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THOMAS MICHAEL SPILLANE
September 16, 1947 June 16, 2019
Thomas Michael Spillane was born on September 16, 1947, at Walter Reed Army Hospital in Washington D.C. to parents John Henry Spillane and Margaret Mary Ruddy Spillane. Tom passed away suddenly from wounds sustained from a fall on Fathers Day, June 16, 2019, in St. George, UT. He was a 1965 graduate of Archbishop Hoban High School in Akron, OH, and a graduate of Troy State University in Alabama. He married Brenda Whitaker of San Diego, CA, on December 19, 1970, and they loved each other through 49 years of marriage and a 21-year military career with the Army. The Spillane's have 12 children, 60 grandchildren, and 3 great-grandchildren. Tom is preceded in death by his parents and younger brothers, Patrick and Anthony. He lived on this earth and lives still as an eternal optimist. A memorial service will be held at The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints located at 2750 Melissa Drive in Colorado Springs, CO, Sunday evening, June 23, 2019, at 7pm.
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Linda Atkinson
June 29, 2019
Our hearts are grieved at your loss. He was such an outgoing, cheerful, and honorable man, truly one of the greats. He has led your family in such an exemplary way and he will be greatly missed. It is always a joy to see any of you and our thoughts and prayers are for your comfort through this time of separation. What a happy reunion there will be! Until then, we love you and send our sincere condolences.--Love, Dan and Linda Atkinson
Dave Peters
June 27, 2019
To Brenda and the Spillane family,
I am sorry to hear of Tom's passing. He will be remembered as a wonderful husband, father and friend.
Rachel Munk
June 24, 2019
The memorial was a wonderful tribute to an exceptional man. His family is clearly comforted by their knowledge of the plan of salvation. He has left a great legacy of love and service.
Jean Ottley
June 23, 2019
Brenda, so very sorry to read about Tom.
you are in my prayers. I know that you will receive the comfort that you need. We are not left alone. Dave has been gone for four years and I am so grateful for the Gospel in my life and thr comfort it brings.May you keep your wonderful memories in your heart always.
Jean Ottley
Stefani Karlsson
June 22, 2019
Dearest Brenda and Children. My heart is broken for your loss. Tom was a wonderful man, always a kind smile and a friendly word. I know he will be sorely missed by you all. We love you and pray for you!. Love Stefani Boam Karlsson and the Boam Family.
Renee Broyles
June 21, 2019
Brenda and family, I send my heartfelt condolences at this difficult time. Tom was a gracious and kind man who will long be remembered for his love of all of you and those who were lucky enough to work with him. Praying for your comfort and strength.
Marie Smith
June 21, 2019
John I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. I met your brother while visiting my husband. Got to know Tom and talked to him. He is missed.
November 2004 ~Fun Memory
Rexene Robbins
June 20, 2019
To the wonderful Spillane Family we share in your loss of your husband, father, grandfather and friend ~ to us all.
Tom was always so kind, fun and positive. He was young and wonderful! He has been called home to serve a special mission. We will miss him ~ Till we meet again. Rexene and Roy Robbins Colorado Springs.
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