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Howell Estes

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2024

Howell Estes Obituary

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Howell Estes
December 16, 1941
March 18, 2024

General Howell M. Estes, III, USAF Retired, died March 18, 2024 of old age. He was 82 at the time of his death.
General Estes was born in San Antonio, TX on December 16, 1941, the first of three sons to parents General Howell M. Estes, Jr. from Fort Oglethorpe, GA and Anna Holcomb Verbeck from Syracuse, NY. Since his father was in the U.S. military, he travelled extensively in his youth living in Wiesbaden, Germany immediately following World War II; Montgomery, AL; Riverside, CA; Albuquerque, NM; Los Angeles, CA; Washington, D.C.; and Belleville, IL.
His high school years were spent at The Manlius School in Manlius, NY where he struggled with academics, taking five years to graduate. Even then, he had to attend The Millard School in the hills near Langlois, OR to get his college board scores high enough to be accepted at the college of his choice. In April 1961, he accepted a nomination to the U.S. Air Force Academy where, as a member of the Class of 1965, he again proved he wasn't an academic genius graduating on June 9, 1965 in the top 90% of his class. He would say his greatest accomplishment at the Academy was being named the captain of the basketball team his senior year. Speaks volumes.
From the Academy, it was off to pilot training at Moody AFB, GA. A year later he transitioned into his first fighter - the F-4C at MacDill AFB, FL. Moving to Seymour Johnson AFB, NC in 1966 he began his career as an operational fighter pilot, first as an F-4E backseater and shortly thereafter, as a front seat pilot. He flew 169 combat missions in the F-4E out of Korat RTAFB, Thailand during the Southeast Asia Conflict (1969). Then he was sent to a dream assignment at Soesterberg AB, The Netherlands (1970), the land of windmills, tulips, bike paths, and incredible cheese. It was extra special because the base was very near a city called Zeist, which was the birthplace of his great, great grandfather, Guido H. F. Verbeck, who in the late 1800s, as a Christian missionary, was instrumental in assisting Japan's move from a feudal society to the country we know today.
Following the Soesterberg assignment, he spent time at the Headquarters U.S. Air Force Europe, first as a weapons and tactics officer at Lindsey AS, Germany (1972) and later as a command briefer at Ramstein AB, Germany (1973). Following graduation from Air Command and Staff College at Maxwell AFB, AL in 1975, he paid the price for many years of operational flying by being assigned to the Air Staff at the Pentagon in Washington, D.C. From there he moved to George AFB, CA in 1979 where he served as a fighter squadron commander, a maintenance squadron commander, and a deputy commander for maintenance of a fighter wing. After enjoying sunny southern California, it was back to Washington, D.C., first attending the National War College at Ft. McNair in 1983 and then returning to the Pentagon as an AF planner. As luck would have it, that staff assignment was only 8 months long. In 1984 he took command of one of nation's most top secret units, the 4450th Tactical Group at Nellis AFB, NV, which was charged with bringing online the nation's first operational stealth fighter - the F-117A. He said many times this was the most exciting, challenging, and rewarding assignment of his entire Air Force career.
Next came a string of assignments starting in 1986 as a Special Assistant to the Chief of Staff to the Supreme Headquarters Allied Powers Europe (SHAPE), Mons, Belgium; Commander 14th Air Division, Beale AFB, CA (1987); three assignments at Strategic Air Command, Offutt AFB, NE culminating in the Deputy Chief of Staff for Operations, a position held during the first Gulf War (1991); Assistant Deputy Chief of Staff Plans and Operations, the Pentagon (1991); Commander 7th AF and Deputy Commander-in-Chief United Nations Command, Osan AB, Republic of Korea (1992); Director of Operations, the Joint Staff, the Pentagon (1994); and Commander-in-Chief North American Aerospace Defense and U.S. Space Command and commander of Air Force Space Command, Peterson AFB, CO (1996). General Estes retired from the U.S. Air Force on October 1, 1998.
He then started a new phase of his life as the president of Howell Estes Associates where he served on the boards of the Aerospace Corporation, Analytical Graphics, Space Foundation, DigitalGlobe, and MAXAR Technologies. He also was a consultant to Northrup Grumman (16 years) and ITT (8 years).
Once fully retired, he could be found visiting family, enjoying a basketball game, riding his mountain bike, reading the Wall Street Journal, or just putting his feet up thinking about the life he was privileged to have lived.
General Estes is survived by his wife Karen and his three children: Howell M. Estes, IV living with his wife Chrissy and their children Cason, Hayden, and Reagan in TN; Susan V. Estes in VA and her children Ryan and Kalyn; and Jordan L. Estes who lives where ever he wants.
A private service for General Estes will be held at the Verbeck Gravesite in the Manlius Village Cemetery, Manlius, NY. Instead of sending flowers, please help a student in need by contributing to the Verbeck Scholarship at the Manlius Pebble Hill School, 5300 Jamesville Road, Syracuse, NY 13214.

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Published by The Gazette on Mar. 23, 2024.

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Cathy Hudock

May 4, 2025

I had the privilege of working with General Estes when he was a Major General in the Pentagon in 1991. He was a wonderful boss and quite the gentleman. When he made his third star he tracked me down in the pentagon and sent me a beautiful arrangement of flowers with a note. Thanking me for helping him make a promotion. Then when he made his fourth star, he tracked me down again in the pentagon and sent me another beautiful arrangement of flowers with the same note thanking me for helping him make his promotion. I would´ve never thought being his secretary I would have anything to do with him getting a future promotion! But like I said, he was quite the gentleman. I worked for many generals while I was having my career at the Pentagon. He was one of the best! My sincere condolences to his current wife and his family members. I know you must be missing him. May he rest in peace.

Jason

April 18, 2025

General Estes was instrumental in getting me an assignment change when I discovered my dad was dying. I had met with him about another matter and I brought up to him that I would be seeking a humanitarian assignment. He told me to give my information
to his assistant and the next day I had orders. Amazing. He was such a kind and humble man. My condolences to the family but I hope you will find great comfort in knowing that he made a difference in the world.

Phyllis Bellamy

March 15, 2025

It's been almost a year. Not too many days go by that I do not think of Howell and my dad. My dad has passed on as well. I know he and Howell are at peace. I'll always remember the friendship they shared. Sending prayers and hugs to Howell's friends and family. To God be the glory!

McKinley Smith

November 30, 2024

General Estes was my DCM at George
AFB in California. I was a young airman but I admired him for his leadership and demeanor. My condolences to the family.
A job well done by a good and faithful servant

TSgt Raymond E Jones, ret.

September 3, 2024

I served with General Estes at George AFB as his squadron legal person in the 35th EMS until 1981. Sorry for the family loss. He was a great Commander.

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Carolyn D Estes

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LTG Patrick M. Hughes

July 1, 2024

To The General's Family and Friends: It was my great honor and professional enjoyment and fulfillment to have served as the J-2 (Intelligence), Office of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, and a counterpart to General Estes, during his service there as the J-3 (operations). For those who know of the dynamic between the ops officer and the intel officer, this could have gone south at any time -- but it did not. I will always look back on this period of our shared service as one of the most intense and demanding positions outside of direct combat. Our relationship was exceptional. We both listened and we both had our say on the complex issues of the time, we worked for some of the most demanding luminaries of the Pentagon back then, and we were a team on nearly every occasion. I attribute any success we had -- in large measure -- to his patience and his gentlemanly approach. He was a fine man and the best partner a lowly old soldier could ever ask for. General, we'll see each other again at the next rally point. I know you'll be flying cover for me whenever we meet. Montana 6 out!

Donaldo Hart, 2nd Lt.

June 4, 2024

My condolences to all Howel's family and friends. I was a cadet at Manlius while Howel was there, and I certainly remember him as an impressive person and a remarkable cadet leader.

Judge Bert Richardson

April 28, 2024

In 1971-72 my dad, Lt. Col Marlin Richardson (in the picture at CNA), was Deputy Commander at Soesterberg/CNA. Capt. Estes (at the time) and his family had just moved there from their last assignment. As a nerdy 15 year old, all of the younger pilots were like larger than life to me , especially Capt. Estes, he towered over all of them. My Dad used to say when "Howell" would come into his office he would tell him to have a seat and then he would stand up so they would be eye to eye! lol At some point I was asked to babysit his kids and my dad told me - "His Dad is a 4 Star General, don't screw this up!" Apparently I did ok, because sometime later, being an avid photographer, I was asked to photograph his kids. Somewhere buried in my 1000s of pictures since then, those negatives still exist! Over the years I would occasionally see him on TV after some high profile mission the USAF had conducted and I would always remember I used to babysit his kids. What a remarkable career and person. And I loved the obit.

Bob & Stephanie Smith

April 25, 2024

We too just learned Howell passed away. We both just loved Howell. What a great privilege to have him live across from us in Saddle Brooke, AZ. He was so interesting to listen to. We also got to meet Karen and you could see it was meant to be. Our deepest sympathy to Karen and the Estes family.

Brenda & Steven Nord

April 24, 2024

We just found out that Howell passed away. He lived across the street from us in Tucson AZ for a short time. He was a kind and fascinating man. We also had the privilege of meeting Karen before they moved to California. Our deepest sympathies to Karen and the entire Estes family.

Mary Verbeck Pomeroy

April 2, 2024

Best memory is the 1st time we met... I was 3 1/2 and Howell was 1 1/2... I was so thrilled to have a cousin! And he was so cute ...We tore around all day and a lot of the night and didn't go to sleep well... Howell Sr was not pleased !! He suggested to my Father I needed to be reined in... not going to happen said my Father..and it never did!! X's to you all Mary Jordan Verbeck Pomeroy

Dick Vogel

April 1, 2024

A superb leader and outstanding fellow office.
My heartfelt sympathy to the family.
Dick Vogel, class mate, NWC, 1983

Alan Marcum

March 31, 2024

I met Gen. Estes at a high school reunion, on the way out to Nellis AFB for a tour. We happened to sit next to each other on the bus going to the base, and spent the time amiably talking about what we each flew and had flown. Only afterward did I realize the extent of his career and accomplishments.

May his memory be for a blessing.

Jim Dunaway

March 28, 2024

I was privileged to know General Estes when I was Head of Manlius Pebble Hill School, his Alma Mater. On a number of occasions we exchanged views, in person and via email, about the School as well as other topics of interest to us. He was always gracious, warm, thoughtful, and down to earth, and he cared deeply about the School and his family´s deep roots there. I send my condolences to his family.

Scott Schafer

March 28, 2024

Howie and I were on the Basketball team during our years at USAFA. First Class year he was Team Captain and led us well during the dark days of the cheating scandal, measurably improving my life as Manager and Bob Spear's life as Coach . Third Class year he rode along with me to Missouri where we each visited beautiful ladies. I think he was in pain most of the way as I had the seat forward so I could reach the pedals and that left little room for his long legs. He was a good man and a good officer. My condolences to the family.

Tom Berto

March 26, 2024

I knew Howell briefly, as his interviewer for the Library of Congress Veteran's History project. Howell displayed great recall, patience, and intelligence during the process of preparing for and doing the interview. He had a way of providing information that was clear, brief, yet non-condescending. Rest in peace, sir.

Col. Jett Crouch, USAF (Ret)

March 26, 2024

My wife Kay and I send our deepest condolences to General Estes family. I first came to learn of his leadership and mentorship qualities when I was fortunate enough to serve under his Command when he took command of the 4450th Tac Group, the then highly secret F-117 Stealth Fighter Program based out of Tonopah Test Airfield in Nevada. He led the program at a very critical time in achieving Operational Capabilities for the unit. I was lucky enough to once again serve under General Estes when he was the Commander of 7th Air Forces, Korea while I was a Squadron Commander of the 35th Fighter Squadron at Kunsan AB, Korea. I can honestly say that I have not met a finer Commander than General Estes. His calm demeanor, his smile and his Command presence was a natural trait he always exhibited. I will always be thankful that I was able to have him as a Commander twice. A true Gentleman, Leader, Fighter Pilot and Warrior. Sir, you will be missed but your legacy will continue with those who had the privilege of serving under your guidance. Your job on this earth is now complete but you can rest easy knowing your endeavors here will always be remembered as JOB WELL DONE!!
Col. Jett Crouch, USAF (Ret)
Gulf Breeze, Fl

Maggie Van Dyke

March 25, 2024

If my memory is correct, General Estes joined the board in 1998; the same year as Dr. Richard Balzhiser and General Tom Moorman. General Estes was an incredible add to our board. I will always remember him with great admiration and fond memories.

Lt Col Claude Dallas

March 25, 2024

My sincere condolences to his family. I'm eternally grateful for his wise counsel when he presented my USAFA appointment at MPH commencement and then commissioned me 4 years later into the AF. He was a great man and great leader. His influence in service to our nation cannot be overstated.

Wendell Ward

March 25, 2024

I flew several combat missions with Howell out of Korat Royal Thai Airbase, Thailand. He was an outstanding fighter pilot and a good friend. It was an honor to have served with him. Wendell Ward, Colonel USAF (Retired).

Tina Morgan

March 25, 2024

I was very sorry to learn of Howell's passing. I got to know General Estes when I worked for the alumni office of his high school. Howell personified the school motto, Manners Makyth Man." Howell cared deeply for his family, friends and the legacy school of his great-grandfather General William Verbeck. He spent years serving our nation and we owe him a debt of gratitude. I recall when he was the school's 2012 commencement speaker and sent the school his resume for the press release. One of his job attributes was "Responsible for the air sovereignty of the US and Canada." I recall joking with him about it, saying "seems you haven't really done anything important with your life?" He broke into a slow smile and said not as much as others. He was a humble leader of the utmost integrity. I now work for West Point and on a recent trip out to the Air Force Academy, we were texting back and forth. He told me to look closely at the Lance Sijan Glass Wall. He told me it was a major project of his and he "was fortunate to lead the construction of the Class of 1965's gift to AFA." Throughout his life he continue to give back and has left a lasting legacy. My sincere condolences go out to the Estes and Verbeck families. Be thou at Peace.

Tim Coffin

March 25, 2024

My condolences to the family. I worked for General Estes in his Commanders action group and briefly as his aid de camp before he retired from active duty. I credit him greatly in opening the doors for me to work in the space domain. Rest in peace.

Howell M. Estes, IV

March 24, 2024

Kalyn Medina

March 23, 2024

I´m glad this past year was filled with love and happiness for you. I will miss you and will cherish the memories we have together. Love you Grandad.

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Eileen Winder

March 23, 2024

Mr.Estes was a wonderful person to work with out at PAFB. May you rest in peace. God Bless your family.

Rosie

March 23, 2024

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Phyllis Bellamy

March 22, 2024

Phyllis Bellamy

March 22, 2024

Phyllis Bellamy

March 22, 2024

My name is Phyllis Bellamy and I´m the daughter of Mr. Earnest Green, retired M/Sgt. of the Air Force. My dad passed in February 2023 but he always considered Howell Estes on of his dearest friends. As far back as I can remember, he always pulled out pictures to show of Howell and of the Sr. Howell Estes to company. He was so proud to have worked for him. Howell Estes came to Chesapeake Virginia and picked up members of my family and took us to lunch. After that, he drove us to Albert Horton Veterans Cemetery to visit my mom. I will never forget that day. I´m happy to have witnessed and been a part of the friendship he and my dad shared. Sending prayers and love to his family. God bless and give you peace.

Clayton Kau

March 21, 2024

Your obituary was so well written and Howell's photo looking directly into your eyes brings back so many fond memories of my monthly meetings with him and LtGen Caruana at Northrop Grumman. He always asked me how he and Pat could help and would listen intensely and then share words of encouragement, recommendations, and background information that were priceless. He made me and everyone he met comfortable with his friendly personally and warm smile. I will always remember his sense of humor like his recounting his dreaded assignment to judge a kim chee contest in Korea and story telling about trying to look smaller so he would be allowed to fly an Air Force fighter jet. My sincerest condolences to his family. It was an absolute privilege to know and work with such a unique person and true patriot who spent his life making this country safe.

Nick Cyprus

March 21, 2024

To a mentor and great leader.
Will never forget the guidance and leadership.
Rest in piece my friend
Nick

Susan Estes

March 20, 2024

I am so proud to call you my father. I love you and miss you so much.

Adobe Creek Funeral Home

March 23, 2024

Our thoughts are with the family and friends at this time.

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