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Michael Stephen Anselmi Obituary

Michael Stephen Anselmi, age 66, died at his home in Colorado Springs on February 20th, following a long bout with cancer. He died, as he lived, in the company of those he loved. Mike was born in Cheyenne Wyoming, January 17, 1946, the third child of Marian and James Anselmi. He received his bachelors and masters degrees in Economics from the University of Wyoming and a PhD in Economics from the University of Colorado. He spent 20 years in the Air Force and retired as head of the Economics Department at the United States Air Force Academy. Upon retirement from military service, Mike joined Columbine Capital Services, where he was employed at the time of his death. Mike's vocation was economics; his avocation, and his joy, was music and theater. He met his wife, Sue, when she was the choir director at Holy Trinity Catholic Church. He always claimed that Sue's invitation to join the choir was as much about personal attraction as vocal attraction. And he was right. Married for the past seventeen years, their shared love of music and theater led them on wonderful journeys from the Metropolitan Opera in New York to the Theater District in London. Mike served on the Boards of both Opera Theatre of the Rockies and Theatreworks, and was a member of the Maestro's Circle of the Colorado Springs Philharmonic. The sung word shared its place in Mike's heart with the proclaimed word. As a lifelong student of scripture, he served for many years as a lector at Mass. Mike memorized each scripture he was asked to proclaim. By the end of his life he had long portions of the bible committed to memory. His parish involvement was wide: from training liturgical ministers to leading scripture studies, to serving on the finance council, and, always, to his first love, singing in the choir. Mike is survived by his wife, Sue, daughter Crystal Anselmi (Robb Stevenson), sister Esther Parsons (Robert), brother Joe Anselmi (Thelma), step-children: Eric Adam, Kate Johnson (Ken), Dan Adam (Natalie), Ken Adam, Andrea Henry (Matthew) and 10 grandchildren. His parents, Marian and James Anselmi, and his daughter, Christine Anselmi Garberding, preceded Mike in death. In lieu of flowers, please make memorial contributions in Mike's name to St. Mary Cathedral at St. Mary Cathedral, 22 W. Kiowa St., Colorado Springs, CO, 80903 for the St. Mary's Hymnal Fund. A Vigil will be held at St Mary Cathedral, 22 West Kiowa Street, Colorado Springs, Colorado, Monday, February 27, 2012 at 7:00pm. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at St. Mary Cathedral on Tuesday, February 28, 2012 at 10:00am. Inurnment will follow at St Mary Cathedral columbarium.

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Published by The Gazette from Feb. 24 to Feb. 26, 2012.

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Kitty Brilliant

March 4, 2012

Dear Sue- We are so sorry to hear that Mike has died. He is singing with the angels - and preparing heaven for those of us who will join him in the future. He was truly one of the kindest, nicest men I ever met. He will be missed. Love to you and the family - Kitty and David

Susan Anderson

February 29, 2012

Anselmi Family -
I am so sorry for your loss. I will cherish the memory of our time spent in London. My thoughts & prayers are with all of you at this time.

Paula Tomich

February 29, 2012

SUE AND FAMILY,

MIKE WILL BE MISSED SO MUCH AT ST MARY CATHEDRAL. WE ALL LOVED HIM.

Fran & Phil Voegtle

February 25, 2012

We are saddened to hear of the loss of a great human being. Mike was an inspiration to us and we will cherish our friendship forever. May God bring comfort and healing to this wonderful family.

Nancy Shanley

February 25, 2012

Mike was a kind, gentle man. My sympathies to the Anselmi family. Keep those good memories close to your hearts.

February 25, 2012

Sue, I am so sorry to hear of Mike's passing. You two shared such a good life together over the past seventeen years. He was a very good man and a great inspiration to me when he trained me to proclaim the Word at Mass over 20 years ago at DR. His sense of humor brought joy and fun to the Liturgical Planning Committee at HT. His daughters even helped with babysitting when my girls were little! He will be deeply missed.
Terry Hekkers, Colorado Springs

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Richard Reuer

February 24, 2012

I wish to extend to you and to members of your family my deepest sympathy on your loss. May the Lord's loving promises comfort you and give you strength as you walk through this difficult time. "HONORING THOSE WHO SERVED-MINISTRY" -Chaplain Richard Reuer, 1206 6th St. SW, Minot, ND 58701

Sam Lopez

February 24, 2012

My heart goes out to Mrs. Anselmi and her family at this delicate time. Mrs. Anselmi has always been so gracious toward me. I understand why Mr. Anselmi loved her so much. May you find peace as each new day unfolds, and that you will smile as a result of all the wonderful times and memories.

Samantha Iskra

February 24, 2012

Sue,

May you find comfort in the wonderful memories you have of Mike. We will miss him dearly in Mass. God bless you and your family at this time.

Paul Phillips

February 24, 2012

Our sincere sympathies to Sue and the family. Paul and Bonnie Phillips

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