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Jock Payten Obituary
Jock Dee Payten was born on September 7, 1960, in Cleveland, Ohio, to Jesse Payten, Sr. and Thealonia Payten. As part of a proud military family, he spent his childhood in various locations before settling in Wichita, Kansas, where he made lasting memories and lifelong friends.
While in junior high school in Wichita, Jock met Andrea Duckett: the girl down the street, the love of his life. Their friendship blossomed into a beautiful marriage that lasted 45 years. Together they raised two children, Ashley Neal and Jock Darian Payten (Charnice), and cherished their grandchildren Aariah, Josiah, and Ava.
After graduating from North Texas State University, Jock devoted 25 years to education; spending much of his career as a beloved algebra and geometry teacher at Molina High School in Dallas, where he inspired students and built lifelong friendships. He wasn’t afraid of working hard, and for many years he juggled multiple jobs in addition to his teaching profession to ensure his family was well cared for.
Despite facing health challenges, Jock’s attitude remained fun-loving, persevering, and optimistic. He was a true believer in Christ, and an active member of Open Bible Fellowship Church. In retirement, he thoroughly enjoyed playing poker and golf, and created a monthly poker night for friendly competition amongst family and friends. He also cherished the monthly lunches with the men of his family, where stories, wisdom, and humor were shared around the table. He appreciated the special moments in life and will be remembered for his generous nature and desire for others to enjoy special moments as well.
Jock has a large family! He was preceded in death by parents, Jesse and Thealonia Payten. Remaining to cherish his memory are siblings, Debra Spriggs (Perry), Jesse Payten III (Deborah), Jay Payten, Donna Payten, Olufemi Kasisi Payten, Lyrea Collins (Marcus), Tres Pryor Payten, Jarret Payten; and special mother, Constance Payten; as well as a host of family and friends.
Jock was deeply loved and will be profoundly missed — A man who lived with kindness, integrity, and heart.
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for Jock Payten
Tara Bowers-Jones
November 21, 2025
Dearest Andrea,
Deepest condolences to you and the entire Payten family. May Jock’s amazing personality lives on through you. I want to share one of several memories I have of Jock. Jock often shared an elementary or middle school memory to a group of people. He’d turn to me, “Tara, you remember the time.” “No Jock I met you in high school.” My statement was not good enough, so he continued saying, “Yes you were there because.” No Jock..”someone else jumps in to confirm what I said. He mutters to himself, scratching his head, “Hmm (in a much lowered tone) you fit in so well, I thought you were always around”
May his memory be a blessing to everyone who knew him.
Andrea, if there is anything you need, call me. I am often in the Dallas area.
May God be with you all.
Joanne Hoy-Hubbard
November 21, 2025
To Jock's family! We str so sorry to hear about the passing of Jock!. He lived his life with kindness and devotion for others. I attended middle and high school with both Jock and Andrea!
I am just heartbroken to hear this news. Jock was kind, funny, and determined!
May he rest in peace and knowing that he was loved by all! My Condolences, Prayers, and Sympathy! I pray that you all will embrace strength , and peace through your journey of grief.
Joanne, Terry, and Jack Hoy
OBryan Hardaway
November 20, 2025
Our deepest condolences from O’Bryan and Karla Hardaway. Coach Payten was a great mentor, friend, and colleague. We will be missed.
Gary and Joyt Gray
November 19, 2025
To the Payten family. We would like to extend our condolences to the whole family, but especially our dear friends, Jesse and Deborah Payten. We pray that his wonderful memories will last a lifetime. Continue to live your lives in the spirit of his legacy.
With sincere sympathy,
Garry and Joyt Gray
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Gary and Joyt Gray
November 19, 2025
To the Payten Family:
We extend our sincere condolences to all of the family. We especially extend our sympathy to our dear friends Jesse and Deborah Payten. We pray that his memories will last forever with you and your family. Continue to live your lives as bright as he did.
With sincere sympathy.
Gary and Joyt Gray
David & Robin Smith
November 18, 2025
Jesse, you and Deborah and your extended family have our deepest condolences. Praying for you all as God draws all of you closer to Himself through this time. Cherish sweet memories of times with your brother. We love you. Blessings.
Raymond Johnson
November 17, 2025
I love you very much, Cuz. You rest up there in heaven with mommy and dad and let everybody in the family know we’re gonna always keep it strong. Love you.
Larry Thomas
November 16, 2025
You will be truly missed my brother, and as you rest in God's arms, He will take care of your family. Larry Ray Thomas, your classmate and friend.
Helen Bell
November 16, 2025
Jock brought much joy as a special friend and my favorite tennis partner! My heart is saddened with his passing. I have great memories.
My love and condolences to Andrea and his wonderful family.
In God’s Grace,
Helen Bell
November 13, 2025
My condolence to the Payten’s family. I was heartbroken to Jock’s passing. Please know that you and the family are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you can find comfort in the love of family and friends Shirlene and Chester Armstrong and Duckett Family.
Patrice Garcia
November 13, 2025
Hello Lyrea & Family. May God bless you all in this time of sorrow. My deepest Sympathies.
Curtis Graves
November 13, 2025
I'm gonna miss you Jock, especially at the family reunions, your sweet spirit and joyful attitude was refreshing and pleasing to everyone. Love you and you will be truly missed. But I will see you again in the glory of our heavenly kingdom.
Shonda Black
November 12, 2025
My Condolences to Mr Payten’s family. He was such a kind man and always brought a smile to everyone. He will be missed.
Joyce McCray Pearson
November 12, 2025
You will be missed. So glad I saw you recently at our home in St. Louis, MO. Rest in peace dear friend. Well done good and faithful servant!
Barbara Allen
November 12, 2025
My deepest condolences for the family. You are in my thoughts and prayers
Bennie Brown
November 12, 2025
Condolences to the family. Jock you will be missed..
Gaby Pardo-Yescas
November 12, 2025
"We are deeply saddened by the passing of our Mr. Payten. His wisdom, kindness, and dedication touched countless lives, leaving behind a legacy of knowledge and compassion. May his soul rest in peace, and may his family and students find comfort in the memories and lessons they shared.
Kirk and Felicia Jackson
November 12, 2025
We didn't know Jock very long, but the time we had being in his presence was unmatched and loved!
We will miss you!
Kirk and Felicia Jackson
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