Philip Winchell Obituary

Remembering your family today on the anniversary of Phil's "graduation" to heaven ten years ago. Praying the pain comes in waves less often now and rejoicing that you are ten years closer to being reunited with him.

We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Karyn (Winchell) Dahlke is our sister-in-law so we understand as well as is possible what it is like to experience the loss of a child. We helped Karyn's family take care of Camryn through the time of Camryn's death. We miss her terribly and know you are experiencing the same grief today over Philip. We will pray for you and wish you comfort and strength in this hard time.

Words cannot begin to express how sorry we are for your loss. We still look back fondly on our FBC family and all "our" 42 games. We continue to lift you up in prayer. God bless & love to your family at this difficult time.

I only heard about Philips death a couple of days ago and although i never knew him very well I was extremely upset to hear about your loss and all of our sympathies go out to you. Please KNOW that the pain and loss are not permanent and i also know that he is looking forward to see you again for an eternity in heaven. You are in my prayers and will continue to be. I wish you all the best in this difficult time.

I just heard about Philip's death today. As one who prayed with you for him in Moms In Touch last year, I feel as if one of my own is gone. I don't know what kind of pain he must have been in, but you are right--he isn't in it anymore. We will keep you in our prayers.

We heard about your loss through our neighbors- The Seligova's. We are so sorry and know that others are holding you all up before the Lord. What a reunion there will be in heaven.

The Hunt's

Dear Winchells,
I'm praying for you, and so are my friends.

Dear Winchell Family,

I am so sorry. Philip has been loved by my family for years, and has been so much like a brother to Daniel and David. Although it is hard to know how to pray, I trust that Jesus is interceding on behalf of our prayers for you and for others who have dearly loved Philip.

I love you guys, and you're in my prayers!

My heart aches to hear of your loss. I send you my thoughts and prayers.

Dear Friends,

Words don't do justice to the ache in our hearts as we hurt for and with you. Reading of Phil's love for the 14ers made me want to share this picture of Quandry - a mountain that I assume he enjoyed.

May your Rock in this storm be the Lord Jesus himself.

Love,
Wade, Dara, Caleb and Anna Gardner

I am so sorry for your loss, words alone cannot adequately express my thoughts and prayers that are with you all during this unimaginable difficult time. Please know that you have the support of many, and as difficult as it is today, amazing people with your strength and faith will always be able to look at tomorrow in a positive light. If there is ever anything I can do, you know that I am always here... e

I am praying for you all.

Bri Scott

I am Wade Gardner's mom and together with Wade's family enjoyed your hospitality as we spent a wonderful weekend in your mountain get-away last year. Just want to say my heart is aching for your loss. May you find some solace as you turn to our Heavenly Father and know He grieves with you.
Janet Gardner

Phil was the most well read, intellectually honest and independent man I knew. My few conversations with him revealed these rare qualities to me and I very much admire him for it. I will pray for him, his friends and his family.

I am so sorry for your loss and the pain you are going through. I had the amazing chance to spend two weeks in Peru with such a wonderful young man. My thoughts and prayers are with you and may God bless your family. Phil will never be forgotten.

So close, no matter how far
Couldn't be much more from the heart
Forever trusting who we are
and nothing else matters

Never opened myself this way
Life is ours, we live it our way
All these words I don't just say
and nothing else matters

Trust I seek and I find in you
Every day for us something new
Open mind for a different view
and nothing else matters

never cared for what they do
never cared for what they know
but I know

So close, no matter how far
Couldn't be much more from the heart
Forever trusting who we are
and nothing else matters

never cared for what they do
never cared for what they know
but I know

Never opened myself this way
Life is ours, we live it our way
All these words I don't just say

Trust I seek and I find in you
Every day for us, something new
Open mind for a different view
and nothing else matters

never cared for what they say
never cared for games they play
never cared for what they do
never cared for what they know
and I know

So close, no matter how far
Couldn't be much more from the heart
Forever trusting who we are
No, nothing else matters

While I never met Phil, I heard many stories of him from Michelle over the past few years and came to know of him as a highly intelligent young man who had a huge heart, sharp wit and a nimble mind. God bless you all during this time.

I am very sorry for your loss my son Nathan Neese is the one who found your son on rattle snake hill, I just wanted to tell your family how deeply sad about your loss and that i will pray for your family . I know he is with god now and he will take care of him forever. My son Nathan is 11 years old and he wanted me to tell you he is very sorry and that he has prayed for you and your son. We god bless your family and again we are very sorry for your loss

LOVE THE NEESE FAMILY

I know I have not seen any of you for years, but you were like my second family as I was growing up. I do think of all of you often, and you will always be in my heart. I have many fond memories of Philip as he tagged along with whatever Michelle and I were up to for the day...may you all find peace and comfort in your hearts and through your Lord. My parents send their love and prayers as well.

We are deeply saddened by your loss. Please know that we will keep you in our thoughts and prayers, with the hope that you will be granted 'the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension.'

Kent and Denise - words can't express the sorrow I feel at your loss. Though we have been distant please know you are in my thoughts and prayers

Kent and Denise, Michelle and Stephen;
I am praying that God will see you through the loss of Philip with renewed faith in His love for you.
John 14
1"Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me. 2In my Father's house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for you. 3And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am.

Much love from our family to yours,

Phil was absolutely one of a kind. His intelligence and insight took me by surprise. He inspired me to dig deep and stand up for what I believe in. I will never forget all of the times he made me laugh in Peru. Phil left such an impact on the world and I am so thankful to have known an individual like him. It is refreshing to know he is with God now. You will be missed Philip.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you now and in the days ahead as you grieve the loss of your beloved Philip.

Phil, you were the one person I could ever relate to. Our similar sights and feelings bound me to you, as well as the simple times we shared. When we meet up next time, we'd better catch up and look at lava on the cozy sac. I will miss your pretty soul, 'till then.

I met phil at school and instantly became friends with him. He was one of the most sincere people I or anybody else who was blessed with knowing him will ever meet. My memories with him will always live on.

Do Not Stand At My Grave

Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there, I do not sleep
I am a 1,000 winds that blow
I am the diamond glints on snow
I am the sun on ripened grain
I am the gentle autumn rain
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled light
I am the soft star that shines at night
Do not stand at my grave and cry
I am not there; I did not die.

Phil was one of the most unique, brilliant, talented, and humorous people I have ever been lucky enough to meet, and I say this with all the sincerity in the world. He seemed to have an understanding of life beyond the comprehension of just about everyone else. In my mind, he will be remembered for the incredible person he was, and always will be. I pray for your family constantly and hold faith in the fact that you are in Heaven now. Much love buddy.

My heart is breaking at your loss. I have endured this senseless tragedy 2 times and words cannot express my sorrow for you. Your Philip is now dancing with Jesus, and this is a glorious thought, however, you are not, and the hole in your hearts is large. Know that Joe and I are praying for each of you, and that I KNOW our God is mighty to give you peace. He also is weeping with you. So, take courage and let his healing love wash over you.

Philip....i know we haven't tlked in a while since i moved but all i can say now is u were such a great friend. R.I.P i'll miss u, and ma prayers go to the family.

We deeply empathize with you in this very painful loss. God keeps us praying for you throughout our days. Words just cannot adequately express our thoughts and love for you all at this time. From Leanne Orr's parents...

My thoughts are with you Phil, you were a great friend and I know I will miss you. I'll dedicate your seat next to me and leave it empty for you bro. Your friend and classmate.

Our hearts break with yours and we will be praying for comfort and peace to rest upon you all. Philip will be missed, but we rejoice in seeing him again in Heaven someday.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time.

So sorry for your loss. My daughter's friends came upon him that morning as they played behind my house. We left a white rose to honor your angel. May you know he will always be watching over you and our prayers are with you.

Philip was the most special, most important part of my life. He taught me endless, nearly indescribable things that many could not understand if they lived their entire lives. His brilliance and strategy always will be beyond this world.
It's still difficult to say such things, but what I am truly capable of saying always and forever is that I love him more than he will ever know, except now I trust that he does, and we are, in the most sublimely existential way, complete.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. We cherish your friendship and hurt with you. May the Lord be your strength as you continue through your journey. We love you.

Larry and I are so sorry this has happened. Our prayers and compassion are toward your family and friends right now.