James Skokan Obituary

James Skokan, beloved husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, brother, uncle, and friend, passed away peacefully in his sleep at home on July 12, 2025, surrounded by the love of his family. He was 88 years old.
Born in Chicago, Illinois, on December 4, 1936, James was the son of John Skokan and Helen Kort, both of Czechoslovakian and German heritage. At age 12, Jim moved with his family to Hayward, California, where he lived on a small farm and helped raise chickens and cows-laying the foundation for a life of hard work, discipline, and strong family values.
James proudly served in the United States Navy, stationed in Okinawa during his two-year term beginning in 1954. He served as an Aviation Electronics Technician (twidget) and performed intelligence surveillance. Upon his return, he built a remarkable career with Pacific Bell, where he rose to the level of Vice President of Budget Operations and retired at the early age of 44. Not one to slow down, Jim went on to pursue decades of success in real estate development, property management, and loan brokerage, mentoring many along the way and always encouraging others to reach their full potential.
A man of deep Catholic faith, Jim never missed the opportunity to pray, give thanks, and offer blessings. He said grace before every meal and remained a fearless prayer warrior for others' healing, strength, and success. His faith was not just private but lived and witnessed-quietly, humbly, and consistently. He was a holy man, a gentle leader, and a wise counselor who guided others with love, humor, strength, and unwavering conviction. His presence offered peace, and his counsel brought clarity. He was a mentor, a confidant, a facilitator of dreams, and a companion on the journey of life.
He cherished life's simple joys-playing cards, cribbage, dancing, music, good food, deep conversation, and above all, his beloved wife, Diana, whom he affectionately called "my girlfriend" for over 70 years. They met in a game of cards, fell in love at first sight, and were inseparable ever since. She preceded him in death on February 27, 2020. Their love was steadfast, radiant, and eternal.
James is preceded in death by his parents; his sisters and brothers Marion, Jean, Rose Mary, John, Jerry, and Joe; his son-in-law, Robert Culbertson, and his grandson, Jesse Cervantes, Jr. He is survived by his faithful brother Jack Skokan (Cathy), his devoted sister Peggy Fong (Kim) and sister-in-law, Marilyn Denham.
He leaves behind the family that was his greatest joy: his children-Debbie Rossetto (David), Denise Cervantes (Jesse), Theresa Skokan, James Skokan (Becky), Cynthia Stanley (Jeffrey), Annie Culbertson (Lonnie Jacobson), and Paul Skokan (Monica); Steve and Tina Broyles; his grandchildren-Matthew Rossetto, Rachelle Hague (Jon), +Jesse Cervantes, Jr. (Brittany), Manuel Cervantes, James Skokan (Keli), Sabrina Broyles, Skye Pinsonnault, Candace Aguilera (Justin), Cameron Watson (Marcus), Chandler Stanley, Taylor Garza (Torin), Robert Bo Culbertson, Emily Skokan, Sophia Skokan, Clayton James Skokan, and Olivia Skokan; Carli Cervantes, Amber Skokan; and his cherished great-grandchildren-Harper, Jonathan James, Alfie, Zephyr, Giovanni, Audrina, Chesney, Brooks James, Brooklyn, Easton, Aris, Atlas, Troy and Thea. He is also remembered lovingly by many nieces, nephews, cousins, and treasured friends.
In his final year of life, the family was blessed with the dedicated care of three extraordinary women-Lena, Selu, and Lani-whose presence brought comfort, dignity, and warmth to each day. These accomplished and loving caregivers became a beautiful part of Jim's daily life. He held a deep affection and sincere gratitude for them, valuing their devotion and kindness as an extension of the love he so abundantly gave and received within his own family. They honored him with reverence and respect, providing exceptional and tender support that allowed him to remain at home, surrounded by familiarity and peace.
Jim lived with courage, humor, gratitude, and an abiding love for God and neighbor. He never complained, always encouraged, and saw the best in people. To be in his presence was to feel seen, supported, and blessed. His legacy lives on in the countless lives he touched and the family he loved so deeply.
May his soul, reunited with his beloved Diana, rest in the peace of Christ whom he served with his whole heart.
**In lieu of flowers and to honor Jim and Diana's memory, the family invites consideration of a donation to one of the following organizations which reflects their lifelong values.
St. Joseph Catholic Church/Mission San José/Diocesan Shrine of St. Joseph https://www.saintjosephmsj.org/
St. Jude Children's Research Hospital https://www.stjude.org/
Doctors Without Borders https://www.doctorswithoutborders.org/