Search by Name

Search by Name

FUNERAL HOME

Carmon Funeral Home & Family Center

301 Country Club Road

Avon, Connecticut

Lillian Donner-Jacobson Obituary

Lillian Donner-Jacobson, 93, of West Hartford, formerly of West Haven, died peacefully on May 12, 2025. She was born in 1931 in New Haven, CT, daughter of the late Louis Donner and Martha (Hershman) Donner. Family was Lillian's top priority, hosting wonderful large family gatherings many times a year (even in her 80's), and spending time with her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She loved being a bookkeeper, reading books, especially mysteries, making greeting cards, art, classical music, and dogs. Being helpful was very important to her even in her 90's. A passion of hers was volunteering with hospice patients. Her heartfelt love will be remembered by all her family and friends. Lillian was predeceased by her loving husband Milton Jacobson, sister Harriet, son Robert, and grand-daughter Rachel. Lillian is survived by daughter Gale (Larry) Shapiro, son Gary (Linda) Jacobson, daughter-in-law Sandra Jacobson, nine grandchildren, sixteen great-grandchildren, and sister-in-law Ruth Jacobson. There will be a private funeral. Memorial donations in Lillian's memory may be made to two of her top charities, St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, online, www.stjude.org/donate, or by mail, 501 St. Jude’s Place, Memphis, TN 381 and Shriners Hospitals for Children, online, www.donate.lovetotherescue.org/ or by mail, 2900 Rocky Point Dr. Tampa, FL 33607 or any organization you would like.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by WFSB on May 17, 2025.

Memories and Condolences
for Lillian Donner-Jacobson

Not sure what to say?





0 Entries

Be the first to post a memory or condolences.

Make a Donation
in Lillian Donner-Jacobson's name

Please consider a donation as requested by the family.

Memorial Events
for Lillian Donner-Jacobson

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

Funeral services provided by:

Carmon Funeral Home & Family Center

301 Country Club Road, Avon, CT 06001

How to support Lillian's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services., and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Lillian Donner-Jacobson's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more