David Alander

David Alander obituary, Bartlett, NH

David Alander

David Alander Obituary

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David Karl Alander, age 82, of Bartlett, NH, passed away peacefully on April 29, 2025, after a brief illness. He was the beloved husband of Cheryl L. (Albee) Alander for nearly 48 years, just short of their anniversary on May 14.

Born on June 3, 1942, in Plymouth, MA, to John A. Alander and Edna (Davis) Alander, David grew up in Kingston, MA, and later moved to Bartlett, NH, where he resided for 47 years. After graduating from Silver Lake High School in 1961, David joined the Army, which ultimately led to a lifelong career in the electric utility industry. He retired in 2004 from New Hampshire Electric Coop, where he was known as a loyal and dedicated employee.

David enjoyed a simple life, finding meaning in the small things. He was a quiet man who often found peace in deep thought. He had a great smile and was happiest tinkering in his barn, working around his yard, listening to NPR, or reading the newspaper. A die-hard Red Sox fan, David never missed a home opener, and his love for the team was well known. He had a love of jazz music and would often be found advising others to listen to Dave Brubeck "in the dark." Being of Finnish descent, the word Sisu may best describe him: a quiet strength, perseverance, and resilience that guided him through life.

David is survived by his wife Cheryl, his children Lee Matteson (husband Andrew) of East Providence, RI, Nathan Alander of Bartlett, NH, and Jacob Alander (wife Nina) of Pyeongchang-gun, South Korea. He was a proud papa to Megan Cappola, Mariana Matteson, Jonathon, Calvin, and Finnley Alander. He is also survived by his sister Judith Drew of Dover, NH, brothers-in-law Mark Albee of Wonalancet, NH, and Keith and Natalie Albee of Rochester, NH, and several cousins, nieces, and nephews.

A celebration of life will be held at a later date. To honor David's free spirit and love of the outdoors, consider planting a tree in his memory through the Arbor Day Foundation. Contributions may also be made to the Alzheimer's Association at alz.org.

David will surely enter eternity with a map, good music, a glass of red wine, and his incredible trademark smile. He will be dearly missed by all who knew him.

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May 14, 2025

Mary jo posted to the memorial.

May 10, 2025

Carole Christy posted to the memorial.

May 9, 2025

Jacob Alander posted to the memorial.

Mary jo

May 14, 2025

Much love and peace to you and your family Mary Jo( Killion) and Stephen Wildes

Carole Christy

May 10, 2025

Our Sincerest condolences to you all.
Cousin Carole and her family have you in our hearts and prayers.
Rest peacefully sweet man.
All our love.

Jacob Alander

May 9, 2025

Jacob Alander

May 9, 2025

One night in Bangkok!

Pam Burgess

May 9, 2025

Thank you, Uncle David, for being there for me, when I needed a loving and a respectful man in my life. You helped restore my faith in humanity, which set a pathway for healthier journeys to come. Rest peacefully, with a sprinkling of Sisu, my sweet Uncle.

Barbara A. Smith

May 8, 2025

Cheryl,
Thinking of you as we share similar challenges.

Nathan Alander

May 8, 2025

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