Brenda Cook Obituary

Brenda Lee (Jenkins) Cook, a beloved mother, grandmother, sister, and friend, passed away peacefully on July 8, 2025, in Wilmington, NC, at the age of 68. Born on June 5, 1957, in Jacksonville, NC, she leaves behind a legacy of love, laughter, and legendary chicken pastry.
A lifelong resident of Onslow County, Brenda was a graduate of Jacksonville High School and spent much of her professional life contributing to her family-owned car business as a bookkeeper. She later served as a records clerk for the Jacksonville Police Department, where she was known for her meticulous attention to detail and dedication to her work.
Brenda had a passion for cooking, and her kitchen was always filled with warmth and delicious aromas. She was best known for her chicken pastry and ambrosia salad, dishes that brought comfort and joy to family gatherings.
Brenda was a devoted mother, a cherished Nannan, and a beloved sister. Her family was the center of her world, and she poured her heart into nurturing and supporting them. Left to cherish her memory are her daughters, Michelle Cook of Richlands and Ashleigh Cook of Jacksonville, who were her pride and joy, and she was a guiding light in their lives. As a grandmother, or "Nannan," she delighted in spending time with her grandchildren-Jordan, Izaak, Johnny, Sebastian, and Skylar-sharing stories, laughter, and the best hugs given.
Brenda is also survived by her sisters, Margaret Shivelhood of Jacksonville, with whom she shared a home, and Angela Wade (Andre) of Richlands. Her niece and nephews, Susan Shivelhood Brown, Jason Shivelhood, Michael Taylor, and Hunter Wade also hold her memory dear.
She was preceded in death by her father, Fulton Lee Jenkins; mother, Vivian (Carter) Whaley; and her nephew, George Shivelhood, III.
A service to celebrate Brenda's life will be held on July 19, 2025 at 3:00 pm at the home of her sister, Margaret Shivelhood, join us as gather to honor her memory and share in the joy and warmth she brought to our lives.
Brenda will be remembered for her unwavering love and support as a mother, nana, sister and aunt. She leaves behind a tapestry of memories woven with love and laughter; her gentle spirit and generous heart touched the lives of many, and she will be deeply missed by all who knew her.
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