Deserie Cincotti

Deserie Cincotti obituary

Deserie Cincotti

Deserie Cincotti Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Apyre National Cremation Services - Port Reading on Oct. 21, 2025.

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In Loving Memory of Deserie Cincotti (Samarco)

It's with a heavy heart that I share the passing of Deserie Cincotti, who left us on October 8, 2025, at just 48 years old.

Deserie grew up in Philadelphia and had a one-of-a-kind spirit-always joking and trying to make people laugh. She loved horror movies, animals, music, and taking pictures.

Though singing wasn't exactly her gift (a joke she'd laugh at), she absolutely loved music-especially "Free Bird" by Lynyrd Skynyrd. It feels fitting now to say she's "as free as a bird," soaring peacefully beyond this world.

She was preceded in death by her husband, Michael Cincotti; our dad, William Gould; our brother, Marky Gould; and many other beloved family members she missed dearly. She is survived by her mother, Anna Samarco; her brother, Billy Gould; and her sister, Ashley Schrag-along with so many family members and friends who loved her.

Right now, we're still figuring out arrangements and will share more when we can. Thank you to everyone who has reached out with love and support-it truly means so much to us.

A Poem for Deserie

The Glimmers of You

By Ashley Schrag

There were moments

when I'd catch a glimpse of you,

underneath the pain,

soft as light,

when the clouds would part

and I'd see you.

In your laugh,

in the way you'd make a joke

just to make someone smile,

I'd see her,

the sister I always hoped to have,

echoing through the noise.

I wish we'd had more of those moments,

without anything in the way.

No pain from the past, no demons clawing in your mind

your light never stopped fighting to be seen.

Now you're free

no shadows, no fight,

only peace.

Free to laugh,

Free to just be.

All the glimmers of you

finally whole again.

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October 16, 2025

June irwin posted to the memorial.

October 15, 2025

J cincotti posted to the memorial.

October 21, 2025

Apyre National Cremation Services - Port Reading posted an obituary.

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June irwin

October 16, 2025

I would like to express my deepest sympathies to the Samarco family
Des had a heart of gold we had some Good Times I will miss your e-mails and phone calls may your soul be at rest your mother in law June

J cincotti

October 15, 2025

Rest In Peace your father in law Joe you just made my hair more gray for a old man.

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October 16, 2025

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