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Danford Barney Obituary

Danford Newton Barney V "Dan" passed away peacefully in his home on February 19th, surrounded by his loving family, following a massive heart attack from which he was unable to recover. He was a native of Colorado.



In 1978 Dan joined the Army and soon after became a Green Beret- which many people who met him later in life did not know. He served for 20 years as a Special Forces Medic and Paramedic in locations including Honduras, Bosnia, Desert Storm, Provide Comfort, Turkey, Iraq, Poland, East and West Germany, Norway and Canada, retiring at the rank of 1SG. Some of the most exciting times for Dan were his years at the USMLM in Berlin, Germany. After retiring from his Special Forces career, Dan obtained a Master's degree in Psychology and has been a Hospice Counselor for the past 15 years working with Hospice of the Comforter, Pikes Peak Hospice and Evercare Hospice. He took great pride in advocating for patients and families at end of life and supporting them to ensure their wishes were met and their quality of life and dignity preserved. He would be so very proud of the many friends and co-workers at Evercare Hospice who did the same for him.

Dan has always been an amazingly supportive Husband, Father, Grandfather and Friend. He brought a rapier wit to each situation with a unique and lovable sense of humor.

He is survived by his wife and best friend of 30 years Lori, his son Danford Newton Barney VI "Danny" (Alana), daughter Jessica (Matt), grandchildren Braydon, Sammy, Gracie and Zully, mother Lily Anne Watson, brother Andrew Barney (Tara), nephews Zach and Jacob, Step Mother Penny Barney and his beloved dog Henry.

Preceded in death by his father Danford N. Barney IV, Step Father Harold Watson and Sisters Rebecca and Sarah.

A Celebration of Life will be held on March 8, 2014 at 1:00pm at The Cheyenne Mountain Zoo.

Please send donations in lieu of flowers or food to The Cheyenne Mountain Zoo, Colorado Wolf and Wildlife Center, Mercy Flight or National Hospice Foundation in his honor.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Gazette on Mar. 2, 2014.

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Lisa Owen Upton

December 18, 2023

Dan and I served in the Army together. We met November 1979 while we were both assigned to HHB 72nd Field Artillery Brigade at Peden Barracks in Wertheim Germany. We worked together on the Nuclear Surety Inspection Team. Dan was a good friend and was instrumental in my receiving the Army Commendation Medal. Many hugs to his family.

Neil Larson

March 16, 2014

I was a Co-worker with Dan in Germany in 1980 Augsburg Vii Corps Artillery Command HQ , his deep harmony for life magnetized those around him. My most compassionate sorrow is given to the family. Even after 34 years Danford Newton Barney comes to mind with many fond memories of our time together in the Army.

March 6, 2014

Lori and family, you are in my thoughts are prayers. Terry Zelenak

March 5, 2014

Dear Lori and Family, Please accept Lorraine and my deepest condolences. Cherished memories from our time spent together in Bad Tolz will last forever. Look forward to linking up with you on the drop zone again someday, Dan. Rest in Peace, brother. DOL

James Foster

March 5, 2014

Dan was one of the best Soldiers I ever worked with and will be missed dearly, our condolences to Lori and family. Godspeed Dan. James and Dorte Foster

Dwight Umstead

March 5, 2014

Dear Lori & Family,
I am very sorry for your loss. I had the great honor to work with Dan in Bad Tolz, Stuttgart and Colorado Springs, I always considered him a friend. Our families prayers go out to you. Dwight

Ann-Keve Blackburn

March 4, 2014

Dear Lori and Family, We are so saddened to hear of your loss. Dan was a special man with a great sense of humor. We will always remember your family as our Tolz stairwell family.
You are all in our hearts and prayers. May his memory be eternal!
Love, Randy, Annie,
Mark, danielle, and Jordyn Blackburn

Cathy Berreie

March 3, 2014

Such a loss to family, friends, animals! His legacy will live on through those lives he changed for the better.

March 3, 2014

Lori and kids, each day I pray for you and ask God to provide you with peace and comfort. May His Grace be yours during this time. Lin Howland

Sharen & Mark Kempton

March 3, 2014

Dear Lori & Family,
We are saddened over the loss of Dan. What a difference this good man made in the lives of many. If you were fortunate to know Dan you are Blessed. Our world won't be the same without him, but the next world has gained one GREAT Of A Soul! Until we meet again "Coach Barney"...
Lori, may you find Peace and Comfort through the Friends and Family that encircle you.

Robin Fraser

March 3, 2014

Dearest Lori and family - as I have walked through the past couple of weeks in only imagining what you are going through, my heart was and is filled with sadness at the loss of such a wonderfully kind and generous gentleman and fellow paratrooper. Dan touched my heart as a co-worker at Evercare Hospice and allowed me to continue on my journey of letting go of those who were in my care for a time and allowed me to hand over those patients to him as they came into hospice. Two different times stay close to my heart. Both times, it became obvious due to circumstances that it would be a couple of days before these people were admitted so I followed them with the heart that I have always had for hospice. Once they signed their admission papers, both times, Dan physically met me where I was with the patient and verbally said, "Robin, you have done your best. Now it is time for me to take over." He gave me the gift of permission to let go knowing that the rest of the team, starting with him, would be right there for this very precious patient that needed us at that time. Thank you, Dan Barney, for always showing me that you would take the baton/torch and be there for the patient and their family as I went onto the next person. What a gift you were to me, the Evercare team, the healthcare community and to all the patients and families who were blessed to have you as their social worker. I thank God for you and look forward to the day I see you again in heaven. To Lori and family, as I am sure you know, what a special husband, father, grandfather and all other hats he wore you had. My prayer is that you take comfort in the memories that you have and that each memory will give you a smile as bright as Dan's always was. Fondly

Tom Coxe

March 3, 2014

To the Barney family, so sad that Sarah went in 2012 and now Dan, They will be reunited together!

Shelli Crippen

March 3, 2014

Lori and Andrew and family so sorry for your loss. Danny was my step brother as Andrew is. Haven't ever got the chance to meet the rest of the family. But Danny was so great to my brother and I when we were kids and met our step bros and sisters. He made an impact on my life back then.I pray for everyone that you all know he's in heaven w the rest of his family and they are watching over all of us.

Kate Powell

March 2, 2014

Dan will be forever loved and missed by all who were touched by him. My deepest sympathies to Lori and the kids during this most devastating time. Thanks you Dan for your smile, knowledge, and kindness. Godspeed.

Kay and John Hertel

March 2, 2014

Dan will always be remembered with a smile on his face. He was such a kind and supportive coach to Shawn when we first moved to town. We are so very sorry for your loss.

Miguel Rodriguez

March 2, 2014

Dan was a great person and will be missed. Condolences to the family. DOL Dan!

Anne Kidd

March 2, 2014

Dan and Lori impressed me as a couple who lived life with intentional purpose and a will to make a positive difference in this world. Dan was a great person. It was my privilege to know the Barneys. I wish Lori and the family peace, comfort, and a sense of knowing they are deeply loved by friends and family during this time of loss and transition.

Bill & Dottie Gessner

March 2, 2014

Lori, our deepest sympathies in this tragic time. Dan was an amazing man and a good friend. We will miss his humor and positive outlook on all things. We know that he is with God now. May God hold you in the hollow of his hand.

Molly Thomson

March 2, 2014

My deepest sympathy to Lori and her children. What a wonderful, loving family. Dan and Lori are great examples for everyone. Please take care.

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