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Beverly Ann Phalmer

1941 - 2025

Beverly Ann Phalmer obituary, 1941-2025, Olympia, WA

BORN

1941

DIED

2025

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Beverly Phalmer Obituary

Beverly Ann Phalmer

December 22, 1941 - May 17, 2025

Olympia, Washington - Beverly Ann Phalmer, born December 22, 1941 passed away at Providence St. Peter Hospital with her family by her side May 17, 2025. She was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, great grandmother, and friend. Born and raised on her parent's homestead in Bow, WA, she later moved to Olympia in 1971. Following retirement from DSHS after many years, she enjoyed her luncheon dates with old coworkers and friends. She also enjoyed volunteering at the food bank. Beverly was an avid Seattle sports fan and lover of most sports in general. She enjoyed talking/texting with her grandchildren during games discussing players and how Coach Beverly could do things more effectively. She always carried dog bones in her trunk. It wouldn't be uncommon to find a dog waiting patiently near Beverly's car where they knew there was a bottomless supply. Her love and dedication to her family will be incredibly missed. She was a faithful supporter of her grandkids and great grandkids; seldom absent from any game, concert, or activity they were involved with. It didn't matter if it was hours away or pouring down rain, Grandma Bev was there cheering them on.

She was preceded in death by her parents Arthur and Julia Johnson; her brother, Andrew; and her sister, Betty Lou.

She was survived by her husband of 53 years, James Phalmer; her siblings Shirley, Susan, Lyle, Carol, Barb, Marlys, and Kenny; her children Kristi Thompson (Perry) and Wendy Fuik (Roy); her stepchildren Laurie Himmelrick (Ken), Kristi Phalmer, and Kurt Phalmer (Alice); her grandchildren Nick (Maria), Lindsey, Taylor (Suzy), Kelsey (Bill), Ben, and Katie; and six great grandchildren.

A celebration of life will be held in the fall at Edison Lutheran Church. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to your local food bank.

"Mom, you left us beautiful memories. Your love is still our guide, although we cannot see you, you're always at our side."

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Published by The Olympian from May 29 to May 30, 2025.

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Bonnie Knudsen

August 5, 2025

Beverly was a neighbor of ours for 36 years however over the past few years we enjoyed her when she walked down our street. She connected with my husband through memories from the Skaget Valley. She was a lovely, friendly, lady. Beverly will be missed .

Tina king

June 27, 2025

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Connie

June 1, 2025

RIP Aunt Bev..
Give mom and Karen a hug for me..

Cathy Prentice

May 31, 2025

My dearest condolences to Bev´s family. She was my dear friend for 47 years. She was one of the greatest, most loving, kind, funny person I have ever known. She talked about her family all the time I knew her. Wendy, Kristi all the grand kids- I feel like I watched them all grow up through her sharing of stories. She was so giving to everyone around her. I am sure she is still watching over everyone from above. I´m sorry for your loss and I am sorry for the loss of my friend that I will so dearly miss every day for the rest of my life. And so sorry for your loss Jim, she always spoke of you with the utmost loving adoration. U 2 were such peas in a pod. Bless you, Bev you did so good with your time on this earth. Love always, Cathy Prentice (Seattle)

Mike Olson

May 30, 2025

So sorry to hear Bev passed away. I worked with her for several years, and she was such a great person, and it was so sweet of her to bring me krumkake at Christmas. I would wish her happy 17th of May, Norwegian independence Day, and now she passed away on the 17th of May. So sad.

Cherrie Johnson

May 30, 2025

Kristi and Wendy, I am so sad to hear this. Your mom was a wonderful lady and a big part of my growing up. I will never forget when she drove with us when Wendy had her permit and we would tell her to duck when we would see someone we knew and she always did. Sending you hugs and prayer as you navigate this difficult loss.

Judy smith

May 29, 2025

Bev was a big part of our life in younger years. Great memories. Rest in peace Bev. Judy and Al

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