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She is preceded in death by her parents, Robert and Carol (nee Bruemmer) Fetherlin; her husband, Terry A. Gray.
She is survived by her son, Stephen (Fiancé Samantha) Gray; four grandchildren; three siblings, Nita Fetherlin, Robert Fetherlin and Richard Fetherlin; three nieces, Erin Gray, Gaby Fetherlin and Danyelle Fetherlin; brother-in-law, Roy (Cheryl) Gray; along with numerous other extended family and friends.
Barbara was a vibrant and joyful soul who found happiness in life's simple pleasures. She loved spending time working on puzzles, always up for the challenge and satisfaction of putting the pieces together. Shopping trips brought her joy, especially when shared with loved ones, and she had a special place in her heart for musicals-her eyes would light up with every song and performance. Barbara also enjoyed swimming, finding peace and freedom in the water. Above all, she adored her grand pups, showering them with affection and treats as if they were her own. Her warmth, laughter, and love will be dearly missed by all who knew her.
A graveside service will be held on Wednesday, July 30, 2025 at 11:00 a.m. at Chapel Hill Memorial Gardens – Mausoleum 6300 Hwy 30 Cedar Hill, Missouri 63016. Family and friends can review and share stories, photos and condolences online at www.stlfuneral.com and follow details of this event and others in the community at www.facebook.com/stlchapelhill.
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