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Barbara Decker Obituary
July 10, 2025
Wichita, Kansas - Barbara Ann Decker, 88, passed away on July 10, 2025, at her home in Wichita, Kansas, surrounded by loved ones.
Barbara was born in Tribune, Kansas, to Chase and Marguerite Hunt. She grew up in Greeley County, Kansas, attending local schools before furthering her education at Emporia State University and KU Medical Center, where she earned her nursing degree and became a Registered Nurse-a career she cherished.
On August 17, 1958, Barbara married Larry Bays and together they had two sons, Todd and Scott Bays. Later in life, she married John Decker on October 16, 1982, blending their families. Her children, stepchildren, and extended family are left with countless memories of her love and kindness.
Barbara's life was centered around her faith and community. She was an active member of First United Methodist Church in Wichita, where she dedicated much of her time and energy. She was also a proud member of the P.E.O. Sisterhood. Barbara had a deep love for her family and friends, and she truly enjoyed playing cards-a hobby that brought her joy and countless moments of laughter.
Barbara was preceded in death by her parents, Chase and Marguerite Hunt; and her husband, John Decker. She is survived by her sons, Todd Bays (Claire) of Lawrence, Kansas, Scott Bays (Kim) of Wichita; her stepchildren, Patricia McMains (Randall) of Arkansas City, Kansas, and David Decker (Ivy Arroyo) of Leander, Texas; as well as 11 grandchildren and 7 great-grandsons, who will all miss her dearly.
Services will be conducted at First United Methodist Church in Wichita, Kansas, at 10 a.m. on July 17, 2025. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to First United Methodist Church, 330 N. Broadway St., Wichita, KS 67202; Sedgwick County Zoo, 5555 W. Zoo Blvd., Wichita, KS 67212.
Barbara will be laid to rest in the Enterprise, Kansas cemetery in a private ceremony.
Barbara's memory will live on in the hearts of all who knew her. She was a true blessing to everyone whose life she touched.
Services in care of Downing & Lahey East Mortuary. Share tributes online at: www.dlwichita.com
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Paul & Linda Winter
July 17, 2025
We're sorry we didn't see this until tonight. Barbara and John were both in the same square dance club with us and were a true delight! Even when I'd visit others at Presbyterian Manor, her smile would light up a room. We always remember her with a sparkle in her eyes.
May you each be consoled by wonderful memories of Barbara who was a blessing to all who knew her.
Please accept our condolences
Lance Rezac
July 17, 2025
I remember growing up around Barbara and the whole family. Many days after school was out we would go to her house and she would feed us and treat is just like family. Then we would go to the evening activities whether it was a sports event or some other activity. I always thought the world of her. She was such a pleasant lady.
Barbara Rezac
July 17, 2025
Remembering the many years of our families spending time together and you kids all growing up together. Barbara was such a sweet and pleasant person. She will be missed by so many. My prayers are with your families.
Jasmine Foster
July 14, 2025
I will remember your chats and low voice, your smile. I am so grateful for our time at PMMA together, love you. Jasmine (your favorite concierge)
Diana Fox
July 12, 2025
So sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. Not many of the Hunt family left. She was always such a wonderful, happy person. Your family are in my prayers. Thank you for calling me.
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