Robert M. Hayes

Robert M. Hayes obituary, Carver, MA

Robert M. Hayes

Robert Hayes Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Shepherd Funeral & Cremation Service on Jul. 7, 2025.

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Robert M Hayes passed away peacefully surrounded by his loving family on Thursday July 3, 2025
Bob is preceded in death by his wife Kathryn (Moroney) Hayes of Pembroke. He is the father to 2 daughters and a devoted Grandfather to 3 grandchildren Daisy Mae, Dodge & Lillie.
He is survived by his loving sister Barbara (Hayes) Crispi and her husband Tony of Pembroke, MA. Also survived by his loving brother Bill Hayes and his wife Nancy, of Wareham MA,and sister Donna (Mason) and her husband Gerard of Plymouth MA. Bob was preceded in death by his brother Timmy who passed away in 2018. His also leaves his devoted girlfriend Gail Coughlin of Pembroke, MA. He loved Gail and they enjoyed gardening and great date nights at local restaurants. They enjoyed peaceful times on the gazebo sipping coffee and watching the deer in the backyard. He is survived by many nieces and nephews.
Bob was a successful business man owning his own software company Alpha Data Utilities for over 30 years.
He loved Gardening from a young boy into adulthood. He produced the best vegetable gardens full of tomato, corn, zucchini to name a few. He also loved saltwater fishing with his family and friends. Keno was a game he played and won several big jackpots. He was a great cook. He used a lot of Italian dishes from recipes from his grandmother also known as Nonna. He was a great carpenter. After buying 4 room home in Pembroke and added many additions and a huge 2 car garage. He loved his home and was always entertaining surrounded by family and friends. Lots of games of horseshoes, badminton, basketball, and swimming in his pool. Sagamore beach in Cape Cod was one of his favorite places. Bob rented several summer waterfront homes for his family and friends to come and enjoy. He was an animal lover and, in his lifetime, had many pets and several dogs that he loved dearly.
Services for Bob will be held at the Shepherd Funeral Home on Thursday, July 10th from 10 to 11:30am with a prayer service at 1130am, A burial at the Mt. Pleasant Cemetery in Pembroke will follow the service.

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JoAnn Hayes Byrnes

July 9, 2025

My father Robert Michael Hayes was married to his True Love Kathryn Moroney Hayes for 30 years until her tragic death at the young age of 51. He had two wonderful daughters he loved very much, my sister Linda Patrice Hayes and myself JoAnn Marie Byrnes. He loved and was loved his three Wonderful Grandchildren who will miss him dearly, Daisy
Mae Byrnes, Dodge Michael Byrnes, and Lilly Kathryn Byrnes. They were very disappointed they never got to say goodbye. He will be missed by all of us. At least we know he is with his true love and his youngest daughter again. This gives us a sense of peace and happiness for him. Goodbye Dad. I will always remember the good times!! Love you Always!!

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