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Jeff T. Spear

1949 - 2024

Jeff T. Spear obituary, 1949-2024, West Tisbury, MA

BORN

1949

DIED

2024

Jeff Spear Obituary

Jeff T. Spear
1949 - 2024
Jeff Spear passed away peacefully at home, Monday, July 22, 2024, after a brief illness.
Born in 1949 in Binghamton, NY, Jeff was the son of Rowena Spear and Robert W. Spear. Jeff studied at the University of Massachusetts Amherst and went on to live a multifaceted and fulfilling life of service.
In his early years, Jeff served in the United States Marine Corps (USMC). He was a decorated Vietnam Purple Heart veteran who returned home and rose the ranks in business, serving as the owner and president of John C. Otto Printing Company for many years.
Jeff was a lifelong leader in the community. He played an indelible part in the success of the Capital Campaign for the Scantic Valley YMCA, spearheaded the completion of the Spear Youth and Family Center at the YMCA, and was the driving force behind the addition of a spacious pavilion and Amish Barn at the Stony Brook Acres YMCA Youth Camp.
Jeff had depth and soul. One part loud boisterous storyteller, the other, a reserved, inveterate putterer. He perpetually had a project. From restoring a Ford Model A, to rebuilding a classic 1960 BMW motorcycle, to the masterful renovation of a 10' Cape Dory Dinghy named Duke.
Jeff's connection to the ocean was deep and unwavering. He was an avid sailor, who, when he wasn't sailing, was trolling in a skiff clamming and lobstering. Jeff was Commodore of the Cuttyhunk Yacht Club from 1988-1992, where he taught his daughters along with the other Cuttyhunk children to sail.
Jeff lived for those he loved most. He built a life together with his wife Gail, living in different places including Northampton, Wilbraham, St John USVI, Cuttyhunk Island and Martha's Vineyard. Jeff encouraged his daughters to spend summers enjoying nature and living on Cuttyhunk. He and the family lived aboard their sailboat Shibumi, right in the harbor. Jeff is predeceased by his two daughters, Amy and Alison, and wife Gail Williams Spear. It was ever-so-clear that he continued to live for and honor 'his girls,' and that they lived on within him throughout his life.
A friend to many, he was a cherished member of all the communities he lived in, leaving behind a legacy of kindness, generosity and vision in helping future generations succeed. He led the way for the Spear Memorial Field at Minnechaug Regional High School, dedicated to the living memory of his daughters Amy and Alison, in the hope that young athletes could be inspired by love of sport and team spirit. He played a part in the renovation of The St. John School, St John, USVI and purchased books for the children who attended.
While on Martha's Vineyard, he was a volunteer at the Island Food Pantry and the Martha's Vineyard Seafood Collaborative. He also delivered meals for Meals on Wheels sponsored by the Elderly Services of Cape Cod Martha's Vineyard office. Jeff was a member of Grace Episcopal Church in Vineyard Haven for five years. His generosity led to the renovation of a playground and the creation of the amphitheater in memory of his wife and daughters.
Jeff is also predeceased by his sister Marsha Spear, brother Robert W. Spear Jr, his Mother Rowena Spear and Father Robert W. Spear. He is survived by his brothers Paul E. Spear of Florida, Matthew G. Spear of MA, and Barry V. Spear of VT; his nieces and nephews and his beloved dog Ruby.
Jeff's impact will be forever felt in the form of kindness and love, courage and compassion, humor and inspiration, and joy and faith. Mother Teresa once said, "We ourselves feel that what we are doing is just a drop in the ocean. But the ocean would be less because of that missing drop." Jeff will be remembered as a drop in the ocean who buoyantly lifted the lives of so many.
May his memory ebb and flow forever, inviting others to follow in his wake.
There will be a private graveside service to celebrate Jeff's life.
Donations can be made in his memory to Martha's Vineyard Seafood Collaborative, 56 Basin Road, Chilmark, MA 02535.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Republican from Jul. 25 to Jul. 28, 2024.

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Linda

April 28, 2025

Jeff, Have thought of you so often especially during your birthday month. You changed my life. Your friendship was and always will be one of the great gifts of my life. You are missed my friend. Rest in Peace.

Leland grant Williams

April 27, 2025

Thank you for being in this lifetime. You made life better for so many people. I truly love you. Missing you. Uncle Jeff rest in peace.

Mary Lou (Hall) Hersey

April 15, 2025

Happy birthday to one of the most caring, loving people I have ever met. Although you are no longer with us, I think of you very often and remind myself you are with the family you love and have missed so much. Gail and the girls must be so happy to have their complete family together like it should be. Bless you all - until we meet again.

Linda Wallace

October 9, 2024

I have wonderful memories of Jeff, Gail, Amy and Alison going way back to when we first met in Northmapton decades ago. We had wonderful times together~ Jeff and I as work colleagues and Gail and I as friends. They were a fun loving, king and remarkably generous family and it was a joy and a privilege to be in their company. We cherished and supported one another in the best times and in the very sad ones. We remained great friends across the years and miles and I will treasure Jeff's memory always. Fair winds my friend.

Richard Wheeler

October 4, 2024

I was recently informed of the loss of Jeff. He became my friend, boss and mentor at Dexter.
Now you are with your wife and girls.
God Bless and Rest In Peace Jeff.

Ross Harris

August 14, 2024

Remembering Jeff and his family and all the good times on Cuttyhunk.

Ellen Miles

August 1, 2024

I remember Jeff from Dexter and did business with him at John c Otto. He was a very special person and businessman. He and his wife survived the tragedy the took their daughters. And then he lost Gail. He is now with them and I pray they all rest in peace.

Sandra Neumann

July 30, 2024

I will never forget the good times and how we built so much together. I thank Jeff for taking a chance on me and a new way of doing business back in 1986. I am very grateful to have been a friend for so many years. God bless Jeff and his family and friends.

Todd and Cathy Peetros

July 29, 2024

Jeff was a true friend and mentor to my wife and I for which we will be forever grateful. He had a profound positive impact on our lives. We hope that he´s now at peace with his family.

Mary Lou Hall Hersey

July 28, 2024

You were a wonderful man, friend and someone to be the strong shoulder of advice and love. You changed my life - because you cared for me. I'll never forget my life when you were here.

Joe Marois

July 26, 2024

Jeff, May you finally find peace and may you be once again
forever rejoined with your beautiful daughters Amy and
Alison and lovely wife Gail, and May God Bless. Joe Marois

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