Maxie, my prayers are with you.

MAX WAS TRUELY ONE OF A KIND.I HAVE HAD THE PLEASURE OF KNOWING THE GOULD FAMILY SINCE 1972, WHEN OUR FAMILY MOVED TO THE VILLAGE. I HAVE MANY FOND MEMORIES TO PUT A SMILE ON MY FACE. MAX HAS ALWAYS BEEN THE KIND OF MAN THAT MADE YOU FEEL GOOD INSIDE.LIFE WAS ALWAYS BETTER AFTER SHARING A LAUGH OR SMILE WITH HIM.WITH GREAT SADDNESS I SAY GOODBYE TO ONE OF LIFE'S GREAT MEN,AND MY HEART AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO EVERY MEMBER OF MAX'S FAMILY.

We were so sorry to hear the news of Max’s passing. Cindy and I spent two years with Max at Doherty. All of the posts from people who have not seen him in nearly 30 years are a strong statement about his life and the impact he had on the people in his life. Our condolences and prayers go out to the entire Gould family.

We were so saddened to hear about Max's death. Kent and I have so many fond memories of Max during our high school years together. His family will be in our hearts and prayers.

We were so sad to hear about Max's passing. Please know that your family is in our prayers.

May God bless you and give you strenghth.Hearing that Max had died made me realize once again how very short life can be. It seems we have lost so many of our class mates from both Irving and Doherty.I wish I had stayed in touch with Max. I work with cancer patients and wish I had known he was having to go through it all.Maybe I could have lended a hand or an ear. God bless all of you.

Dismayed and humbled! Max was such an absolutely dominant and wonderful person, role-model/inspiration, and man. Being the "Mighty Midget" that I was it was always great to count him among my friends, although wrestling and football practice almost always ensured one really good hit or hold by or from him. Max will always hold a special place in my book of Larger than Life Huge-guys. My heart felt sorrow and prayers are extended to his wife and children, as well as Brian and Max's other siblings! God Bless!

I'M WAS GREATLY SADDENED TO HEAR OF MAX'S DEATH. HE WAS LARGER THAN LIFE. I'M HAPPY TO KNOW THAT HE IS WITH HIS HEAVENLY FATHER. NO MORE PAIN AND SUFFERING. IN CHRIST, MARK JABS

I was so sorry to hear of Max's passing. My most sincere condolences to his family and friends. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

Our deepest sympathy to the Gould family. I am glad we became good friends in high school and that we have alot of great memories. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Max will be deeply missed.

Brian,



Mary Lynn and I are sorry to hear of the loss of your brother. You and your family are in our prayers.

To the Gould Family,



I was shocked and saddened to read about Max's passing. All of you are in our thoughts and prayers. May God Bless all of you. Maybe Max will now be one of God's mighty warriors in Heaven. With all of my sympathy and love,



Kenneth

The Goulds were always larger than life when I was growing up in Colorado Springs--I always wanted to be in their family since my siblings were already long gone to college and beyond. The Gould house was always FULL of life, who cares if it was commotion or screaming. I still LOVED being there...neighbors, classmates, friends...Mary, one of my best friends in our group of crazy teenage girls, Brian, who I always had a crush on, and MAX, what can I say of Max---everyone knew him, everyone loved him, and everyone wanted to be his friend, he made us all laugh--although my Dad still believes that Max was responsible for a late-night "egging" while my parents were out of town...I didn't care---if he did it, I still thought he was a great guy...My heart broke when I heard the news on Tuesday...my thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this extremely difficult time, especially Mary and Brian--you both still hold such a special place in my heart....Fondly, Gabi

I remember Max as a man among boys, with a big, goofy smile and a bigger heart. I haven't seen Max since high school, but I remember him well.



My sincere condolences go out to the family and friends of Max.

I knew Max for many years; we both coached our daughter's soccer teams. He knew nothing about soccer, but he learned, and he could inspire and motivate those girls; he really brought out the best in those kids. I am certain they will remember him for a long time to come. I know I will. I will always think of that eager, enthusiastic look he had on his face. And even when we would disagree, he was eager to sit down and have a beer together. Ever friendly. We'll miss you Max! We will hold your family in our prayers.

God bless.

Bill Hunter

Brian, I am so sorry to hear of your brother's death. Having lost my brother to cancer just a couple years ago, I feel your pain and have an understanding of what you must be going through. It is so hard. My heart goes out to you and Jessica and all of your family at this painful time. I wish you brighter days and hope that you find comfort in those who love you and with those whom you love.

It is hard to believe "Superman" is no longer with us. That is how I remember him. My condolences to you all. May you be consoled in the fact he has gone to a better place and we will all see him again some day.

Our deepest sympathies go out to the entire Gould family. Growing up in the Springs and attending Doherty HS, Max was truly larger than life... and now, even in his passing, he remains that way. God Bless. Mike and Heide Barrowman

Max, Was a true friend always there when you needed him going back to college he was the stud. God gave him a great physique with the biggest set of arms along with overwhelming super human strength and the heart of a champion to go with it. He lived life to the fullest enjoyed everything there was to experience, I can’t believe he’s gone but I know he is alive with Christ and it won’t be long till we are reunited with him. I think back to all the things we experienced together and just laugh at all the memories, that intimidating macho voice was one of a kind as we all know when you were in his presence. To all the Gould family my heart breaks for you and I pray that Jesus through the power of his Holy Spirit will comfort you and give you hope that you will see Max again soon and you’ll be with him forever.1 Thessalonians 4:13-18

David & Melissa Banovich

Brian and Jessica, I'm so sorry to hear of your brother/brother-in-law's passing. May the good memories you have help you through the sad times. God will help with the rest.

I am sorry to hear of the loss in your family. Brian, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

We pray that the peace and comfort of God will be with Kathy,chrildren,brothers,sisters and extended family. We have the comfort of knowing that Max is in a far better place and will be greatly missed by all who loved him. You will be in our thoughts and prayers daily.

I was shocked and saddened to hear of Max's passing. I remember meeting Max for the first time when I was a 7th grade wrestler, he was an 8th grade Superman to all of us at that time.



Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family.

Our deepest sympathy goes out to Kathy and the Gould Family. Max was like a brother to me growing up, I practically lived at the Gould house being good friends with his sister Mary. Max had such a positive outlook on life and his friends and family. Are prayers are with all of you in this time of loss. Max will be missed by all of us. My family is praying for all of you. Lot's of love! Carin, Tygre, Marc, Marcia & Floyd Veatch.

Deepest sympathy to the Gould family in this very sad time in their lives. It is difficult to see someone pass at such a young age, especially someone who we all grew up with. The Cassidy family, Shawn,Gina,Tom and Tina

Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to Max's wife and children, and extended family. We will cherish the memories told by Lucille Bennett and our personal memories especially when Max was back in Nebraska, where we all stayed at the hotel in Vermillion,SD staying up late and reminissing. His stories and laughter will always be cherished.

God Bless

The Bennetts

Dick, Kim, Kayla, Josh, & Jeni

I was saddened to hear of Max's illness and moved by his loss. I lost my dad 5 years ago at age 65 to a similar illness. How even more unfair for one of us, so young, to be gone. Being a family man and brother like Max, it really hit home, too close to home. I grieve for his wife and kids. And Brian, Lisa, Mary, Greg - I know how devastated I would be to lose Mick. My thoughts are with you. Wish I could be there. Max was definitely a leader for first full class at Doherty, both athletically and socially. The guy never let up. I still remember him just knocking the heck out of me at football practice, on a stinking extra point play. Dude never let up, was so competitive. Yet he was also very encouraging and supportive of me as football player and teammate. He is part of some great memories of a class I still feel very close to. God Bless.

Now realise my mortality.Super Max, as I have always considered him a GREAT MAN.He passes with my deepest regrets,I type these words in tears, as I too have a brother.I cannot express my personal feeling of loss.If God needed a warrior, he picked my favorite Super hero.I would hope that he brings nothing but his best ,up there, because he showed nothing short of greatness here on this big blue marble. I look forward to the day I can tell him what a great influence he was on my way of life.Maxiumus!!!! I will miss you...

I was very sorry to hear about Max's passing. I don't think that I've ever met anyone that was more full of life. Max left a wonderful legacy. I know that his family must be very proud. He will be missed.

I'm sorry to hear about Max . My prayers will be with your family.

I was saddened to learn about Max's passing but at the same time happy to know he's with the Lord. I've known Max for 30+ years and have some very fond memories from football and being his friend. May the Lord be with the Goulds.

MY HEARTFELT SYMPATHY TO MAX'S FAMILY. EVEN THOUGH I HAVEN'T SEEN HIM SINCE HIGH SCHOOL, I CAN TELL HE WAS STILL A KIND AND FUN PERSON.

I am deeply saddened by the loss of my friend. My heart goes out to all members of the Gould family. I pray they find peace and remain strong. Max is in a far better place than we. All my love.

I was very sad when I heard that Max had passed away. I send out a prayer for Max’s wife & 3 children. Max was a very friendly, warm, & caring person, under that tough guy exterior. I have known Max since 1974, when we were classmates @ Irving Jr. High. We also went to Doherty High School together & graduated in 1978. We had several classes together @ DHS, & I was really glad that I got to know Max during that great time in our lives. I remember the first time I met Max in the 8th grade @ Irving Jr. High. I was a relatively new kid @ Irving (USAF Family), & Max protected me from some bigger 9th grade guys, that were picking on me in the hallways. I wish he was still here so I could tell him how much that meant to me. I know that he helping Heaven run their athletic teams & making everyone feel that they matter. Take Care Max.

We are happy we had the opportunity to know Max. Our boys are fortunate to be a part of your extended family. God Bless.

Max was a big guy, but bigger yet was his smile and his heart. He was always happy and saw the brighter side of life. My deepest sympathies to Kathy and family.

Max was one of the most genuine men I have ever known. His love for his family knew no bounds and I don't ever remember NOT seeing him smiling. My heart will always feel for the one he left behind.

To Max's wife and family,

Our family is deeply saddened by Max's death. We met him personally only twice, but were very impressed by his character and his love of his family. We will miss him personally and professionally. Our deepesth sympathy to his wife and children for their tragic loss of husband and father.

I knew Max many years ago and was very sorry to hear of his passing. My prayers are with his family at this time.

My condolence to the family. Max was a both a friend & competitor, he will be missed.

I was very sad when I heard that Max had passed away. I send out a prayer for Max’s wife & 3 children. Max was a very friendly, warm, & caring person, under that tough guy exterior. I have known Max since 1974, when we were classmates @ Irving Jr. High. We also went to Doherty High School together & graduated in 1978. We had several classes together @ DHS, & I was really glad that I got to know Max during that great time in our lives. I remember the first time that I met Max in the 8th grade @ Irving Jr. High. I was a relatively new kid @ Irving (USAF Family), & Max protected me from some bigger 9th grade guys, that were picking on me in the hallway. I wish he was still here so I could tell him how much that meant to me. I know that he is helping Heaven run their athletic teams & making everyone feel like they matter. Take Care Max.

I'll miss my friend Max, The beers we had the crowns we had. It has been 25 years of fellowship and I

will cherish that forever..



p.s. Max was a funny guy

Max and my son Bruce Wright went to High School together, and he came over a lot, and he allways made us laugh, allays happy!. My heart goes out to Kathy,Gaby,Brooks,and Max,and all the family.

My condolences to Max's family. God has taken him to a better place. He was a good man.

I was saddened to learn of Max's passing. We shared a friendship and a football team in high school. We also attended Western State College during the same years. Although I haven't known Max since college I could never forget and his ever present smile, his sense of humor and his engaging personality. My deepest condolences to the Gould family.

"Max" was such a fitting name....Max was an unforgettable person and, to those who went to jr. high and high school with him, a larger-than-life character. My heart goes out to the Goulds and to all who cared for Max.

I have known Max since we went to different high schools together, We worked together, and enjoyed life together. I have never met anyone with a bigger heart than Max. He is truly a gentle giant among men.

His voice of optimism and courage will stay with me forever.

Max, I love you and you'll forever be in my heart.

We are so sorry. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Greg and Lisa Ratterree

My sincere condolences to the Gould family at this time of loss. Our prayers are with you. Max will be missed.

Kathy and the Gould Family,

My deepest condolences.

Max was a great person and is a great soul.

Max has been a part of my life for 30 years.

Neighbors starting in elementry school,his mother a teacher of mine, his sister a classmate, his brothers friends.

I am proud to have had a part in the introduction of Kathy and Max

A great person has left us early.



God Bless you my friend, rest in peace.

Had the privilege of meeting Max two short years ago. During that time, I developed a friendship and trust that will sustain me now that he is gone. He had the heart of a lion and passion for life that you don't see very often. He was proud of his family and loved them very much.

You will be missed amigo!!

I played football with Max at Western State. I was only there that one year 1980-81. But I remember Max as a great athlete, and as a team leader. I am saddened to hear of this. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

Max, Mentor, Friend:

I will miss your smile, your enthusiasm, and your courage.

God Bless

I don't think I've ever known a person with such strength and a real joy for life. Max loved to talk about how his coaching was going, how well his daughters were doing, and never failed to inquire with care about how things were for me. I've never known a man with such heart.

My deepest sympathy goes out to the Gould family. Max was a wonderful person and I am glad I knew him.

I am saddened to hear of Max's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with the Gould family.

My families thoughts and prayers are with the Gould family. You've always been a part of my family. I will always remember Max for looking out for me in high school.

I hope that the mention of your name brings a smile to your childrens' hearts in years to come.



God bless your family, rest peacefully.

Max made the world a better place. Take care, old friend.

I wil miss Maxies energy and laugh. He always made me smile, especially when he talked about Kathy, Gaby, Brooke and little Maxie. He will forever be in my heart. I will miss you Maxie and my love and prayers go to his family. I love you Maxie!

Dear Gould family, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Our hearts are with you.

Love,

The Boudreau's

A man among men, A giant with a heart to fit. One of the very best friends that anyone could have in this lifetime, we will miss him with all hearts & look forward to seeing him once again.God Bless Max. Daniel, Kylee, Shaylen & Pete Piper

A man among men, A giant with a heart to fit. One of the very best friends that anyone could have in this lifetime, we will miss him with all hearts & look forward to seeing him once again. Daniel, Kylee, Shaylen & Pete Piper

I was one of Max's coach in college. I was very sad to hear this news, and was deeply touched. My thoughts are with you and your family. My condolences.

I am very sorry and sad to hear of Max's passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

May the Lord be with you all during this difficult time.

Max was a good man, I will miss seeing him at basketball and soccer, we always seemed to run into each other at these events. It was fun to catch-up on current events. We will miss him.

Catarino and I are so very sorry for the loss of your loved one at such an early age. Our thoughts and prayers are that you find comfort from Our Lord, Jesus, who came to take him home to his parents.