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ERICA STILES Obituary

Erica Dawn Stiles Jan. 6,1965 ~ Sept. 6, 2012 Resident of Mountain View Erica, age 47 years passed away suddenly last Thursday. Erica is survived by her mother, Inga Stiles, her two children, Tara and Nikki Kapany, and her loving partner Brian Gomez. She also leaves behind many dear friends who loved her so much. Erica is an Acalanes High School graduate (1983) and a graduate of the University of California at Santa Barbara. Most recently, Erica and Brian started their own business, West Coast Classics and Customs in Sunnyvale. Erica's courage, honesty, humor, loyalty, and love will never be forgotten. A celebration of Erica's life will be held on Sunday, September 16th at the Lafayette Orinda Presbyterian Church at 3:00 pm. (49 Knox Drive Lafayette). Memorial contributions are preferred to: The Breast Cancer Foundation of Northern California 652 Petaluma Ave Sebastopol, Ca. 95472.

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Published by Contra Costa Times on Sep. 11, 2012.

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Sylvie Allione

March 8, 2013

A family friend recently told us of Erica's passing. Erica and I were children when we met in 1974 at Vallecito Elementary. We spoke different languages so instead of words, we smiled at eachother a lot. I will never forget her smile. She was a very bright light and brought me much happiness during a very difficult transition in my young life. She was my friend and accepted me for all the ways in which I was different. When I think back to those years, I always see her smiling face, her kind eyes, and her beautiful blond hair. She will always live in my heart and my childhood memories. Inga, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family.

Curt Bianchi

November 8, 2012

I am deeply saddened to learn of Erica's passing. My condolences to her family.

Anita "Pinky" Migliore

October 22, 2012

The last time I saw Erica I had such a warm visit with her as she showed me all the exciting improvments to the shop. What I remember the most was her pausing to let me know how much she appreciated my friendship as a fellow "car girl". That meant so much to me.
Her kindness will be greatly missed. My thoughts & prayers are with her loved ones at this difficult time.

Barb schick

September 16, 2012

I will always cherish my childhood memories growing up with Erica and our summers we spent together. She was such an inspiration and a beautiful person inside and out.

joyce kost

September 15, 2012

dear inga, i can't even find words to say how deeply i sympathize with your loss. what a heart wrenching tragedy. you are in my prayers constantly. joyce

Maria Trujillo

September 14, 2012

I am really sorry, Erica I am going to miss you, you will be always in my prayers. My condolences to all the family. She is Angel now sitting next to God <3

Marilyn Talken

September 14, 2012

My memories of Erica are of a very sweet, loving girl. Being around her made everyone feel happy. I was very fortunate to be her 4th grade teacher at Vallecito. May your memories help comfort you.

Carolyn Duckworth

September 13, 2012

My heart is very heavy hearing about the loss of Erica. I have wonderful childhood memories of Erica from Vallecito, Girl Scouts, high School , and seeing her on several occasions in S.F. in the 80s. I remember her smile, laugh,and fun sense of humor. Sending thoughts of strength and love to Inga and family. Erica certainly made an impact in many lives. Much Love!

Barbara and Dave Wibbelsman

September 13, 2012

Words cannot express the sadness we feel for your lost. Erica was such a beautiful person.
She will always live in our heart.

Kristen McKee

September 13, 2012

So very sorry for your loss. Such a wonderful soul taken from this world way too soon. She is an angel watching over you all now. She will always be by your side. My sincere condolences. <3

September 12, 2012

Dear Inga, no words can express how sorry I am for you loss. She was such a lovely girl. May God bless you and your family at this difficult time. Love and prayers, Lauretta Geary

Wendy Gregson

September 12, 2012

We were so very sorry to hear the tragic news about Erica - our thoughts and love go out to the family -- Erica will be missed by so many people who loved her -- she was an incredible person and an inspiration.

suzi bondanza-iribarne

September 12, 2012

my prayers go out to erica's family. we went to grades school through high school together. she was very nice. so sad.

Laura Ness

September 12, 2012

Our hearts go out to all of Erica's family and friends. This is such a tragedy. We only met Erica recently, but we were so touched by her sweet spirit and honest warmth. A very special lady. She will be much-missed.
In sympathy,
Laura & Greg

Manjit Kapany

September 11, 2012

Inga: We are heartbroken. We loved Erica so much. She was such a beautiful person, inside and out. She lives on in our hearts.

September 11, 2012

So very sorry to hear of this tragedy. Prayers to the family. Kristin Flax

Barb Schick

September 11, 2012

Such a horrible tragedy, I am so sorry. Erica was such an amazing person, she will always have a very special place in my heart and will be dearly missed by everyone she touched.

JJ Carter Buchanan

September 11, 2012

Inga.
My heart is broken for you and hope that going forward the wonderful memories of Erica and all she was will help you through each day. I will always remember with fondness our road trip to ASU where we started our Freshman year together. Sincerely, JJ Carter Buchanan

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