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Mildred Allison Haver Divelbiss

1926 - 2019

Mildred Allison Haver Divelbiss obituary, 1926-2019, Colorado Springs, CO

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1926

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2019

Mildred Haver Divelbiss Obituary

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MILDRED "MIDDY" ALLISON HAVER DIVELBISS
8/12/1926 - 9/5/2019
"Deal cried the losers as the winners laughed and joked." As an avid Bridge player, Mildred (Middy) Allison Haver Divelbiss was heard to shout these words, ready to play another round as soon as the last one was finished. Middy was born on August 12, 1926, to parents Marn and John Allison in McPherson, KS. She grew up with three wonderful sisters, Ann (Leach), Fran (Weaver), and Mary Marn (Wills).
Once married, she became a "stay at home mom," but she didn't stay home much. Middy was involved in many Pueblo organizations such as Service League (now Jr. League); member at the Church of the Ascension Episcopal Church where she served on Altar Guild and was the first woman on the vestry; P.E.O. (Chapter EE in Pueblo and CE in Colorado Springs); Board of Directors and Foundation Board for Parkview Hospital; Wednesday Morning Club (in Pueblo) and Tuesday Luncheon Club (in Colorado Springs); and many other local activities. She served in the capacity of President for several of the above organizations as well as on the board of directors for the Kansas-Nebraska Natural Gas Company.
She was proud to be a Kansas State University graduate and member of Pi Beta Phi. Middy also attended Claremont, CA, Graduate School. In 1950, she was teaching third grade at Somerlid Elementary in Pueblo, CO, when she met Robert (Bob) Haver...her soon to be husband and father of two children.
Middy was introduced to politics when her father ran for United States Senator in 1936. That was the beginning of a long and wonderful relationship, which included being the President of the Colorado Federation of Republican Women and attending a national convention as a delegate.
Middy's husband, Bob, died in 1982. She was blessed with another love in 1985, when she married Richard (Dick) Divelbiss of Pueblo. They moved to Colorado Springs and were immediately embraced by their new community of friends.
Middy is survived by her two children, Francie Haver of San Antonio; and, Tom (Sue) Haver of Larkspur; three grandchildren, Steven (Lucia) and Phannie (Sam) Haver, and Salem (Harley) Steppig and their two children; her five step-children, Rick (Pat) Divelbiss, Rod (Jan) Divelbiss, Michael (Susanne) Divelbiss, Cindy (Jack) Uldrich, Mark Divelbiss, their children and grandchildren as well as numerous nieces and nephews.
Her last game of bridge was played September 5, 2019. Middy's memorial service will be held at 2:30 on October 6, 2019, at The Chapel of Our Saviour Episcopal Church in Colorado Springs.
In lieu of flowers, please make donations to either:
-- The Chapel of Our Saviour Episcopal Church: 8 4th St, Colorado Springs, CO, 80906
-- Pikes Peak Hospice and Palliative Care: 2550 Tenderfoot Hill St, Colorado Springs, CO, 80906
-- Your organization of choice.

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Published by The Gazette on Sep. 22, 2019.

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September 24, 2019

Francie and Tom,
Middy was one of my very special friends! Since I left Pueblo in 2014, I haven't kept in touch, but always remember the very special times we had.
Nancy Baker Froelich

Barbara Berger

September 24, 2019

Francie and Tom - I was so sorry to learn of your mom's death,. We became acquainted years ago through the Realtor group and shared the ups & downs of that organization which included a lot of travel time. However, the traveling wasn't limited to Realtors. Your mention of her love of bridge really rang a bell. I still have photos of trips we took to exotic places where we are in someone's room playing cards on the bed. (Also late, late nights at the Don K>)

We rather lost touch over the years and talked less as circumstances changed. I had hoped to attend her memorial but find I will be in LA on that date for a college graduation. I will miss her forever.

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