Mary Privette Holden was born in Middlesex, NC in the O’Neal Township
to Dossie and Beatrice Privette in 1940. She was the third oldest of seven
siblings. Mary attended Johnson Country Training School (J.C.T.S) and
graduated in 1958. She continued her education in California and obtained
a degree from Santa Ana Community College in Business Administration.
In 1960 she married the love of her life, United States Marine Willie Holden
Jr. As a military wife she lived in various places. Two of her favorites were
Hawaii and California. Mary loved to travel. One of her favorite destinations
was Africa.
Throughout her career, Mary used her charisma and charm to gain success,
especially in sales. In 1982 Mary was promoted to sales director with Mary
Kay cosmetics earning the coveted pink Cadillac. She also later became an
Elite Salesperson with Kay Jewelers
Mary loved family! She took pride in raising her daughter Deidra, and
grandsons Robert and Christian. She also loved her Pastor and church
family! She was a dedicated member at New Generations Christian Church
and was the First church Mother and served on the Mother Board. In 2013
she was recognized as a Mother of the year honoree for the Johnston
County Branch of the NAACP .
As much as she loved her family, she also loved her community and put that
love into action, volunteering for many years with “Preparing to Soar”, a
community outreach program supporting disadvantaged youth, and the
Local chapter of the North Carolina Democratic Party.
Mary leaves to cherish her memory, her Sister, Betty Joyner of Philadelphia,
PA, Daughter Deidra Johnson, Grandsons Robert Johnson and Christian
Lynch, two Goddaughters Della Mervin and Samanthia Cook, and a host of
other relatives and friends.
God saw you were getting tired, so, he wrapped his arms around you
and said, “come to me”
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
806 East Market St., Smithfield, NC 27577

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