Trevor Hady Obituary

I LOVE AND MISS U MY AMAZING BROTHER! ILL NEVER FORGET U...GONE TOO SOON MY HEART STILL BREAKS FOR U...I LOVE U

You came across my mind today. Only to realize it has been 10 years since you have been gone. Praying for your family here and hope they are doing well. Keep watching over us.

My brother...today is the 10yr anniversary of ur passing...I can't believe I made it 10yrs without my best friend...I miss u so much it has never changed at all...I hope u can feel our love from there...wrap ur arms around us and provide us with comfort today and everyday dear brother...I love u
Ur sister...
Nikki

My dear brother...
I love n miss u soooooooo much.....I'll never get over it or stop loving u...u were my rider. U were there for my every need always...n my kids too...we talk about u all the time. Ur spirit will be forever remembered and ur legacy will never be forgotten. I miss u like crazy. The pain has gotten easier and I'm able to talk about you without crying everytime. Doesn't mean I don't love u just as much. I've just come to terms with life...I still shed tears...all the time. But I've found some comfort. Wish times were different but one day we'll be reunited. I love u with my absolute everything....may u be resting in complete peace and in the comfort of GODS presence...
Forever missing n loving u
Love ur sister nikki
AKA NICOLETTE PADILLA-LOPEZ AKA HADY

Happy Birthday Trevor! Still thinking of you

GD Trevor!!!! I loved you so much and I think about u so much!! We had so many good times together! I miss u so much brotha :(.
Life goes by and I wish you you were there but I know your at a better place....love ya BONZ!!!

RIP you will always be missed.

I only knew you for a short time and always wondered what you were up to. We bumped into each other once or twice after highschool and it was always nice to see you. Such a sweet and kind person that I feel blessed to have been acquainted with you. RIP

i love u brother...n miss u soooo much everyday </3

DAMN Frog....I miss u so much now that the weather is good...this was ur favorite time of year but I know ur in better place..RIP Frog

RIP DEAR BROTHER

Dear Brother~
Its been one year I haven't seen you. I can't believe it's been a year. I think when you passed away my mind went into hibernation. I feel as if I'm barely waking up and living as of like 2 months ago. I truly miss my best friend and love you with all of my heart. We all do brother. I'm sad our journey that once was is getting farther and farther away. No matter the distsnce of our memories and laughs you're always present in my heart. I'm sorry it's been so long without an entry in here Trevor. May you always hear our cries of love for you and know we are all still with you. Everyday. I'm proud to have been able to have such an honorable, kind hearted, loving brother. Nobody can ever compare to you nor will I ever have a relationship with anyone how ours was. The bond we had as brother and sister was one I'll cherish forever. I always remember our childhood memories and look at my kids and think of how precious it all is. We all love you Trevor...hope you can hear us. RIP LIL BROTHER...LOVE YOU TREVOR Always Your Only Sister~
Nikki

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Dear Brother~
Just had you on my mind a lot the past couple of days. It's just one of those times of the year that the memories surface. The balloon glow was this weekend and I know your presence was truly missed, especially by mom. It's the little thngs that we always took for granted that seem to matter the most. Dear brother, I miss you. What I can say is that this tragic experience has brought a light to our lives in the sense that life is too short to let it waste away. It;s just too bad we can no longer create memories together little brother!! But even though, our family still carries you with us in heart, thought and memory through all the places and experiences where your presence is truly missed dear brother. The other day Miguel was asking when he would get to see you. It;s hard to know what to tell him Trevor. He said that if he promises to be good if it was possible for him to visit you. You were truly loved by the kids and they miss you. Trevor you are so missed. I never knew that it would effect so many people. Just know that you are always in thoughts and prayers, even the childrens dear brother. Hope to see you again someday. I'm sad that one day this guest book won't be open anymore one day because i feel like you hear me this way. But just know I'm here. Always and forever.
Always your sister~
Nikki

Dear Brother,
Was going to take some time to make a last entry to you in the guest book. As time slowly heals the hurt of your loss, your memory never fades. I still am almost in awe of what happened, its almost sureal. I really miss you and what we had. I really value all of the special memories you have left me with and all of the laughter that you still bring me. I love to spend time remanicing in your memory, and every time we are together as a family we do the same. This has been an extremely hard year and I just wish we had more time together. I feel sadened by the fact that I didnt know our time was coming to an end. I would have never left your side for even one second. However, there is no changing the events that took place and that were out of our control. You my beloved brother were part of a bigger, better plan. I thank god everyday that I had such a kind hearted brother whos' presence completly blessed our family. I also thang god that he heard your prayers and that your struggle and suffering is over. Now you can truly just be. I wanted to thank you for being so supportive and caring when it came to your nieces and nephews. Anything I ever needed in regards to them I knew I could always count on you. They love you Trevor, and I will make it my life long job to keep your loving memory alive in their hearts. I thank god that you got to be a part of all of their lives. There is no sweeter gift. I would also like to take this time to apologize for any differences that we may have had. I never did anything with intensions to hurt you but however am sure that I at some point did. Its times like this that make me wish for a rewind button. Life is too short. I've heard that my whole life and somehow it always seems to escape my memory and leaves a person full of regrets. So again, I'm deeply sorry for any and all hurt. I'm so thankful that our relationship was at it's peak when our paths went seperate ways. Couldn't of asked for anything else. I appreciate all the endless amounts of love and caring you seemed to have for me. Lookin back makes me feel like an extremely special sister. There aren't enough thank yous. Last thought, there is no love like a mothers love. Trevor, there are no words that even come close to describing the amount of love that mom has for you. I know that you left this plae knowing just that. Please watch over her and protect her always. The loss of a loved one can heal but will still always be a loss. The loss of a child is like living life with only part of your heart. Please know that when you left you took a piece of moms heart, but that she wouldnt want it to be anywhere else but with you. You are special, beautiful, caring, loved, missed and forever part of this family unit. I promise that not only will you be survived by all of us but celebrated to the fullest of our ability. I LOVE YOU!! I MISS YOU!! I WILL NEVER FORGET YOU!! PLEASE REST IN PEACE MY DEAR BROTHER...FOREVER WITH US...FOREVER WITH YOU...Always,
Your loving sister Nikki

Trev I found this little statue of 3 frogs doing the hear, see, speak no evil thing. It totally reminds me of you and I look at it everyday thinking of you. I miss you Frog but I know your always around in spirit

Dear brother,
I just wanted to say ...... I love you!!!!! <3<3<3<3

I have been reading the entries in your guest book, I never realized Nikki writes in the Book so much, it appears to give her a great comfort, which gives me a great comfort...Just know we will be here to take care of your Family the best we can...Josh is my buddy, and I love him so much... and I met Nikki recently and love her as well... And your Mom, what a great lady...We will take care of them until you meet again...You are sadly missed by your Family and many others.....Peggy

happy birthday big dog...hope you found that peaceful resting place where fears and pain are non-existent. we miss you brother save me a place :-)

Trevor,
Happy birthday. I wish we would of got to chill more after high school. But getting to know you was awsome! But the good die young! God bless you!

Trevor,
U will be forever missed and loved. Happy birthday!

dear trevor, i never got to meet you but i cant tell my all these loving people and ur wonderful sister you were pretty awesome.. and i know ur sis misses u dearly.. so with that said i just want to add a lil note rest in peace trevor.. u live inside so many hearts Happy birthday!

Dear Brother,
First off I need to say happy birthday! I know this is a sad day for all that are left to pick up the pieces. However I need to spend this day celebrating the life that was. I think that is what you would want me to do. I will everyday, until my dying day, spend my life in the happy memories. I cannot change what is or has been but have control of how I spend my time remembering you. I miss you!!! Your loving sister,
Nikki

Dear Brother,
Some time has passed since I last made an entry. I miss you....and the sad thing is that will never change. I still get overwhelmed with emotion when i think of you. My eyes still well up full of tears as I sit here and write another entry in your guestbook. I just want the whole world to know that i will always hold dear the bond that we had. It sadens my heart when I think about how long it will be before we are reunited together again. It will be a whole life time. The short time that we had together has created some of the best memories of my whole life. Your legacy will always live on in our family. With all my heart....I love and miss you Trevor....we all do.
Your loving sister,
Nikki

Dear Brother,
Writing you again because again am sitting here wondering could this even be true. I miss you. The whole famiy does Trevor. I just cant believe that our times have come to an end. I just wish we had more time. I know I would feel that way no matter when it happened. I just really hope that you know I love and miss you dearly. NOTHING will ever change that. Ever. I love you.
Your Loving Sister

Trevor u been constantly running through my mind..so much words unsaid. Just the thought of not ever seeing u again brings tears to my eyes. I always kept that hope in me. Ur sweet smile, ur hazel eyes and all the fun times we had gosh I wish I could go back in time..penny arcade won't ever b the same! That was our chill spot cuz it brought u memories from when u were a child..:-( feeding the ducks with moi wow he still remembers those days. Soo much I wish I would had told you!

Dear Brother,
Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. In fact, not a day goes by that not one of us doesn't think of you. Your presence is truly missed. It's really sad that I will never see you again...I LOVE YOU TREVOR. I miss going over to see you. I miss the dynamic of our relationship. I miss your jokes and comments. I really just miss one of the best friends I've ever had. Just sad that I will never be able to tell you that, and am sad that I didn't tell you enough that I love you.
Always,
Your Sister

Dear Brother,
Its almost been two weeks and I still can't believe that this is all real. You were such a big part of our family. You are truly missed and will never be forgotten. Every day we bring light to the great memories we had and all the wonderful things you were. I know you would be happy to see that at least through all of this it has made our family bond amazing. It's just one of the positive things I am trying to focus on. Even in trying times it's necessary to focus on the good. But that doesn't make your memory any less present or important to us. Always loved. Promise.
Your Sister Always,
Nicolette

you were the great cousin so much nice thoughts and commets about you but the day you left to become one of gods angles the world just burst because you werent there your family and dear friends miss you sooooo much you cant even imagine i just wanted to let you know that we will love no matter were you are xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo <3

You are in my prayers and will truly be missed.

I am so sorry for your loss. Trevor was a great guy and he will be missed dearly. I know that words do very little in this trying time, but at least know that everyone's thoughts and prayers are with you.

Dear brother,
Today was your funeral and it was so much harder than I had prepared myself for. There really aren't any words to describe how i feel. I feel robbed of a best friend, abandoned by a loving brother and so grief strucken by the loss that I am at a loss of words. I truly love you with all my heart, and through good times and bad, we still made out with an awesome bond and loving relationship. No one will truly understand the bond we had, and thats ok, because we get it. I am truly going to miss my friend. Sorry that things turned out the way they did but I promise to not let the good memories fade.
Your loving sister always,
Nicolette

In your grief, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I saw Trevor's pictures today and thought they were just precious! Thank you for sharing him.

I am so extremely sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

"They say love beyond the world cannot be separated by it. Death cannot kill what never dies." William Penn

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Lisa,

I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I hope that you can take comfort knowing he is at peace. You were a wonderful mother and friend to him. He was a wonderful young man. May you memories of him always bring a smile to your face and feel the love in your heart. He will always be with you and watching over you. If you need anything, I am always here for you. My heart aches for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers will be with you.

Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss...our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. We pray that your heart and soul find peace and comfort.

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

I pray that your many wonderful memories bring you comfort during your grief. Trevor will forever be held in the palm of Jesus' hands. Bless you all.

Lisa,
You're in my thoughts and prayers. May you take comfort in knowing an angel is watching over you.

Lisa, you have been on my mind and, although it was many, many years ago that we "came of age" together, I have felt a lifelong bond with my early classmates. Your loss weighs heavy on our hearts here in RI. May you and your family find peace and comfort through your memories and through the knowledge that the love always remains....

I can't imagine the pain and heartbreak that Lisa, Josh & Nikki are going through at this tough time, but after seeing the boys that I have known for years, the rough and tough boys that I have known since they were 10 years old, brought to tears, including my son, Ben, who admitted this was more difficult than he could have ever imagined...I soon realized that Trevor's passing is breaking the hearts of many more people than just his Family...He was taken too soon, and his memory will go on for many years to come...Rest in peace sweet boy...And may peace come to your Family very soon....

Trevor, I will never forget all our childhood memories. Ryan and you picked on me until I was 13 then you were like a brother and had my back. I remember you giving me two hamsters when i was like 8 and you told my mom they were both girls so they would not get pregnant... but you really gave me 2 pregnant hamsters and my mom got mad at us. Rest in peace Trevor and thank you for all the memories.

Josh, I sit here trying to write something to make you feel better but honestly I just have tears. We've been friends since we were in elementary school and I hope you know I will always be here for you. I am so sorry, but he is in a better place now. Stay strong and please let me know if you need anything.

Lisa, my prayers and thoughts are with you. Trevor is a great guy and I enjoyed growing up with your family. Please let me know if we can do anything for you.

Love always, Rachel Romero <3

No time on earth is long enough to share with those we love or to prepare our hearts for good-bye.

My deepest condolences to the entire family.

Hi Trevor, i didnt know you, but im sure you were a great brother, please watch over nicolette and the kids, god bless you and your family, you will alwways be remembered. ~Sunshine

There is no pain in this world, as the pain to lose a child. My heart mourns with you my sister, wishing I could some of the pain away. You will always be in my heart, Trevor, my handsome nephew. Will think of you each day. I love you guys, Deb (Aunt Deb)

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Lisa,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Godspeed!
The Daniluks, Kim, Jason, Cole, Kane & Carter

Loving you cuz!

Lisa,
From one Mom to another--my heart goes out to you! Let me know if there is anything that I can do for you or your family.

I am very sad to hear of your loss. Trevor used to live next door to me and he helped with a few hauling jobs for both of us to make a few extra bucks. He was very bright and very polite to both my wife and I. He will be missed.

So sorry for your loss Lisa(and family), you'll be in my thoughts and prayers.

Trevor...my first boyfriend ever!! Though I haven't seen you in years, I have never forgotten our childhood and all the fun we used to have. I will always remember you with your hair parted down the middle, your JNCO jeans, and the way your eyes lit up. Thank you for all the gifts you gave me when I was in 3rd grade..I am pretty sure I still have them all. May you rest in peace, sweet boy, I'll remember you always!

Too many years passed and time is moving on. I wish I got the chance to say goodbye. I will never forget you being Matts partner in crime....you two busting in mine and nikkis room always causing havoc....just to stand in the closet so u could hear our reactions when we came in! I hold a lot of fun childhood memories and now even closer to heart. Lisa, Nikki and Josh, I truly am so sorry about your loss. Watch for the shooting stars....I remember playing hide in seek in the backyard and hiding with Trevor. We saw a shooting star and he said, " when I grow up I want to be a shooting star." Then I just laughed at an unknowing kid...now...I am sure it will ring true. All our love, thoughts and condolences are with you three, and all the family and friends. Rest in Peace Trevor.

Trevor,Frog,T-Bones.....I loved you so much man! We had alot of good times together and I will never forget them. You were the most unselfish person and you always put yourself last just to look out for others and thats what I loved about you. I miss you so much but I know your in a better place. You ALWAYS be in my heart.

Trevor you will never be forgotten! You were my first love, best friend and confidant. So many fun crazy memories that will never part my heart. Watch over us. Hady family and friends I pray we all find peace love and comfort. Chip n chomp forever!! Te amo

You were my brother and I will cherish the memories we had together

Trevor,Frog,T-Bones...I loved you so much and we had alot of awesome times together. You will ALWAYS be in my memories

miss u man! we had alot of fun in the kitchen!R.I.P

Though I didn't know you very well, I know Josh talked very highly of you. You definitely made it a good time when you were here visiting and I am sure you will never be forgotten by those who knew you better. I am sure you will be watching over your family and one day you will all be together again.

My nephew Trevor, it breaks my heart to know that you are no longer here with us! You will be deeply missed and never forgotten! I wish there was something I could do to have you back but there is some comfort knowing our paths will cross again and that you are in heaven now watching over your family..

Those we loved don't go away,
They walk beside usevery day,
Unseen, unheard but always near,
Still loved, still missed and very dear.

I truly believe that...I know you are right there at your mom, sister and brothers side comforting them during this difficult time...you are and will be always in my heart and soul. I miss you deeply and love you very much!

Love your auntie Sheri

"Unable are the loved to die. For love is immortality." ~Emily Dickinson

Trevor you will always be a part of my life. You were my first love, best friend and confidant. All our great memories will never part my heart. Watch over us and take care of your family. Hady family and friends I pray that we can all find peace, love and comfort.

Trevor: I miss you so much. My handsome and kind son, you will be held close in my heart and mind forever more. You were loved by all of us; and we long to be with you to hold your hand. I love you honey, mama.

Always and forever with us

Hey man we used to be like two peas in a pod bro. It seems like not to long ago you were standing at my door at 8 in the morning with a lucky jello egg you made me for my hockey game cause that's the kind of friend you always were. I'll never forget that bro. They used to always call me Trev in school and you J they never could get that right...lol...Though time passed and we went our different ways in life it didn't matter how long it had been, every time I saw you it was like taking it off pause and pressing play again I guess true friendship is like that. I wonder sometimes why or how it seems fair for such a kind hearted soul to be taken from this world so young but I find comfort in knowing you're the lucky one to be living a better life with those who have gone before us all in eternal bliss. I'm saddened I didn't get to say goodbye but encouraged by the fact that it's only for the moment. Until we meet again and turn that pause button off and things will be rolling like they always did.. You touched to many hearts to ever be forgotten...Gone for now but never forgotten!!....LOVE YA BRO....---your boy---J.D. (gieck)

Trevor, you will always be remembered and a huge part of the family. You will be in my heart for the rest of my life. Keep an eye on your mom, Nikki, and Josh from up in heaven. They will always need you. I love you cuz. Always will. My heart is broken. Dee

James Pesicka - Trevor you were such a big part of our lives on a daily basis. I will miss doing projects with you and us giving each other a hard time. You have left a huge hole in my heart. I will think of you each and every day. Keep smiling and joking with your friends in heaven!!

James Pesicka - Trevor you were such a big part of our lives on a daily basis. I will miss doing projects with you and us giving each other a hard time. You have left a huge hole in my heart. I will think of you each and every day. Keep smiling and joking with your friends in heaven!!

To my nephew Trevor.... I love you! I will carry you in my heart forever! I will always remember you as “Stevens look alike” ...I carried around a photo of you when you were 12 years old... and I look at you now WOW you still looked like Steven (I will carry that memory forever, it brings a smile to my face if for only a moment)...you were taken to young....I will miss you deeply.......you will never be forgotten...I will keep your mom, sister and brother in my thoughts and prayers forever...I love you and will miss you deeply....Auntie Sheri

Trevor you will always be my best friend.....you will never be forgotten.....and will always be an important part of our family......we love you with all our hearts....

Trevor, you will remain in our hearts forever and you will never be forgotten. Thank you for all of the wonderful memories, that will be cherished by everyone for all eternity...

i love you brother

Nicolette Padilla-Lopez aka HADY.........I love you Trevor....we will always be best friends...you will always be with us and will never be forgotten.....