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Bernilda Mascarenas Obituary

On Saturday July 22, 2006, this world lost a wonderful Mother, Mother-in-Law, Sister, Sister-in-Law, Grandmother, Aunt, Godmother and friend in Bernilda "Bernie" Mascarenas. Mrs. Mascarenas was born June 20, 1924 in Las Vegas, NM to Pete and Marguerite Montoya. She grew up in Las Vegas, NM and moved to Rocky Ford where she finished school. Bernie married her beloved Joe in Raton, NM in 1945. They celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary in 1995 with a large gathering of family and friends. From this union seven children were born: Kenneth (Kelly), David (Betty), Timothy, Steven and Joe, Jr. Mascarenas and Elaine (Jim) Stemen and Marguerite Trimble. She is also survived by 13 grandchildren and 14 great-grandchildren. Her parents, husband, son Tim, brothers Ben and Vincent Montoya and granddaughter Linda Larson preceded her in death. Mrs. Mascarenas meant so much to so many. She is a true representation of what all people strive to be. She had unconditional love for all her children and, if they were asked who mom loved best, each one would say, "ME". Mrs. Mascarenas made all who knew her feel special. Her love for her family was unending and, even in her last hours, her concern was for her family, not herself. A visitation will be from 5-7:00 p.m. on Tuesday, July 25, 2006 at the Shrine of Remembrance Funeral Home. Funeral Services will be at 2:00 p.m. on Wednesday at Jordan's Crossing Apostolic Church, 628 N. Circle Drive, Colorado Springs, CO 80909. In lieu of flowers, cards of sympathy may be sent to the family. Our lives will never be the same without mom, but we know that because of her faith, she is with her Heavenly Father and holding her loved ones near.

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Published by The Gazette on Jul. 25, 2006.

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Sam Mancini

August 24, 2006

Remember all, she's still with us, always. She will continue to touch our lives even now. My love and my prayers.

steven sanchez

August 6, 2006

My deepest sympathy to Tim and all the family. I am sorry for your loss.

Steven M Sanchez

Todd Trimble

August 1, 2006

I'm soooo very sorry to get names mixed up..My deepest appologies go out to Ken,And The rest of our family..I Am sooo sorry ya'll..I meant for grandma to hug Timmy for me..

Todd Trimble

July 31, 2006

Man I can't even see the screen through all of my tears..Some beautiful words and words of wisdom were put on these pages.Grandma you may be gone..but the legacy that you and grandpa put on this earth will abound forever.We will live our lives to honor your memory..i know that is what you'd want..The memories i have of you will ALWAYS be with me..You are in a better place..Please watch over us all as I know you will,

your loving grandson"Toddy"

P.S. Give Grandpa,Linda,and Ken a big ol' hug for me please:)

Karen mcgrath

July 31, 2006

Joe, Pima Medical Institute's staff and faculty want you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours during this time. Karen McGrath, Shirley Jelmo

Troy Trimble

July 31, 2006

Grandma, the world will not be the same without you! You showed us what it met to be a family, loving and caring for all of us. I have so many great memories of you. I remember when I went home this summer, how I could not wait to go to your house to see you, or when you told me that you did not want your picture taken; but I am glad that I did.



You raised wonderful children, and that shows in you grandchildren, and your great-grandchildren. As time went on I went out into this world to make a life for me; but always keeping the most precious thing near and dear to my heart, and that was my family. You showed us that friends will come and go, but your family will always be there.



It has been a rough week knowing that you are not here anymore. I am so grateful that I was able to see you one more time, and even more appreciative to the lord that my children will always know who you are. Our family will continue to grow, and as it does, I know the photo albums will come out and the stories will start; and they too will know you, grandpa, uncle Tim, and our cousin Linda, and what special people you all are to us.



My comfort is knowing that the physical life that we have on this earth, although, very precious is within a minuet piece of time in comparison to all eternity.



I love you very much



You’re Grandson

Troy



PS let Grandpa have the extra egg now

July 30, 2006

how lucky i am to have this pic

July 30, 2006

BUD STEARNS

July 29, 2006

SORRY I COULDNOT BE WITH YOU. MY HEART&THOUGHTS WERE WITH YOU.MAY THE LORD HOLD HELP ALL AT THIS TIME.

LOVE BUD

Tila Vasquez

July 27, 2006

Grandma, I love you more than words can say. We miss you and love you very much and wish that you were still here on earth with us. I know that you are in a better place. Where you suffer no more and are at peace. The loss that we feel is so great. You were such a beautiful and strong person. We are so blessed to have known you.



I thought it was so cute how you would race down the hall with your walker. I would call you my “super trooper” because you would have such a beautiful smile even though you may have been very tired or in pain. You sure had a sweet tooth. I remember one night we shared a bowl of ice cream. Just thinking about it makes me smile. I really enjoyed the times as a child when the family would gather for special occasions. The Easter egg hunts were so much fun. I remember the crochet dolls that you made for us were so beautiful. These memories along with many more will be cherished forever.



When you were in the hospital you had asked that Tammy and I sing for you when you went home. I’m sorry we never had that chance. I take comfort in believing that angels along with my dad are singing for you now.



You always made me feel loved. I am very thankful that I had the opportunity to tell you how much I loved you before you left this earth. I know that some people were not able to see you at the end of your life but I believe you could feel their love.



I am so happy and honored to be your granddaughter. I will always love you and you will always be in my heart.



Love,

Tila

Yvette Stemen

July 27, 2006

Dear Grandma,

Im writing this to you to tell you how I feel...I love you very much and Im gonna miss your laugh,your smile,your love and your style...you always looked so cute in your little Indian braids.Im really gonna miss seeing you and you asking how I've been.I remember you were so happy when i had my Quinceanera,because it was the first one you had ever been to,I hope you liked it and had fun and I wish you could be at my sisters next year.But I know you'll be there in spirit and in our hearts. I saw you almost every day in the hospital and im really glad i did. I was there in ER the night befor you passed and I hope you know I was there for you and I will always remember and miss you lots. And now I say see you later grandma i love you for its never really good bye..Ill be seeing you in heaven when its my turn to fly.

Love Always,

Yvette

Tina Stemen

July 26, 2006

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006

Jeffory Fisher ( Tamara's Fiance)

July 26, 2006

My condolences go out to the entire family. I only met her twice but i could tell she was a great woman. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

MARJI TRIMBLE

July 25, 2006

WELL MOM YOUR FINALLY AT PEACE,AND I,AM HAPPY FOR YOU.DON,T MEAN I CAN,T MISS YOU OR LOVE YOU EVEN MORE AND I KNOW YOU KNOW HOW MUCH.WHEN I WAS WITH YOU WHEN YOU TOOK YOU LAST BREATH IT HURT,BUT I COULD SEE THE HAPPINESS IN YOUR EYES AND THE GLOW AROUND YOU.I WILL NEVER FORGET THE AMAZING LADY WHO YOU ARE,AND THE WAY YOU RAISE 7 OF US.I JUST HOPE I MADE YOU AS PROUD AS I MADE MY SONS.THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR BEING MY MOTHER.YOUR LOVEING,DAUGHTER.MARGUERITE[MARJI]T

RIMBLE

Ken Mascarenas

July 25, 2006

Grandma! I just cannot believe you are gone. You never got the chance to meet your new great-granddaugter. Rachel (my wife) and I wanted so badly to make it out for the Fourth of July but couldn't due to money constraints. I cannot even attend your funeral due to bad times and I feel like scum. I miss you more than life itself and I hurt. I hurt so bad not being able to say goodbye to you! You always made me feel welcome. I will always remember pulling into town and up to the house and you coming outside to greet us. You'd always have a smile and say, "Junior!" and give me the biggest hug. I cry happy tears knowing now that you're with grandpa. You're happy! Tell Linda, Uncle Tim, and Grandpa I said Hi! I love you so much and I will NEVER forget you! You were somebody I could always look forward to seeing! I will see you someday and I hope you will once again greet me with open arms and the sweet sound of "Junior!" I love you! You're grandson - Ken Mascarenas Jr.

David Thompson

July 25, 2006

Holly, Glen, Michael and I send our deepest sympathy in this time of loss. Mrs. Mascarenas always made me feel as if I was part of the family when I would come over with her grandson. She will be greatly missed. May God Bless and be with the family and friends who are mourning her passing.

Nicole Trujillo

July 25, 2006

James, Tina, girls and the whole family.. so sorry for your loss. Just find comfort in the fact that she is at peace and now with her hubby. I know the heartache she was going through without him, I see it in my own grandma. My thoughts and prayers are with you! Love you much!!!!!!

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