Patricia Lou Harms

Patricia Lou Harms obituary, Wilburton, OK

Patricia Lou Harms

Patricia Harms Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Jones-Harkins Funeral Home - Wilburton on Jun. 12, 2025.

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Patricia Lou Harms, 87, formerly of Wilburton, Oklahoma passed away on June 10, 2025 at her home in Tulsa.
A graveside funeral service will be held at 1:00 p.m. Saturday, June 14, 2025 at Mountain Station Cemetery, Higgins Community, Oklahoma. The burial will follow.
Patricia was born on March 17, 1938 in Dearborn, Michigan.
She lived her life by her faith in Jesus knowing she would be with Him when her time came. She looked forward to it. She loved her family and enjoyed spending time with them.
Patricia is survived by her children: Debra Nichter and husband, Kenneth, Diane Holmes and husband, Matt, Donald Harms and Genee, and Donna Harms; grandchildren: Kimberly Parrish and husband, Mike, Melissa Wise and husband, Tom, Lee Holmes and wife, Ashley, Jacob Holmes and wife, Amber, Andrew Holmes and wife, Ashley Ann, Christopher Harms, and Clinton Harms and Elizabeth; along with numerous great grandchildren that she loved.
She was preceded in death by her husband, Eugene Harms; and an infant son, James Harms.
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