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Billy Gilkey Obituary

Joe, a beloved husband, father, grandfather and friend, passed away at the age of 84. He was married to the love of his life, Lena, for 51 years. Together, they raised two children, and were blessed with five grandchildren and three great-grandchildren, all of whom brought him endless joy. Joe had a deep passion for reading, fishing and spending quality time with his family and friends. His kindness and generosity knew no bounds, and he never met a stranger. He made everyone feel welcome with his warm heart and gentle spirit. For over 40 years, Joe worked with the Missouri Highway Department as a permit inspector, a role that earned him the respect and admiration of his colleagues. He was known for his strong work ethic and dedication to his job. He was preceded in death by wife, Lena Becerra Gilkey, Father, James B. Gilkey, Mother, Ann O'Neal Gilkey, Brother's, Tony Gilkey, James Bradley Gilkey, Sister, Ginny Gilkey (Leone). Joe leaves behind a loving family, children Christopher (Maureen) Gilkey, Christine (Michael) Maciolek (Gilkey), grandchildren, Erin Hendrix (Matt), Ethan Gilkey,(Emily), MaryKate Gilkey, Mia Maciolek and Chloe Maciolek. Great grandchildren, Alena Hendrix, Abel Hendrix and Atlas Gilkey. Sisters Muriel Jackson, Sheila Roberton, Tina Parton and many other cherished family members and friends. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him. A celebration of Joe's life will be held on February 10, at Heaton- Bowman- Smith- Sidenfaden Chapel, with a Rosary starting at 5:00pm and visitation beginning at 5:30pm. Funeral service will be Tuesday, February 11, 2pm at Heaton- Bowman- Smith- Sidenfaden Chapel. With a procession to Mt. Olivet Cemetery. The family suggests in lieu of flowers that donations be made to Leukemia & Lymphoma Society, a cause that was close to Joe's heart. Joe's memory will live on in the hearts of those who loved him, and his legacy of kindness, generosity, devotion to family will never be forgotten.

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Published by KQ2 on Feb. 8, 2025.

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Ron Roberts

February 11, 2025

I knew many years at MoDot. He was a good guy

julia Chavez

February 10, 2025

Christine and Chris, I am so sorry for the loss of your father, He talked about the two of you and your families with such pride and love. Cousin Joe was greatly loved by my mother and her brother. They grew up together and spent many hours of their childhood playing on their Grandma and Grandpa Elliston’s farm. Whenever they got together, they would share stories of their childhood. Joe was always there for family. His love for his family was boundless. I am sure that his beloved Lena was waiting for him so that they can spend eternity together. May he rest in eternal peace.

Donna Howard

February 9, 2025

My sympathies to your family. Joe was a great neighbor and man.

Connie Hale

February 9, 2025

So sorry to see this. Had so many good times and memories with Joe (and Lena) working with him at MoDot. Deepest sympathy to family

Steve Prawitz

February 9, 2025

Sorry for your loss. Prayers for the family.

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Feb

10

Rosary

5:00 p.m.

Heaton-Bowman-Smith & Sidenfaden Chapel - Saint Joseph

3609 Frederick, Saint Joseph, MO 64506

Feb

10

Service

5:30 p.m.

Heaton-Bowman-Smith & Sidenfaden Chapel - Saint Joseph

3609 Frederick, Saint Joseph, MO 64506

Feb

11

Funeral service

2:00 p.m.

Heaton-Bowman-Smith & Sidenfaden Chapel - Saint Joseph

3609 Frederick, Saint Joseph, MO 64506

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