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Mike Oster
June 17, 2021
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Heidi, Jim, Erin and Jennifer Terrio
July 5, 2009
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
July 4, 2009
What moves through us is a silence, a quiet sadness, a longing for one more day, one more word, one more touch, we may not understand why you left this earth so soon, or why you left before we were ready to say good-bye, but little by little, we begin to remember not just that you died, but that you lived. And that your life gave us memories too beautiful to forget.
Joyce Cusack
June 29, 2009
Bob, Marilyn and Family,
My deepest sympathies and thoughts on the loss of Ian. May God give you strength in trying to understand and cope with your soulful ache.
Kris Young
June 29, 2009
Dearest Bob, Marilyn and Family -
I was so saddened when Bob Kayser emailed to let me know that you had lost your beloved son, Ian!! My heart hurts for you and I pray that Heavenly Father, your family and your friends can give you all comfort you need in this very difficult time of loss. I hope that one day you will be re-united with Ian in the eternities!!
Fondly,
Kris Young
June 27, 2009
I have seen many variations of this narrative to describe the passing of a loved one. I hope you enjoy it.
The Ship
A ship sails and I stand watching till it fades on the horizon and someone at my side says it is gone.
But it is only gone from my sight. It is still just as large and glorious now as when I last saw it. The diminished size and total loss from my sight is only in me, for at that same moment when I lose sight, there are others who are watching the ship come over their horizon, excited and celebrating a new ship arriving.
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June 27, 2009
Bob, Marylin and Family,
We can't begin to tell you how sorry we are to hear about Ian's passing. May God, family and friends be of comfort to you during this time. Take heart and take care.
Love,
Dan, Kathy and Matt Willemyns
Renee Milan
June 26, 2009
Dear Bob, Marilyn, Jordan and Michael:
Words cannot express how sad we were to hear about Ian's passing. He will forever live in our hearts as the happy-go-lucky young boy running with Allan in our backyard,playing hockey in our cul-de-sac, countless sleepovers and playing "you got teen spirit" on the guitar. They were the best of friends and distance did not affect the way the felt about each other. It was evident when they got together every time you came back to Chicago. May the love and support of your friends sustain you in these most difficult time.
You are and will remain in our prayers.
Love, The Milan Family
Allan Milan
June 26, 2009
Mr. and Mrs. Doig, Jordan, and Michael,
My deepest and most heartfelt sympathies are extended to all of you. Ian was the best among best friends anyone could ever have. I am completely grief-stricken over his loss; he will never be forgotten.
Julie Webb
June 26, 2009
Marilyn and family,
I'm so sorry to hear of Ian's passing. May God hold you in His arms of comfort.
June 25, 2009
Dear Marilyn and Bob,
We are so sorry. We love you - Chris and Curt
June 25, 2009
We are very saddened by the loss of Ian. Our thoughts are with all of you. Times like this are a great reminder to all of us to be thankful for your loved ones everyday. One never knows what tomorrow will bring.
Linda, Alex and Chris Warren
Anthony Scelsa
June 25, 2009
Dear Doig Family,
My heartfelt condolences go out you in this most difficult time. In growing up with Ian, I will always remember how good of a friend he was and the lasting impression he left on all who knew him.
June 25, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss. I am sending you all of my deepest condolences during this difficult time. Ian will be missed.
Bernie & Cecilia Ward & family
June 24, 2009
Dear Bob, Marilyn, Jordan & Mike:
Please accept our most sincere and heartfelt sympathies on the loss of your beloved Ian. It seems like only yesterday that you returned from the hospital with your newborn oldest son. Bob and Marilyn, you have always been such proud parents of Ian, Jordan and Mike. My, how the years have passed. This really hits close to home. While sweet memories and the passage of time will ease the pain of your tragic loss, know that we share your sorrow and that we are here for you at this difficult time.
June 24, 2009
Dear Bob, Marilyn, Jordan and Mike,
Ian touched so many lives. We are so sorry for your loss. He is in our daily prayers and thoughts during this difficult time.
Julie, Larry, Derek and Brett Klooster
Eileen Ryan
June 24, 2009
Dear Doig Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Eileen Ryan
Athan, Paula & Tip Loukakis
June 23, 2009
Dear Bob, Marilyn, Jordan and Mike,
May Our Father grant you peace and help you make it through these hard times. You'll be in our thoughts and prayers every day. Our condolences to you.
Ted Maynard
June 23, 2009
I am so sorry to learn of your loss; all my sympathy in this sad time.
June 23, 2009
Dear Marilyn & Bob,
I can't even express the sorrow that overcame me when I found out about Ian's death. I am so, so sorry. I wish there were something I could have done (or any of us could have done). Everyone in my whole family was totally blown away. You have the sympathies of each and every one of us. Please let me know if there is ANYTHING we can do ... anytime. Paul
June 23, 2009
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for your loss. May you draw comfort from our Heavenly Father in the words at 2nd Corinth. 1:3 & 4, "Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those in any sort of tribulation through the comfort with which we ourselves are being comforted by God." Your family and friends are in my prayers.
Sue Bessette
June 23, 2009
With deepest sympathy on the loss of your beloved Ian.
June 23, 2009
The staff and co-workers of Aunt Peg of Colville Confederated Tribes Behavioral Health program send our prayers and thoughts to your family.
Don, Patty and Aimee Gravette
June 23, 2009
Dear Doig Family,
We are terribly saddened by the loss of your son, Ian. He was a soft spoken young man with an enormous heart. Ian's empathy and subtle humor will live on in the memories of all in LEAD who knew him. We send our condolences to your entire family at this difficult time.
The Kasch Family
June 23, 2009
Marilyn & Bob: We are very saddened by your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you guys. If there is anything we can do to help during this time, please let us know.
Stephanie Branham
June 23, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. As a former Cheyenne student i can say Ian will be greatly missed and always remembered by us all. He was a wonderful man and i hope he finds peace.
Michael & Diane and Godson Patrick Michael Oster
June 23, 2009
Dear Bob & Marilyn, Mike and Jordan,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
I have always said that no parent should have to attend their child's funeral. I don't know God's plan that led to this tragedy, but we will find out when we are with Ian later.
Brittany Montuori
June 23, 2009
I've known Ian since high school, we were very close and he was by far the funniest person I've ever met! Everyone enjoyed his guitar playing and that infectious laugh. He was very talented and could make anyone smile. He must have went through 15 hacky-sacks a week back in the day! And I remember driving with him the first day he received his license..I will always cherish the memories and he will be missed dearly by everyone who knew him.
Darla Sorensen
June 23, 2009
Marilyn:
I am so shocked and saddened to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
June 23, 2009
Dear Marilyn, Bob, Mike and Jordan:
I can't imagine your pain and grief at the loss of your beautiful son and brother. I will always remember being in Ft. Myers with Pat and gang for our 40th and you and Bob were staying at a condo on the other side. You guys came up to the condo with Ian in a stroller and he was adorable. That evening we went to a restaurant with you guys and Ian slept like an angel. I remember just staring at him. When I saw his picture, he is just as beautiful as I recall. I pray that somehow you all find some kind of peace. I am so very, very sorry and my thoughts and prayers will be with you and Ian for a very long time.
Love,
Jackie (Hein)
Kevin & Ruby Haddock
June 23, 2009
Marilyn and Bob - Our deepest sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your sweet Ian. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May the memories of Ian in time heal your broken hearts.
Salle and David Howes
June 23, 2009
Dear Marilyn and Bob:
We were heart broken to learn of Ian's death. We remember Ian as a very thoughful and compassionate young man, and an asset to LEAD. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Mike, Cindy Simpson
June 23, 2009
we are so sorry to here about your loss
call us if you need anything
Mike & Cindy Simpson
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