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Thomas Stringer Obituary

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THOMAS ARTHUR STRINGER
1943 - 2019
Thomas A. Stringer, beloved husband, father, brother, uncle, cousin and friend, passed away from metastatic prostate cancer March 10, 2019 at home in his favorite chair with his family around him. He lived a life full of music, physics, learning, laughter and love.
Tom was born to Vivian Lawanda Stringer and William Arthur Stringer in 1943 in Austin, Texas. When his father returned from WWII, his family moved to Joplin, Missouri and eventually settled in Overland Park, Kansas, where he spent his childhood.
He received a PhD in Physics from the University of Kansas in 1970 on a NASA fellowship. He met his wife, Carol, while he was in graduate school and they married in 1971. They moved to New Mexico where Tom worked at White Sands, moved to New Jersey where Tom worked at Bell Labs, until making a home in Colorado Springs for a job at Kaman Sciences which became ITT Advanced Engineering and Sciences, where he worked for thirty-five years until he retired. After "retirement," he taught physics as a lecturer at the University of Colorado at Colorado Springs until 2017. He was proud that he spent his career doing and teaching physics, something he deeply loved at both a theoretical and practical level.
Tom's family and friends were so important to him. He and his wife, Carol, were married for forty-eight years, and he loved her deeply. He loved and was so proud of his two sons, Jonathan and Michael; his wonderful daughter-in-law, Abbie; and delighted in his two granddaughters, Ottilie and Estelle. He was the oldest child in his family - the "Ebub" - and is survived by his brothers, Bill (Kozo) and Jim (Dana); his sister, Nancy (Todd); and his many nieces, nephews and cousins.
He was involved in the Colorado Springs Classical Guitar Society, T&D (a philosophy discussion group), and a French conversation group. There may not be a cashier, concierge, or barista in Colorado that hasn't been surprised when he remembered all the details of what they talked about months earlier.
Tom had an innate curiosity about the world. Some of his earliest memories involved puzzling over the question, "Why is there something rather than nothing?" That curiosity drove him to study fundamental physics and avidly read and write about philosophy. There were so many things that he wanted to learn or master that he constantly strove to make the most of his time. Whether it was squeezing in five minutes of playing music before leaving for an appointment, writing about speculations, musings, and ideas on his blog, or writing about atomic structure in his last days.
Tom could not imagine the world without music. When he was 16 years old he started playing guitar in rock and roll bands in the Kansas City area and continued playing in bands until he was in graduate school, where he became more interested in classical guitar. His interest in guitar ultimately expanded to many other instruments: lute, piano, Irish fiddle, classical violin, cittern, banjo and mandolin. Tom was not only a lifelong student of music, but a teacher as well to both of his children and to anyone else that wanted to learn. He recorded fifteen albums, including a cherished lullaby album for each of his granddaughters. Tom played in Blarney Pilgrim, Mountain Road Ceili Band, and the UCCS Physics Rock and Roll Band.
Tom will be sorely missed by his family, friends and acquaintances - but his legacy will continue with the stories, love of learning, and music that he left with us. We invite you to continue reading his blog posts on bigthickglasses.blogspot.com, and listen to his music at soundcloud.com/bigthickglasses.
Celebration of Life, Saturday, April 27, 2019, more details at a later date.
Memorial contributions in Tom's memory may be made to the charity of your choice.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Gazette from Mar. 20 to Mar. 24, 2019.

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Don Kehrer

March 29, 2019

Oh Carol I'm so terribly sorry to hear about Tom.
It seems so long ago that we were all laughing and joking together. Yet when I turn around it feels like yesterday?
I don't know how we've taken different paths in life and yet somehow lost touch with some of the finest people we had ever known.
So until we meet Tom again please accept our deep sympathies.
All our love Carol.

Randy Schaffner

March 28, 2019

Carol,
Sorry to learn about Tom. He was a nice fellow. I remember our dinner together followed by Tom playing such beautiful music. You are in my prayers.

Patti Chamberlain

March 25, 2019

I worked with Tom so very long ago at Kaman Sciences. He was a pleasure to know and a true gentleman. My condolences to his family.

Lynda and Bill Ballard

March 25, 2019

We regret that we didn't live close enough to you and Tom. He was such a pleasure to talk to and be around. He will be missed by all and we are part of this large group.
Many thoughts,
Lynda and Bill Ballard

David Beutler

March 25, 2019

Tom is a man who "wanted to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life." (Thoreau) He taught me so much about physics, music, and how to live a life of discovery and wonder, where the search for truth is something to be loved and savored. To have a conversation with him was an adventure. He is a man who lived his life with passion, love, and laughter. I am thankful that I was able to spend some of that time with him.

Reg Curry

March 24, 2019

Carol,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss of Tom. Tom was a delight to know. He will always be fondly remembered and missed by me. If there is anything I can do, please dont hesitate to ask. Reg Curry

Tom Zarick

March 24, 2019

Very sad to hear aboutTom. He was always a pleasure to work and socialize with - especially when he had to explain something to those of us that was barely within our grasp.

Condolences.

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