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Robert McAllister Obituary

October 23, 1936 - July 30, 2008 Lt. Colonel Robert L. (Bob) McAllister (Ret.), 71, passed away peacefully July 30, 2008 after a brief illness. He was born in Charleston, West Virginia, to Benjamin and Effie McAllister who preceded him in death, as well as his brother, William McAllister. Bob married his high school sweetheart, Betty, on June 15, 1956 in Charleston, WV. He is survived by his wife Betty and daughters Barbara McAllister and Debbie Haynes (Bob Haynes). Bob attended West Virginia University where he earned a BS degree in Business Administration (Industrial Management). He served 23 years in the United States Air Force, retiring October 1, 1982. His military career included a tour in Viet Nam in 1968. He spent five years on the Commandant of Cadets staff at the Air Force Academy and played a significant role in the preparation for admission of the first female cadets in July 1976 with the Class of 1980. After retiring from the Air Force, he embarked on his second career with Martin Marietta/Lockheed Martin where he worked for over 15 years. During his retirement years, he enjoyed attending Air Force football games, fishing and volunteering for the Silver Key Meals on Wheels program. Visitation will be held on Wednesday, August 6, 2008 from 4:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m., at Swan Law Funeral Directors. A memorial service will be held Thursday, August 7, 2008 at 10:30 a.m., at First Presbyterian Church, 219 E. Bijou. In lieu of flowers, the family requests contributions be made to Silver Key Senior Services, 2250 Bott Avenue, Colorado Springs, CO 80904. Interment will take place at Fort Logan National Cemetery in Denver, CO.

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Published by The Gazette on Aug. 5, 2008.

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Patty Wallace-Honaker

August 27, 2008

Sandra e-mailed me about Bob. It has been many, many years since I have seen or spoken with Bob & Betty, but the memories of being friends in HS is still endearing. Bob was such a great young person; very caring and polite -always a gentleman with a wonderful sense of humor. My sincere regards and prayers are with you,Betty Lou and your family. My husband was there to greet him. God Bless!

Wayne Walker (CMSgt Ret)

August 22, 2008

My condolenses go out the the McAllister family. Lt Col Mc may not remember me, but I certainly remember him. He was my commander at RAF Mildenhall in the 70s. I was a young, wild, out of control troop who stayed in trouble. However, for some reason, Lt Col Mc always took it easy on me when it came to discipline. Apparently, he saw something in me that I didn't see in myself. I think he would be proud to know that I retired as a Chief Master Sgt in 2004. As a matter of fact, Jim Harris, who is listed on this registry, was our 1st Sgt then, and he was in attendance at my pin on cermony and retirement ceremony.

Lt Col McAlliser was good man, a a great human being. He will be sorely missed.

CMS Ret James Harris

August 21, 2008

I am so sad to hear about the passing of my Commander Lt Col Robert McAllister, I was his First Sergeant at RAF Mildenhall AB,he was one of the Best Commander that I ever work for always cared for the Troop's and their families.

Robert J. (Bob) Casto

August 20, 2008

I have known and respected Bob since high school. We were in the high school band and orchestra together. In 1956 Bob and I both married a Betty Lou. I have known his Betty Lou since 5th grade. Bob spent 23 years in the Air force, I spent 22 years in the Army. We both retired as Lt. Col. We met again at our 40th high school reunion. Bob was always a good friend, friendly to all, and will be missed by all who knew him. Please give our condolences to Betty Lou and his daughters. Bob will live long in our memories as a man whom we all should wish to emulate.Our thoughts and prayers are with Betty Lou and family.

Floyd Edick

August 19, 2008

My wife Jan and I first met Bob in 1975 at RAF Mildenhall England . He turned out to be my hero and quiet warrior. He was instrumental in getting me assigned to the prestigious USAFE IG team and subsequent promotion to Lt. Colonel. Even after 30 years, I am sitting here crying. I miss him. I will miss his weekly jokes on the net for the last 20 years or so. I have always missed his 5 O'clock “tea parties” Friday afternoons after work in his office. Mr Jim Beam or some of his friends were usually in attendance. I consider it a privilege to have known him. I have never met more of a gentleman or loving husband or father. Jan and I send our condolences to his family. I am so glad that I was able to see Bob and Betty a few years ago and go to a game at the academy with them. Interestingly my 8th grandchild was born 30 Jul 2008. Floyd Edick Lt Col Ret. [email protected]

Sandra Nelson Taylor

August 19, 2008

My heart is heavy since hearing of Bob's passing. I went thru high school with him and Betty. He truly was a wonderful person and friend. I last saw him and Betty Lou at our last H.S. reunion, it saddens me that there will not be another. My love and prayers go out to Betty Lou and his daughters.

Randy Williams

August 19, 2008

Although I didn't know Bob during his Air Force Career but had the occasion to work with him and go TDY with him while working for the Air Force as a contractor. He was a wonderful man and loved Betty and his home state very much. We talked about our Air Force Careers all the time. He will be missed deeply.

William R. Williams, CMSgt, USAF (RET) (Randy)

Jean Ellison Wince

August 16, 2008

I am still stunned and saddened by Bob's passing. I have fond memories of him from early childhood, even though I didn't get to see him and his family often. I remember Bob's humor and caring. His calls to me during my mother's illness and death were especially sweet and valued. I know his family will miss him. He was always so proud of his family, and I looked forward to 'catching up' on all the news in the Christmas letters he and Betty Lou would send.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you all through this time.

JAMES F SMITH

August 12, 2008

Bob and I served in England at the same time. He and his family lived a couple of roads from us on RAF Lakenheath. We again lived a couple of blocks from him and Betty in Colo Sprgs. I also worked for Martin Marietta/Lockheed Martin. We car pooled for almost 6 years to the Denver facility and traveled many many safe miles together. He transferred to Falcon AFB and I followed shortly thereafter and he became my boss in facilities for the Star Wars program. He was a great boss. I will miss him as we have stayed in touch since our retirements for the past 13 years going to dinners and via e-mails. Will continue to be in touch with Betty. Your Friend Jim

Dave Purcell

August 6, 2008

Bob was so kind and helpful to me (as was Betty) when I first started to work for him at the Air Force Academy, when I had family problems, and then again when I arrived in England to work at the same RAF Base. He always seemed to put others' needs ahead of his own. He was a great gentleman.

Betty Ray

August 5, 2008

Bob was an incredible person...so very inspirational, great sense of humor, and an honor for our Country! He was a fabulous husband and father, and the best Brother-in-Law anyone could ever have.

He will be missed. May he rest in peace.

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