Patricia J. Constabileo

Patricia J. Constabileo obituary, Highland Park, IL

Patricia J. Constabileo

Patricia Constabileo Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Kelley & Spalding Funeral Home & Crematory on Nov. 11, 2025.
It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Patricia J. Constabileo "Pat", beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. She was preceded in death by her parents, Joseph and Violet Virgo, and is survived by her devoted husband James, and her three sons - Joseph (and Rose), Jim (and Sherri), and John (and Cathy).
Patricia will be dearly missed by her grandchildren Nicholas and Grace; Tiffany and Justin (Jace); Trever and Becky (Allie and Trisha); Joey; Cameron, Kayla, and Cadence, as well as by many extended family members, friends, and neighbors who were touched by her warmth and kindness.
After a fulfilling career at Sound Video Impressions in Des Plaines, she retired to follow her passion as a yoga teacher, sharing her love of wellness and mindfulness with others. Known throughout her Lincolnshire neighborhood for her walks with our beloved Bella, she was a caring presence who always looked out for others.
Patricia spent many years as part of the Lake County Big Sisters program, mentoring and supporting young women with compassion and care. To all who knew her, she was a friend, a mentor, and a source of love and laughter - truly loved by many and a friend to all.
Her spirit of kindness, strength, and love will live on in the hearts of all who were fortunate to know her.
A Visitation for Patricia will be held on Sunday, November 16th, from 1 pm- 5 pm at Kelley & Spalding Funeral Home, 1787 Deerfield Road, Highland Park, IL 60035. A Mass will be held on Monday, November 17th, beginning at 10:30 am at Holy Cross Church, 724 Elder Lane, Deerfield, IL 60015. Click here to join the livestream of Mass. Following the Mass, interment will take place at Queen of Heaven Cemetery, 1400 S. Wolf Rd., Hillside, IL 60162.
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Dory Bradley

November 13, 2025

My heart breaks for Jim and her children and grandchildren and all of us cousins and friends. Her heart was enormous and she was always willing to give a helping hand, a quick call, or a thoughtful message. She leaves a huge gap that won´t be filled, and I will miss her calm, assuring manner and loving presence. I won´t say goodbye, my sweet birthday cousin, but pave the way until we meet again.
All my love,
Dory

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