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Marguerite Foster Obituary

Marguerite Peet Foster passed away peacefully on Friday, June 7, 2013 at her beloved Rockwood Ridge Farm in Bluemont, VA. She was 87 years old. A memorial service is scheduled for 11:00am on July 27th at Saint John's Episcopal Church. She is survived by her four sons, Reginald C. Foster of Needham, MA, H. Peet Foster of Riverside, CT, Adam R. Foster of Bluemont, VA, Charles O. Foster of Friday Harbor, WA; three granddaughters, Katherine J. Foster, Frances P. Foster, Christine S. P. Foster; two grandsons, Samuel P. Foster, Austin K. Foster; three step grandsons, Phillip C. F. Devor, Christopher B. Devor, John R. Devor. Marguerite grew up on a farm that is now part of downtown Kansas City, Kansas. Riding was a lifelong passion. She competed both in jumping and dressage and fox hunted regularly with her father and his friends. The first woman in her family to attend college, Marguerite graduated from Smith College in 1947. She recalled her father's shock that the cost of educating a young girl was so dear at $1,500.00 a year. She completed her Masters of Education at Harvard University 1977. She met and married Rockwood H. Foster (aka "Adam") of Needham, MA in June of 1948 and moved to Washington, DC. While Adam worked in the Foreign Service of the State Department, Marguerite taught biology at Cathedral School for girls. When she was pregnant with her fourth child, Adam was transferred to London. Given only two weeks notice, Marguerite dutifully packed up the house and crossed the Atlantic eight months pregnant with three boys 2, 4, and 6 years old in tow. While living in London, she grew friendly with a group of bell ringers and later brought them over to Washington to ring the inaugural peal of the newly completed bell tower at The National Cathedral. After returning from London in 1960, she became very involved in many activities, clubs, and areas of public service, including hosting a mid-day television show at WTTG for the Junior League. Marguerite, Adam, and their four young boys started summering in Marion in 1961, initially co-renting with the Hugh Foster cousins, then buying their house on Allens Point Road. Marguerite was a longtime and active member of the Beverly Yacht Club, Kittansett Club, Sippican Tennis Club, Piney Point Beach Club, Sippican Lands Trust, and Marion Arts Center and was a founding Board Member of The Buzzards Bay Musicfest, which is held annually in July at Tabor Academy. From its modest beginnings in 1996, the Buzzards Bay Musicfest is headed into its 17th season of presenting several days of free concerts performed by top tier musicians from all over the country. A science teacher by vocation in the mid ‘60s, Marguerite returned to her lifelong passion as a teacher of Earth science at The Potomac School in McClean, VA. In the ‘80s, she was instrumental in starting the first computer lab at Potomac School. During the summers, she created an oceanography program out of the basement of her summer house in Marion, MA, zooming all over the inner and outer harbor with the children of friends, collecting specimens and studying marine habitats and ecosystems. In the early ‘70s, she persuaded Tabor Academy to add her program as a summer school elective, which she taught consecutively for the next thirteen years. It quickly became a popular and oversubscribed course and was the fore bearer of today's marine sciences program at Tabor. In later years, Marguerite became an active and dedicated member of the Tabor board, where her quiet leadership resulted in Tabor's magnificent Marine and Nautical Science Center, which opened in 2005. As a country girl from the midwest with no prior sailing experience, Marguerite plunged into the sailing scene, skippering her Herreschoff 12 in countless ladies' day races. For several years, she was involved with organizing the Junior Regatta and cruise and supporting the Buzzards Bay Regatta. Hundreds of visiting sailors have enjoyed a bed, breakfast, and Marguerite's wonderful hospitality at her house. Over the next sixty years, there was hardly a winter organization in Washington nor a summer activity in Marion that did not enjoy Marguerite's energetic, enthusiastic, and generous participation. She was active in with the National Zoological Society, the Smithsonian Women's Committee, and the Founders Board of St. John's Community Services, from whom she received the Pillow Lee award for her lifetime contributions. Even after she moved back to the farm life in Virginia in 2007, she continued to contribute her time, energy, financial support, meals, beds, and love to her friends, relatives, and students of all ages. Memorial services will be held at St. John's Church, Lafayette Square in Washington, DC on Saturday, July 27th, 2013 at 11:00am and at Tabor Academy in Marion, MA on Saturday, August 3, 2013 at 10:00am. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that contributions in her name be made to either: Peetwood Pavillion - 400 Blandy Farm Lane, Boyce, VA 22620 (540)837-1758 Johnson County Museum - 6305 Lackman Road, Shawnee, KS 66217 (913)715-2550 Buzzard's Bay Musicfest - P.O. Box 443, Marion, MA 02738

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Published by The Gazette on Jul. 24, 2013.

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Stephanie Stubbs Tinsley

July 24, 2013

To the Foater Family,

I'm so sorry to read of Marguerite's death. I knew of your wonderful wife, mother all of my life, because my parents were dear friends of hers, and Margo and Herb. I have a picture of me hanging in my home of me, painted by Margo. Our families were very close and enjoyed the Mission Valley Hunt and many other social events together. My mother, Josephine Stubbs, passed away in 2006, but I think of your family often. Please accept my deepest sympathy.

Sincerely, Stephanie Stubbs Tinsley, Sun City West, Az

Kathy Duncan Dean

July 23, 2013

Dear Charlie,
My thoughts are with you. Your mom was a spunky wonan - delightful on so many levels! She will be missed.
Always,
Kathy

Courtney Christensen

July 16, 2013

The City of Mission Hills, Kansas sends their condolences for the loss of such a fine woman and true philanthropist. I had the pleasure of meeting Mrs. Foster on a trip to the East Coast in 2001 and was able to personally thank her for her families contribution to the quality of life in our city. Peetwood Park is a charming arboretum that beautifies our city as does the historic Peet home.

Candace Lutzow-Felling

July 15, 2013

Marguerite P. Foster lived an active, abundant life dedicated to learning and teaching. She seamlessly interwove her interests in science and the arts and selflessly shared her personal and family resources to support these activities in all of the communities which she called home.
I met her in the latter years of her life when she and her son, Adam, were considering the construction and then ,the renovation of the Peetwood Pavilion for Environmental Science at the State Arboretum of Virginia. Her generous gifts to the Arboretum have touched the lives of many students and teachers and will continue to do so for many generations. Her joy of life, devotion to learning, and generosity will always be an inspiration to me. My life has been blessed by knowing Marguerite.

Rachel Stewart

July 14, 2013

If I'd never met Margo Foster, I might never have known of the C & O Canal Association. I shudder to think how confined my life might have been. She was the proud alumnae of a women's college. My daughter had applied for admission to that same college. Margo held a tea party one Spring afternoon to persuade such young women that they were special and that they should be in that very special college. I think they wanted to sure that some competitor college didn't snatch up these very bright youngsters. During conversation at that tea party, Margo complained that she'd had to interrupt the Through-Hike in order to host the party. When I asked what is a Through Hike, I got a concise but intriguing answer. The Through Hike is, of course, the two-week-long Springtime hike sponsored by the C & O Canal Association to commemorate the 1954 challenge by Supreme Court Justice Douglas to The Washington Post editors and other opinion-shapers regarding the future of the C & O Canal. The challenge was to walk the length of the towpath with him. Margo said a most unusual thing: that walking on the towpath hour after hour is so boring and so hard on leg muscles that she sometimes walked backwards or sideways just for the variety. I thought that if she was typical of members of the Association (smart, well educated, and quirky), I'd like to learn more. So I joined and went on the Heritage Hike that Fall. Margo was not there, but two women whom I'd known only through business were. We walked together and dined together, and I never looked back. Apart from that meeting, I think I never met Margo again. But I've always remembered her, and wish that I'd known her.

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