Pamela Henderson Lowdermilk

Pamela Henderson Lowdermilk

Pamela Lowdermilk Obituary

Visit the Carter Funeral Home Ellerbe Chapel website to view the full obituary.

Pamela Henderson Lowdermilk, 73, of Rocky Point, North Carolina, passed away Monday, June 30, 2025 at her home.

Mrs. Lowdermilk was born February 13, 1952 in Richmond County, a daughter of the late Fred and Ethel Reynolds Henderson. She had retired from the US Postal Service after 21 years of service. In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her sister, Diane Wright.

Surviving are her husband of 48 years, Michael W. Lowdermilk and her daughter, Amanda Lowdermilk.

Funeral services will be at Noon Thursday, July 3, 2025 at Carter Funeral Home in Ellerbe. Interment will follow in Norman Cemetery.

The family will greet friends from 10:45 – 11:45 am Thursday at the funeral home.


To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Carter Funeral Home Ellerbe Chapel

143 E. Church St., Ellerbe, NC 28338

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